Aww lovely, please, please don't feel bad, you haven't upset me at all. I knew it didn't come from a bad place, my eldest son is very quiet and serious and my youngest sounds very much like your friend.. you are lucky to have each other as best friends... I now wish I hadn't said anything... There is a clear difference between the hatred said by some influencers and your comment... Please, please don't feel bad... I am more than happy to delete my comment as I would hate it to play on your mind x
I think it doesnāt hurt to be reminded how something can sound from time to time. I think we knew it wasnāt meant as an insult but can also see how it could kind of fetishise having a gay best friend (bit strong, couldnāt think of the right word but hopefully know what I mean & probably not spelt that right either) and itās ok to call that out in case thatās what it was. We can then learn.
See this is where Truff could do with taking some tips, how to put points across without it turning in to a slanging and doxxing match.
This might have been covered already, Iām still catching up, but this is exactly what we are asking of Truff. Listen, learn and do better.
Youāve both explained yourselves and now understand the context etc. It was sorted in no time.