I did, I truly didn't mean the way it may have sounded. It just rilled me up seeing Kate portraying her life as all sparkly and carefree before and now being milk stains and stained. Yes, that's parenting Kate and parenting can suck. But being a parent can be amazing, if that is the life you have chosen (which she has)I assumed the poster meant their life personally? I lived before I had kids and I live now. I just live a very different life right now. I loved my old life, I love my new life. I don’t think they meant a life isn’t truly lived if you don’t have kids.
If that is the case then a Tattle thread about a woman and her cold parenting won't be for them anyway.With all due respect I think this comment is quite insensitive to those that cannot or chose not to have kids? Maybe even triggering for those struggling with infertility. A life can be truly lived either way, both paths are valid
But you can make the choice to not have children? For your own mental health and the sake of would-be children. It’s the 21st century, (most) women have the freedom to exercise their right to not be a mum. And I admire any woman who has the self-awareness and strength of mind not to bow down to societal pressures to start a family if they know it’s not the right path for them.I’m reading the thread and sat here thinking
“That would be me as a mother”
I can relate so much - honestly I feel I’d be exactly the same. I love babies and think they’re cute but ugh I’m so ready to hand them back when they won’t stop crying or they puke. I much prefer animals. It’s been drummed into women than “it’s different when they’re yours” and that you’ll immediately feel a rush of love when you give birth. This IS NOT TRUE! I really do feel sorry for her and everyone judging her, she needs support.
Oh, and I better jump in here and say I don’t find breastfeeding obscene, I did it twice and I don’t mind a breastfeeding photo at all. But there was no discretion at all and it was done on purpose for shock value/engagementI don’t actually think she has PND because she seems to have more ‘ups’ than ‘downs’. When she’s playing with her dogs, walking her dogs, buying ice cream, working out, dicking around in bed with Boj while the Night Nanny is downstairs ... pretty much anytime she’s not with Noa she seems fine. She only complains when she’s with Noa. At least that’s the message in her content anyway...
I do agree, however, that she’s trying to get into the parenting niche on Instagram and possibly get some freebies and work with some companies .... the obscene breastfeeding photo could only be an attempt to wangle a couple of free Elvies surely? Plus if she’s got loads of #ADs to film in addition to going back to her radio job then she’ll DEFINITELY need to hire a full-time Nanny, right? This’ll be her main aim I’m sure!
Exactly this. I have 2 kids who I have never left even for a night. I feel like my life is on hold while I raise them and that’s fine. I wanted them. My best friend has chosen to remain child free and good for her. My sister is struggling with infertility, it’s shit, but she knows the journey that lays ahead.But you can make the choice to not have children? For your own mental health and the sake of would-be children. It’s the 21st century, (most) women have the freedom to exercise their right to not be a mum. And I admire any woman who has the self-awareness and strength of mind not to bow down to societal pressures to start a family if they know it’s not the right path for them.
kate was vocal for years that she wasn’t sure she wanted children, and even monetised her thoughts via a podcast. I can only deduce that given her age talking about maybe having babies into her 40s would have started being odd. And to stay relevant she’s decided to have a family and now she is going to play the whole “this is hard, I say it as it is, I’m a real mum, I’m a cool mum because I’m disinterested in my child”
people are judging because she publicly acknowledged her lack of desire to have a child, still chose to have one, and now can’t get away from her quick enough. It’s irresponsible. I don’t think she has PND one bit, she is just selfish. There’s a huge difference.
I've fucking told them both separately about clothing yet adequately. It's neglect, pure and simple. Pair of absolute gormless, selfish tramps.When I balance my posts against others I feel like I’m pretty pro kate. But crikey the new pics, Noa is in a romper... they’re in coats and hat. Pub and cafe gardens are bloody FREEZING right now... get her hoody back on, get a blanket out
“Noa has got herself into a routine”Her post about what a great day yesterday says it all. She had a great day because they could do what they wanted as Noa was no bother. She literally demonised a baby for being a baby. Oh Kate, just wait til she starts walking. You absolute detestable bell end.
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