I think a huge amount of young girls feel they can relate to Dianne they absolutely say it to her all the time, it's just a small thought not a criticism .
But she does say it on an insta live where she was doing her make up, she had a spot, she actually pointed it out and says no one is perfect and at the start of one of her tour vlogs she says something along those lines.
I don't mind about the cosmetic work, she is in a highly competitive industry we're sadly women aren't just looked at for their dance talents but for their hot bodies and pretty faces. She clearly feels the need to use botox etc. Cause she knows there are 100s of dancers who would kill for her spot on strictly.
What is sad, is how she lets Joe put her down and just tries to laugh it of as a joke. And before anyone comes back with Joe doesn't mean any harm, he does it to all his mates, dianne doesn't seem to mind, that's not my point. My point is Joe does this on insta, twitter and in vlogs, it's not just private its for the world to see. And I just feel it really shows a joe has a lack of respect for her in this regard.
The fact she makes jokes about it, is just a coping mechanism, so she doesn't have to feel hurt. Joe may not mean any harm and is just making jokes, but there is only so many jokes people can take before they start believing it and I think Dianne has already started to believe it as she does put herself down an awful lot in their vlogs recently.
As for the minions they treat Dianne like she is an incapable, innocent child because they see Joe doing it.
It's quite sad to see Dianne dumbing herself down, so Joe can feel smart and get an ego boost. She's worked hard, built her own career, travelled the world, she may not be book smart but she can clearly look after herself and is regarded highly by the other pro dancers, so to see Joe treating her like a child half the time and the other half looking like he wants to bed her there and then isn't good viewing. But it also shows that even though she is at the top of her career she still has a load of insecurities.
I personally think Dianne could do better than Joe, but they are both adults so the relationship will last as long as they want it to.