Adhd is in no way correlated with how good one is at being a parent. We need to stop this narrative. Yes she probably has it. No it doesn't have anything to do with how tit she is as a mother.
Mmm disagree to an extent. Undiagnosed and unmedicated adhd would exarcebate a lot of sypmotoms of adhd, which would likely lead to more obstacles in a achieving good quality parenting.
ADHD is a spectrum in terms of some people experience symptoms at varying levels, and often at varying times in their life. Things like lack of sleep, poor nutrition, stress etc are some things that exarcebate symptoms.
I do think that (suspected) ADHD aside she doesn’t enjoy parenting, clearly favours one child, had GD with Bowie, and resents her kids rather than enjoys watching them grow. I’m just mindful the above statement feels quite dismissive of those in this forum that do have ADHD. It Is challenging and does impact the way we parent, just some of us chose to act on it, reflect, work on our weaknesses, and play to our awesome strengths as parents with adhd (playful, creative, great in crisis).