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Anyone else obsessing about her radio silence?! How long has it actually been now since she’s posted ANYTHING?!
It really is strange. Hopefully all is ok, assuming it is she knows her followers would love a catch up or at least know whether she's had a girl or boy.
 
It really is strange. Hopefully all is ok, assuming it is she knows her followers would love a catch up or at least know whether she's had a girl or boy.
All the comments on her posts are ‘checking everyday’ ‘please let us know you’re okay’ it is worrying but also wtf???
 
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Anyone else obsessing about her radio silence?! How long has it actually been now since she’s posted ANYTHING?!

She's posted two videos but they were definitely scheduled, so the last time she really posted anything was a month and a half ago
 
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So assuming that the YouTube and TikTok videos were scheduled which is likely then she hasn’t been active for a month?! Such a long time to drop off the face of the planet for.
It’s not that uncommon for her. Like someone else said she knows her fans will come back everyday in anticipation and worry which = ££££ for her because it’s all engagement. She gets the best of both worlds, more engagement on her SM and time away from it with her bab.
 
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Bit random but does anyone know her brothers name or her surname? Was thinking of doing some digging.
 
She’s trolling us at this point
I just think.. if it's privacy she wants, fine! I'm sure that will be respected! But to not even tell your followers the baby has arrived safely? It just seems so unusual for someone who has shared the whole journey online. Why keep your followers in the dark?
I'm going to think positive - perhaps they haven't decided on a name and that's why they are silent.
 
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I just think.. if it's privacy she wants, fine! I'm sure that will be respected! But to not even tell your followers the baby has arrived safely? It just seems so unusual for someone who has shared the whole journey online. Why keep your followers in the dark?
I'm going to think positive - perhaps they haven't decided on a name and that's why they are silent.
There is the possibility the baby hasn’t arrived safely, so people probably need to give it a rest.
 
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There is the possibility the baby hasn’t arrived safely, so people probably need to give it a rest.
Hearted because.. I've been really rooting for them both. They're such a lovely couple. Really hoping for the best for them.
 
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There is the possibility the baby hasn’t arrived safely, so people probably need to give it a rest.
If everything is ok and baby has been delivered safely (which I hope it has) she really has left it a long time to update followers. It only takes 2 mins to upload a photo and followers would be happy. Truly hope all is ok.
 
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Her latest TikTok is a bit odd as she’s got no bump so either sharing a very old video or she’s filmed this week yet hasn’t posted about the baby.

I don’t actually know how quickly you lose the bump fyi but seems strange to post a video so old that you have no bump at all.

Edit. The video was posted 4 hours ago.
 

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I get that people are concerned especially after what happened to them before but I think people are also over estimating how much she "cares" about her subs, at the end of the day she is doing a job that's all, I agree with other comments about her radio silence getting her more attention and engagement people will most probably go back to her old vlogs and rewatch
Of course we all hope everything is well with them but if she wants to update anybody she will I mean irl you wouldn't be updating your colleagues every 5 minutes would you
 
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I get that people are concerned especially after what happened to them before but I think people are also over estimating how much she "cares" about her subs, at the end of the day she is doing a job that's all, I agree with other comments about her radio silence getting her more attention and engagement people will most probably go back to her old vlogs and rewatch
Of course we all hope everything is well with them but if she wants to update anybody she will I mean irl you wouldn't be updating your colleagues every 5 minutes would you
Definitely not, but personally I did send a ‘baby and mum recovering well, will share more details when we’re ready’ type message just so people weren’t concerned.

I think most people asking/checking are genuinely just concerned, especially with her previous late loss, and I don’t think that’s unreasonable. She doesn’t owe us any information, but I personally think it would have been in better taste to have said beforehand that they’d go offline for a few weeks/months once baby arrives just so people know to expect it.
To me, the lemonade gummy bears is a VERY old video, the trend is really old so can’t imagine she’s filmed it post pregnancy. Some (lucky🤣) women’s bumps Do go down that fast but it seems unlikely that she’d be in a rush to film an old trend, especially if they are just trying to soak up the newborn bubble.
 
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I think it’s an old video too, she wore those pjs for some other trend video (or one of her vlogs?) early on in her pregnancy and they’ve probably not been seen again 😂

I hope she’s just busy and just enjoying the newborn bubble and that both her and baby are okay !

Another birth was probably quite traumatic for her and probably brought back things from what happened with her first
 
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I looked on her Instagram at when she announced her pregnancy. It was 30th October but, didn't say how far on she was. If she was 12 weeks, she would now be 36 weeks gone but, with her losing the first little one at quite an advanced stage, I'm inclined to think she waited until 18 weeks....she would now be 42 weeks. My niece wasn't induced until her 42nd week (and ended up with a c-section) so, Jaz might only have just had the baby in theory
 
This is it, we don’t know if she’s had the baby yet and if she has, we have no way to know how it went. However it’s gone I’m sure the last thing on her mind is updating the internet. Especially if it’s been difficult or c-section or whatever.

It’s one thing to send a text to family and close friends - which Nick can do. Why she’s being expected keep followers in the loop is beyond me and wanting to know names to invade her family’s privacy?? 🥴

It doesn’t matter if social media is her job or whatever. Be real. It doesn’t need to be her priority to make a post if she’s just had a baby or whatever the situation is. Regardless of how much followers want her to make a post she isn’t obligated to and everyone can have their opinion about that.

And if her silence is calculated, it’s hardly the first time.
 
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I don't know why anyone here is surprised, it's the way influencers work. Either something bad has happened (and I sincerely hope not) or she's just playing the influencer game. I do feel for her followers though because you can see in the comments that they're clearly worried.

In their eyes, she's taken them along for the whole journey (the big announcement, the baby shopping vlogs, clothing hauls, bump photo updates, packing the hospital bag) so they're obviously worried that around the time she would be due to give birth, it's radio silence. For someone who was adamant they would be vlogging their birth, it would be odd for them to expect her to want privacy.

It's just the influencer culture, sadly. Her audience are largely made up of young vulnerable people who likely see her as a friend, so she'll monetise that when it suits her and leave them in the dark at the right time to up her engagement.

Like someone said, it would take 2 seconds for her to post a story saying "all is well, we're just taking some time as a family" but doing that would stop people commenting on her posts every day.
 
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