Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

[hol20x]

At no point does she actually take any accountability for anything. She doesn't acknowledge that she was a nightmare to work with and was bringing everyone else down. Even with the blackfishing, she plays the victim.

Zion comes across like a total sweetheart and I hope she still has his support even though they aren't together now. He's very calm and chilled which is what she needs in her life. In the last episode of the documentary the two of them move to Cornwall with the babies, I wonder if she's still there now that they've split up.

She does seem to have really found her calling with the babies and it's nice to see how much she loves being a mum.

 

[HoneyBee29]

At no point does she actually take any accountability for anything. She doesn't acknowledge that she was a nightmare to work with and was bringing everyone else down. Even with the blackfishing, she plays the victim.

Zion comes across like a total sweetheart and I hope she still has his support even though they aren't together now. He's very calm and chilled which is what she needs in her life. In the last episode of the documentary the two of them move to Cornwall with the babies, I wonder if she's still there now that they've split up.

She does seem to have really found her calling with the babies and it's nice to see how much she loves being a mum.

yea I thought the same. I am sympathetic towards the situation with the kids but I still think she’s a hat tbh

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

I know she loves a bad bad boy, but all her exes seem okay

 

[KINGAA]

At no point does she actually take any accountability for anything. She doesn't acknowledge that she was a nightmare to work with and was bringing everyone else down. Even with the blackfishing, she plays the victim.

Zion comes across like a total sweetheart and I hope she still has his support even though they aren't together now. He's very calm and chilled which is what she needs in her life. In the last episode of the documentary the two of them move to Cornwall with the babies, I wonder if she's still there now that they've split up.

She does seem to have really found her calling with the babies and it's nice to see how much she loves being a mum.

I think this was the only time she took accountability:

 

[GingerJones50]

I’m watching now, I think I her problem is fame and no little mix. Her family are blaming everything on that really but the issue is fame and that won’t ever change. The issue will remain for however long she wants to remain a public figure.

But she’s so determined to hang on to and preserve that fame! I think coming from a very close and possibly slightly enmeshed family might have contributed. People from family’s like that often have problems launching into adulthood where not everybody is adoring and thinks they’re perfect. I think she would probably have had problems with that working in an office, so she will have had it x 1000 being a public figure.

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

This is the video I was talking about the other day. What a dismissive attitude.
The video at the bottom where she mentions Leigh-Anne

 

[Jennytea]

This is the video I was talking about the other day. What a dismissive attitude.
The video at the bottom where she mentions Leigh-Anne

She’s completely self involved and thinks she’s the only person whose feelings matter. She has proved it time and time again and that’s why she is always the victim in whatever happens.

 

[BugglyWuggly]

She’s completely self involved and thinks she’s the only person whose feelings matter. She has proved it time and time again and that’s why she is always the victim in whatever happens.

From watching the documentary I think a lot of that is her mother's doing. Lovely lady but she obviously over compensated for her own difficult upbringing. I imagine Zion leaving isn't as much of a big deal either because her mum does everything for her and the babies. He wasn't needed.

 

[chazzlechuzzle]

When they were driving down to move to Cornwall and Jesy said something like "we will be completely on our own for the first time" and Zion replied along the lines of "I really cant wait for THAT" - I thought it was pretty telling that he was keen to not live with her mother. What ended up happening in the Cornwall house? I know she lives with her mum again, did her mum move there or did Jesy move back to Essex?

 

[Beth1980]

Just on episode 4 now and while I feel for Jesy regarding the girls there were things skipped over IE before she got pregnant they had split up before getting back together so not one big love story.
After leaving LM (due to being in a really dark place) she didn't leave much time to release her solo stuff and the issues around this( and the single itself ) wasn't addressed, but that maybe the production choice and not Jesy's.
Zion came across more mature than what I had previously seen and I felt sorry for him when he was talking to his mum about being strong and I wanted her to give him a hug, hope he got and gets a lot of support too as dad can be forgotten about.

 

[Sunflower91]

She comes across as the type of person that has really high expectations of the people around her in terms of support. But without the awareness that sometimes people can get frustrated supporting people with mh problems, that sometimes they have to put on their own oxygen mask before being able to support someone else and sometimes people recognise when they are not the best person/ trained psychologists so are unable to help. Just because the others seemed to tolerate and handle life much better doesn’t mean they’re able to always take on her emotional load.

 

[veevee04]

Didn't like her myself, however wouldn't wish SMA on my worst enemy I understand her campaigning. The diagnosis was delayed until the twins were 6 months old 90 percent of the motor neurones die by 6 months you can't grow them back even with the gene therapy if there was newborn screening her babies might have been able to walk now they are needing Bipap at and NG tube Jesy herself said they might never be able to lift up their own heads they are severely affected by this and it's both babies. Just awful the sooner they do the newborn screening the better.

 

[Twinkle6]

Where the duck has she got the energy for all this promo btw? Just get on with your life and stop rehashing the deflections and delusions

 

[redstraw16]

She really stepped around all accountability for this and just discussed how it made her feel.

“It’s just one of them things…”

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

Maybe she should have listened when the girls tried to tell her

 

[forgotmyacc]

I had to root this article out because I remember this happening. I supported her up until this and did feel people were just out to get her. But this shows she knew exactly what she was at.

She showed up at the jungle bell ball 2 months after her video came out wearing a jacket from the label Market Black but by pure coincidence her hair was covering the word market

Verifying Device

 

[Jennytea]

I had to root this article out because I remember this happening. I supported her up until this and did feel people were just out to get her. But this shows she knew exactly what she was at.

She showed up at the jungle bell ball 2 months after her video came out wearing a jacket from the label Market Black but by pure coincidence her hair was covering the word market

Verifying Device

This was WILD at the time you can’t convince me she was this unaware and stupid . It’s also she clips of when she was sat talking to Nicki on live with the fake curls chucked up, dark tan and overly drawn lips where she’s saying they mentioned it to her before splitting. She admits to fully being aware of it before the backlash but still carried on blackfishing!!

 

[Beth1980]

I wouldn't be shocked if whoever said 'are you done now' or however Jesy worded it was when the others were trying to explain the blackfishing issue and they realised they were not being heard and understood and not the convo about her mental health/leaving the group.

 

[forgotmyacc]

I wouldn't be shocked if whoever said 'are you done now' or however Jesy worded it was when the others were trying to explain the blackfishing issue and they realised they were not being heard and understand and not the convo about her mental health/leaving the group.

I just imagine that she was difficult to work with from the beginning.
She got the worst of the bad press absolutely but I just feel she was draining to be around all the time. It's not fair on what are essentially your work colleagues to have to pander and tip toe around you 24 / 7 .
Yes your friends should be there for you if you are going through a rough patch but it gets to the point when you need professional help.

 

[newtoyou]

I’m sad they didn’t show or mention the jingle bell ball, are you readdddaaaay. I wonder if she’s too upset by it still