Yes, their comments are public so if they're going to dish out what do they expect?
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I think there’s a difference between here and on her Instagram though. Yes, she could come here and read but she’d have to actively seek it out whereas the people on Instagram are effectively sending it directly to her, she’s probably getting notifications about them and who knows what they’re dming to her. There’s nothing I’ve said here I wouldn’t say to an influencer in real life if the appropriate situation arose, but I wouldn’t randomly see them on the street and start screaming it at them which is what the comments are closer to.
Oh my word!!!! Look at Robin Williams, prime example of tears of a clown!!!
Maybe have a wee read about mental health, it's not all tears and lying in bed for days on end. It's smiling through the dark, empty void
It was more than a days work or one photo. Typical celeb.. can turn it on for the cameras and the money and as soon as they start getting comments that I they jump on the 'be kind' bus.
Like I said the new born stage it tough especially when they are poorly. I like Kate and feel for her but she needs to come off social media and completely concentrate on herself and the baby.
It was on their insta stories yesterday not just 1 photo. I'm not judgemental I'm just commenting on what I've seen. Like I said I feel for her but if it that bad then she shouldn't be on social media or filming a TV programme for mega bucks. She needs to step away and concentrate on herself and her baby. This is tattle and everyone on here is expressing their opinions this is mine.I really feel for her. Her recent IG post
How can you honestly tell from one photo? You're sounding really judgmental. So many people cover up PND when in the presence of others, I know I did.
I've had depression I know I don't need to read up about it. I know people can put a mask on. I think people are missing my point. They shouldnt be all look at us all happy filming for a TV reality show one day because its paying well and then ask people to understand how bad things really are the next.
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I think if someone wrote those comments on my Insta I’d be hurt too - and yes I would retaliate too. They’re possibly regretting signing up for the MTV show but then again she may have found it a good distraction and extra reason to get dressed/put face on for the day - it breaks up the monotony. Honestly having your first baby in a lockdown is that added layer of difficulty.
What's the MTV show about? I have no idea why someone would sign themselves up for something like that, especially with their first baby. So many things can go wrong and having to share your pregnancy and birth on a tv show just makes me think it's tempting fate too much.
Nobody knows if Kate has PND though. Struggling with a poorly newborn can be just that. It’s completely normal! I had a very poorly prem baby,also had a traumatic family bereavement at the same time and was heartbroken and hurt and tired and confused and yes,struggling,but I never had PND or depression of any sort. Yes mental health awareness is essential,but so is normalising life’s challenges.
Maybe but she’s just lowering herself to the same behaviour as them, by directing her followers to pile on. Mrs Hinch does the same and it’s appalling behaviour. She doesn’t mean ‘be kind’ she means ‘be quiet’ if you’re not kissing her arse. It was weird not to post about her baby on Mother’s Day and she knows that. She’s now saying it’s because people struggle with fertility and she didn’t want to upset them. Wtf? Absolute bollocks. If that was true then she would have said so on Mother’s Day.
I don't agree with any of the comments that were made on her insta and I don't care who she did or didn't post about on mother's day . I also never said once she was lying but that I was confused that for a TV show they were filming they appeared to be the opposite.
If someone is in a bad place then social media is the last place you need to be spending your precious time on.
Do you know me personally and know what MH struggles I may of had in my life.. Nope so don't tell me what I do and don't know about it!
Talking from experience, you really can
I don't think she's very well at all. Posting the dogs on mother's day was a massive cry for help, a red flag. Predictably it was picked up on by some people. Out of the hundreds of comments she picked out 2-3 dissenting voices, their comments obviously hitting a nerve. It sounds like she's got some good people around her supporting her. I hope things improve for her, it's really sad.
When I saw her insta posts I immediately assumed she had read this thread, never did i expect to see people calling out a new mother who is clearly struggling, underneath her posts. That's a bit much isn't it. Whether you "enjoy" the newborn stage or not, it's still a hugely emotional time. I look back on my own experiences with fondness, I think time has done that because they grow up so fast, but my goodness it didn't feel fast when they where tiny.
I can't imagine the stress of doing it all again during these weird covid days or when a baby is so poorly it needs medical treatment. I like Kate, I think she's funny, so I'm saddened to see her go through tough times. It is probably helpful for lots of people to know and understand that anyone can struggle, I just hope whoever is looking after Kate offers her support and she accepts it. There are lots of celebs and influencers who talk about their traumatic birth stories etc and I have rolled my eyes a plenty but I think this is a genuine situation.
I can't imagine the stress of doing it all again during these weird covid days or when a baby is so poorly it needs medical treatment. I like Kate, I think she's funny, so I'm saddened to see her go through tough times. It is probably helpful for lots of people to know and understand that anyone can struggle, I just hope whoever is looking after Kate offers her support and she accepts it. There are lots of celebs and influencers who talk about their traumatic birth stories etc and I have rolled my eyes a plenty but I think this is a genuine situation.
Our puppy (and his brother) came home to us when we had a week old baby. Poor timing but hands down the baby was easier! I'd have another baby but I'd never get another puppy 
I sympathise with Kate, she is obviously really struggling. Those newborn days can be so overwhelming at times. However I do think she is being hypocritical by hashtagging be kind while posting the names of the people who sent her those messages. She has 250k followers who could now be sending these people horrible comments and no they shouldn’t have sent them either but Kate could have still shown the messages she was getting but blanked out the names.
As for the MTV show, if it is a ‘reality’ show then hopefully they are actually sharing their reality of how much they are struggling rather than an airbrushed happy smiley version.
I do feel for Kate and I hope she has a lot of support and that in time she will find her rhythm and not feel so much like she is drowning in all the newborn chaos.
As for the MTV show, if it is a ‘reality’ show then hopefully they are actually sharing their reality of how much they are struggling rather than an airbrushed happy smiley version.
I do feel for Kate and I hope she has a lot of support and that in time she will find her rhythm and not feel so much like she is drowning in all the newborn chaos.
I have wondered if the show may be contributing to it, I imagine they’ll be “happy“ enough to share stressed footage regarding Noa being in hospital (I know they probably didn’t film there) but perhaps they’re pressuring Kate to be all happy and smiley the rest of the time for the camera, which would be hard for any new mum, never mind one who is struggling with a sickly baby.
New mum Kate Lawler admits she's in 'the darkest place'
The Big Brother star, 40, who gave birth to daughter Noa just a month ago, took to Instagram on Tuesday, after Trolls came for her over a Mother's Day post dedicated to her pet pooches
I hope she gets the help she needs and realises she's stronger than she thinks. Trolls should leave her alone and concentrate on their own sad existence in the world whilst hiding behind their keyboards, probably in their mothers basements.
Couldn’t have put it better myself.. they had such a great life, both having fun cooking on an evening etc and knowing she never even wanted children in the first place. I don’t know, I just hope she doesn’t regret it.. I really feel for her actually
She can do what she likes, I personally think it’s hypocritical to hashtag be kind when she is not being kind to them. I in no way think that they should be commenting those things to her but to play devils advocate, if all her followers now start sending these people abusive messages (and they know this will happen, it’s happened before when they have nastily commented back to people) then she is not being kind herself.
Unfortunately she has chosen to put herself and her life out there for everyone to see and have an opinion on and you are never going to only get nice comments.
The "dead behind the eyes" comment is from here. I did not see thay anywhere on her posts on Insta. Correct me if I am wrong.
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