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Spencerskates

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How awful, we found out that we were pregnant a few days before she did, according to that announcement video. I can’t even imagine being as pregnant as I am and the baby being stillborn (she’s past ‘miscarriage’ stage, not that that matters). The worst kind of heartbreak 😭
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See this is why I just don’t think things like this should be posted online, not something I would ever do but I get why it’s done, with influencers in particular as they want all the pregnancy content etc but I just feel like it must be hard enough to deal with on a personal level just you and your family, let alone when it’s all over the internet for people to see, you just never know what’s going to happen sadly :( I do genuinely feel sad for her though, she seems like a nice girl and you could tell from her video how much it meant to them, def very sad news for them both :(
To offer an alternate POV, we announced early - every (wanted) pregnancy deserves to be celebrated, their life matters no matter how long it lasts. Sure, having a big audience complicates that slightly, but on the positive, there’s a good chance that they’ll get support from charities etc that they wouldn’t have if they never announced their pregnancy. They waited a long while to announce, I know it happens, but no one expects to lose a baby at 25 weeks.
 
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Tippingpoint23

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See this is why I just don’t think things like this should be posted online, not something I would ever do but I get why it’s done, with influencers in particular as they want all the pregnancy content etc but I just feel like it must be hard enough to deal with on a personal level just you and your family, let alone when it’s all over the internet for people to see, you just never know what’s going to happen sadly :( I do genuinely feel sad for her though, she seems like a nice girl and you could tell from her video how much it meant to them, def very sad news for them both :(
See I don’t agree and it’s this mindset which makes it harder for people to publicly talk about miscarriage / baby loss. There’s nothing shameful about a miscarriage and people should be openly and freely able to share online what they go through the highs and lows if they want to. she may seek comfort in knowing she’s not alone and has all this extra love in a time like this rather than mourning in secret / private.
 
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-eira-

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I do wish she had spoken more about it, so many people love her and watch her videos and it probably would have helped so many people together and brought some comfort, I can’t even imagine how hard it has been for them but it just kinda feels like she’s trying to erase everything
I don’t think it’s appropriate to expect her to go against what she’s comfortable with sharing after a pregnancy loss just to make others feel better. If she needs to not speak about it right now then that’s what she needs to do and I think we should all respect that.
 
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spongey

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I had a wee cry at the video too, I'm really happy for them.

I do hope she deals with this sensitively though, for all the people out there on the same journey who haven't had their happy ending yet. It was a bit of a jump going from the sad "why me" clips, even going to the extent of saying it really upsets her seeing other people post pregnancy announcements, to all of a sudden in the present day, "I'm pregnant, I can't believe it, I've got loads of vlog content to upload, k bye."

I know she always ends her videos abruptly but it just left a bad taste in my mouth, considering she's had about 4 months to think about it 😝
 
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Lizz17uk

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I watched her video, must have been incredibly hard to post that and I have a lot of respect for her doing so and sharing what happened, you often only get the positives online with lots of things and while I would never wish what happened on anyone I do think her sharing will help others potentially. I have always thought her and Nick seemed like a lovely couple, I’m genuinely really sad for them :(
 
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calmyourritas

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I don’t get the whole “you shouldn’t share things online just in case something bad happens”… you would still share a new car even though you could crash.. or getting a pet even though it might die?

Really, really sad news 😢
 
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WhatABore

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I'm new to her (from seeing a link on another thread) - she has gone through hell with her stillbirth and I cried for her. I picked up some odd bits every time she went for a scan - a couple of times she was told 'something wasn't quite right'. I was 30 when I had my first born and the radiologist didn't say 'something isn't quite right' - they explained at that scan that they thought my daughter had Down's syndrome. I was booked in for more scans and tests - all came back negative. Did Jasmin have a stillbirth or did she have to be induced due the baby having a low chance of survival ? It's not been made clear.... I was thinking the latter with the 'something not quite right' comments. It would help others if one day in the future, she is able to talk through what happened to help other women in the same situation. We treat still birth as a taboo topic. I hope her and Nick get their rainbow baby one day .....
She didn't go into any detail about what happened.
Maybe she will in time, who knows. I can imagine it's quite raw for them at the moment as its only been a few months.

I did notice she's removed both the pregnancy and loss post from her Instagram
 
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This has been playing on my mind since she announced it, I’m pregnant with my first and overly anxious. It’s just so bloody cruel, my heart breaks for them both.
 
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athenlel

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I am genuinely heartbroken for them both. I’m so sad we probably won’t get to see Nicks reaction to the pregnancy too because I just know that would have been the most amazing beautiful moment. I don’t normally cry at pregnancy announcements but her reaction at the end of her last video was just so magical, I feel awful for them.
 
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Chewycinema

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This bit got me more than most of it for some reason. I was holding in the tears until then
I was the same. I can't imagine how awful it will be for jaz when her friends baby is born not long before her boy should have been. The friend will probably feel guilty too. Not that these things can be helped and its unfortunately something that does happen its just so heartbreaking 💔
 
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FlipFlop0706

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Watched it this morning and cannot praise her enough for sharing what is no doubt one of the most horrendous moments of her life. Seeing their excitement broke me.

Heartbreaking.

I hope they are both getting all the support they need to get through this and wish them all the best going forward ♥
 
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I’m glad she posted the video, I really respected her saying that she didn’t want to just pretend none of it had happened.

that baby was clearly so wanted and so loved, broke my heart watching it.
 
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spongey

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Sorry to be that guy (actually I'm not...), but what does she do with all those Halloween costumes?! It's just so ridiculously wasteful. Do they just get worn once then thrown away? She seems to get a new batch of 7 or 8 costumes each year, purely just for a mildly amusing video.

It's 2021, surely it's about time influencers started taking responsibility and addressing what happens to their purchases. It might make them think twice and maybe prevent young impressionable viewers from being wasteful too. One of the costumes was literally a suit made out of bubble wrap, I mean come on 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I think Jazz is great, and she is by no means the worst offender, but I just feel let down by that costume video and the lack of awareness of what is going on in the world.
 
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I’m intrigued to know more about what made her go to a fertility specialist, it seemed she had only been trying a couple of months although I wonder if they were trying for much longer. I’m happy for her.
 
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kimh90

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Jazz just uploaded a new video. The first few minutes (only watched that so far). Her and Nick seem so happy about the baby :(
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22 weeks so far along:(
 
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Lizz17uk

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I just saw her post, I am not into babies or pregnancy content etc but I’ve always enjoyed her videos and they seem like a lovely couple, I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, that’s such sad news for them :(
 
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kittypaws

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bringing this thread back from the dead 🤣 i find it weird how kiddified her channel is considering her age. And every video is exactly the same!!!!
 
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