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I don't know why he makes her sit on live with him. She may enjoy it so a short time would be fine. But why not go live when she is settled for the night in bed. It's all for sympathy and gifts he exploits her in my opinion. Just gives me creep vibes. Like is it an account to raise awareness for your daughter's condition and raising a disabled child. Or is it for him to flex his muscles and get attention 🤔
its 100% exploitation
Just found this thread today and so glad I did 👍 I knew I couldn’t be the only one who had these same views and opinions on this man. I’m sorry to say but I think he’s vile and exploits his daughter to the hilt from the posts and lives he does he totally controls Deedee, he says she is the boss and It’s her who wants to be on TikTok. Deedee is always looking at him for instruction on what to do on the posts he makes. He’s mentioned on his lives In front of deedee about her crying next thing Deedee starts crying and he by the way is shocked by this and tells her to stop! Deedee hangs off every word he says. There’s so many things to pick up from this man what he says and how he is is questionable in my eyes saying they were abused by his ex even to the point of sleeping in the park! Why would he allow that anyway when your daughter is disabled? He really paints a very bad picture about deedees mum and yes it could be 100% true we will never know but from a man that was totally traumatised from this relationship to what he seems to be now, doing calendars, a small acting part, coming on a social media platform half naked most times, putting a wish list on, go fund me page and showing his disabled daughter of for gifts just doesn’t add up to be this overly confident in that short space of time. There is no one who is going to say any different Deedee certainly can’t and he doesn’t have anyone else there with them to say differently to him. It’s like he doesn’t want anyone else there just him and Deedee as he has total control then. There are just so many red flags with this man, can fool some but not everyone.
I completely agree. Deedee really shouldn’t be on TT, she is vulnerable and cannot consent, she is mentally a child. It’s not appropriate, she absolutely does look to her Dad for cues.
I also get really bad feeling about the amount of (physical) gifts she is receiving I say this as, she doesn’t understand fully and it’s clear to see. She becomes extremely upset if a parcel is opened and it’s for John, she has learnt to almost expect every parcel is a gift for her and I just think it’s unfair on her and what it’s teaching/it won’t be forever it’s not always for her etc.

I actually hope DHB gets on his case but I bet he won’t, people are too scared
 
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its 100% exploitation


I completely agree. Deedee really shouldn’t be on TT, she is vulnerable and cannot consent, she is mentally a child. It’s not appropriate, she absolutely does look to her Dad for cues.
I also get really bad feeling about the amount of (physical) gifts she is receiving I say this as, she doesn’t understand fully and it’s clear to see. She becomes extremely upset if a parcel is opened and it’s for John, she has learnt to almost expect every parcel is a gift for her and I just think it’s unfair on her and what it’s teaching/it won’t be forever it’s not always for her etc.

I actually hope DHB gets on his case but I bet he won’t, people are too scared
Yes absolutely 👌 and I agree would love DHB to get onto it as he says it how it is and give him his due is pretty spot on 👍 this father gives no dignity to his disabled 20 year old daughter from telling everyone on lives mostly over a 1000 people she’s on her period and he shaves her personal parts… really is that something we need to know? Is that educational? Is that awareness? He wouldn’t have to do them very personal things for his 20 year old daughter if he let female carers help look after Deedee or even her sister who supposedly looks after deedee when he goes the gym but he won’t he wants to have all the praise and acknowledgment for doing these things but it’s wrong. A lot to f what he says about Deedee and how she can have a seizure but yet he’s lifting her up and spinning her around, jumping on top of her in the bed just for a post and the likes it’s will get. One minute he’s saying she’s a 20 year old just like any other and dressing her in low cut tops next thing he’s treating her like a 3 year old child I just don’t get it….
 
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I saw the vid where he says to her, you like doing tik toks don't you deedee. She then nods and says yes.
Well he's just asked her a question and gave her the answer at the same time. I also don't like the way he encourages her to hit him.
 
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Anyone know why someone's doing a GFM live tonight for John. Its Bonkers_yorkshirelass.
 
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Yes absolutely 👌 and I agree would love DHB to get onto it as he says it how it is and give him his due is pretty spot on 👍 this father gives no dignity to his disabled 20 year old daughter from telling everyone on lives mostly over a 1000 people she’s on her period and he shaves her personal parts… really is that something we need to know? Is that educational? Is that awareness? He wouldn’t have to do them very personal things for his 20 year old daughter if he let female carers help look after Deedee or even her sister who supposedly looks after deedee when he goes the gym but he won’t he wants to have all the praise and acknowledgment for doing these things but it’s wrong. A lot to f what he says about Deedee and how she can have a seizure but yet he’s lifting her up and spinning her around, jumping on top of her in the bed just for a post and the likes it’s will get. One minute he’s saying she’s a 20 year old just like any other and dressing her in low cut tops next thing he’s treating her like a 3 year old child I just don’t get it….
Not sure about DHB but I’ve heard Becks say in a live that it’s not right. People are cottoning on to this weird set up. He absolutely did not need to tell anyone that he has to shave her and claiming she is no different to any other 20 year old (his words) makes that worse ! 😕
 
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Not sure about DHB but I’ve heard Becks say in a live that it’s not right. People are cottoning on to this weird set up. He absolutely did not need to tell anyone that he has to shave her and claiming she is no different to any other 20 year old (his words) makes that worse ! 😕
I was in his live few months back and he said he’s has todo personal care like shaving her private area and changing her pads,he mentions it all the time
 
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I actually can’t believe johns got a go fund me going for a bloody holiday! It’s weeks after Christmas for christs sake! He should save up like the rest of the world have too. What’s he spend all the money he gets from gifts on?! Put that to a holiday maybe? Absolutely ridiculous the more he pops on my fyp the more I can’t stand him. How’s he gunna cope abroad he can’t even take her out the house for a walk
 
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I actually can’t believe johns got a go fund me going for a bloody holiday! It’s weeks after Christmas for christs sake! He should save up like the rest of the world have too. What’s he spend all the money he gets from gifts on?! Put that to a holiday maybe? Absolutely ridiculous the more he pops on my fyp the more I can’t stand him. How’s he gunna cope abroad he can’t even take her out the house for a walk

This is my thoughts exactly.
How would he cope? The insurance alone would be astronomical. Then there’s the fact he does duck all with her, or is this going to be a holiday where he brings his other daughter to mind her while he enjoys the holiday more like? I’m so sick of people quite obviously begging and using their child to get what they (the adult) want. It’s different if it’s equipment or something but….

also she gets so so many gifts and he must know there’s vulnerable people on TT not too far alike to DeeDee that will spend their money on them.. it happens so much!
 
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He is so controlling there is not a chance he was ever abused by anyone never mind saying his ex made him and deedee sleep in a park that's more something he would do

Yes absolutely 👌 and I agree would love DHB to get onto it as he says it how it is and give him his due is pretty spot on 👍 this father gives no dignity to his disabled 20 year old daughter from telling everyone on lives mostly over a 1000 people she’s on her period and he shaves her personal parts… really is that something we need to know? Is that educational? Is that awareness? He wouldn’t have to do them very personal things for his 20 year old daughter if he let female carers help look after Deedee or even her sister who supposedly looks after deedee when he goes the gym but he won’t he wants to have all the praise and acknowledgment for doing these things but it’s wrong. A lot to f what he says about Deedee and how she can have a seizure but yet he’s lifting her up and spinning her around, jumping on top of her in the bed just for a post and the likes it’s will get. One minute he’s saying she’s a 20 year old just like any other and dressing her in low cut tops next thing he’s treating her like a 3 year old child I just don’t get it….
Omg I cant believe he has been shaving her private parts that sick 😳
 
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I actually can’t believe johns got a go fund me going for a bloody holiday! It’s weeks after Christmas for christs sake! He should save up like the rest of the world have too. What’s he spend all the money he gets from gifts on?! Put that to a holiday maybe? Absolutely ridiculous the more he pops on my fyp the more I can’t stand him. How’s he gunna cope abroad he can’t even take her out the house for a walk
Yes he’s had that up for a while now! There was a live tonight for his go fund me to help towards the holiday to Australia! This is no way aimed at Deedee bless her, my heart goes out to her 🙏💜 she is an amazing young woman, but there are also children/young adults with disabilities even doing things themselves to raise money for a charity and this man has the audacity to want an expensive holiday to Australia! You would just be so grateful for the monetary gifts you already receive on a daily basis from your followers. As you so rightly said why doesn’t he save up for the holiday himself as he is saving money on not having to buy Deedee any gifts plus all the monetary gifts he gets on his lives. I’m just truly bewildered!! I really feel for other parents/parent who have a child with a disability who get no extra help whatsoever and cannot take their child on such an expensive holiday.

He is so controlling there is not a chance he was ever abused by anyone never mind saying his ex made him and deedee sleep in a park that's more something he would do



Omg I cant believe he has been shaving her private parts that sick 😳
No he certainly doesn’t come across as a timid abused man, he’s fame hungry and craves the attention he’s now getting.
 
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Yes he’s had that up for a while now! There was a live tonight for his go fund me to help towards the holiday to Australia! This is no way aimed at Deedee bless her, my heart goes out to her 🙏💜 she is an amazing young woman, but there are also children/young adults with disabilities even doing things themselves to raise money for a charity and this man has the audacity to want an expensive holiday to Australia! You would just be so grateful for the monetary gifts you already receive on a daily basis from your followers. As you so rightly said why doesn’t he save up for the holiday himself as he is saving money on not having to buy Deedee any gifts plus all the monetary gifts he gets on his lives. I’m just truly bewildered!! I really feel for other parents/parent who have a child with a disability who get no extra help whatsoever and cannot take their child on such an expensive holiday.


No he certainly doesn’t come across as a timid abused man, he’s fame hungry and craves the attention he’s now getting.
Also not to be ableist, but wouldn’t it be impossible for her to travel to Australia? Airlines won’t let people board intoxicated as they wouldn’t be able to act appropriately in an emergency situation. Surely a 24+ hour journey would be logistically impossible?! She can barely sit through a tiktok live for a few hours without having seizures god bless her. Putting her through a journey like that would be abuse.
 
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Also not to be ableist, but wouldn’t it be impossible for her to travel to Australia? Airlines won’t let people board intoxicated as they wouldn’t be able to act appropriately in an emergency situation. Surely a 24+ hour journey would be logistically impossible?! She can barely sit through a tiktok live for a few hours without having seizures god bless her. Putting her through a journey like that would be abuse.
Well according to her dad he hasn’t even really looked into it… so if that’s the case why is the go fund me set at £5000 I think it is. It was mentioned to him about taking Deedee to Disneyworld Paris but he came up with one excuse or another. Deedee loves koala bears so that’s the reason he wants to take her there, nothing to do of course with him wanting to go to the other side of the world to see friends as I’m pretty sure I heard him say that on a live he has friends there. The way Deedee is with her seizures that would scare me to put her through a flight for that long when he has never done that before so I would think that could be quite a risky thing to do.
 
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Well according to her dad he hasn’t even really looked into it… so if that’s the case why is the go fund me set at £5000 I think it is. It was mentioned to him about taking Deedee to Disneyworld Paris but he came up with one excuse or another. Deedee loves koala bears so that’s the reason he wants to take her there, nothing to do of course with him wanting to go to the other side of the world to see friends as I’m pretty sure I heard him say that on a live he has friends there. The way Deedee is with her seizures that would scare me to put her through a flight for that long when he has never done that before so I would think that could be quite a risky thing to do.
He’s absolutely deluded and just wants cash.
 
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He will be raking it in with her disability money and his caring money. Now he has the gifts, content pay, wish lists and a gfm. Pure and utter greed.
It is disgusting he talks about her personal care. She could be put on contraception to stop her periods and realistically she doesn't need shaving especially down below.
 
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Also not to be ableist, but wouldn’t it be impossible for her to travel to Australia? Airlines won’t let people board intoxicated as they wouldn’t be able to act appropriately in an emergency situation. Surely a 24+ hour journey would be logistically impossible?! She can barely sit through a tiktok live for a few hours without having seizures god bless her. Putting her through a journey like that would be abuse.
This is exactly what I was thinking too. That is a long arse flight for anybody! It's dangerous if she regularly has seizures and mentally it will be so hard for her to just sit still for that long. There is some amazing places closer. Why not Disney land Paris she would love that with all the characters and stuff. It's a dream holiday of HIS not for the benefit of poor Dee Dee
 
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He will be raking it in with her disability money and his caring money. Now he has the gifts, content pay, wish lists and a gfm. Pure and utter greed.
It is disgusting he talks about her personal care. She could be put on contraception to stop her periods and realistically she doesn't need shaving especially down below.
Contraception might cause bigger problems - there's some pretty harsh side effects obviously differing from person to person. With all her medication already it might be exhausting to add another to the list. But I do think Dee Dee should have a professional female carer and it would allow her to see at least one more person. She must get so bored of the same thing day in day out! :cry:
 
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