Jazzybum

[Yupyupyup]

It feels like some of you just want something to complain about in all honesty. Us normies going through that kind of loss wouldn’t be getting asked about it very day or it getting discussed by randoms over and over again. Whether she chose this career or not doesn’t matter, it’s still extremely difficult and odd scenario to deal with in her shoes. Jazzy does my nut in and has many things bitchable about her, but this is something she gets some grace from in my eyes. Grief is a complex emotion, I’m not going to shit on her for not wanting to make her rainbow baby feel like their entire existence is about their sibling who never got to be.

 

[Anonymous9019]

As another mum who has lost her first born, I really feel for Jazz with the comments in here. All of this is another first but in a different manner. Just because she has birthed a baby before doesnt make it her only first, this is the first baby she is taking home in a car seat. I also didn't take my baby home in a car seat but when I took my second home in a car seat that was my first. Her first birth which resulted in a healthy baby. Why do we feel the need to judge just because we don't see it as a first, she does and that's her way of coping. Stop with the making her feel guilty. How awful would you feel if you lost a baby and was constantly judged as to if u remembered them or not. Of course she remembers him. She's a mum. When someone asks me how many children I have I have to say one because it's too hard talking about my loss that doesn't mean I forgot my first child. So yes she put first because she doesnt want the questions. You dont no what shesbfeeling on a day to day basis. Leave the girl alone. It's hard enough without facing comments like these.

 

[Spencerskates]

How awful, we found out that we were pregnant a few days before she did, according to that announcement video. I can’t even imagine being as pregnant as I am and the baby being stillborn (she’s past ‘miscarriage’ stage, not that that matters). The worst kind of heartbreak
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See this is why I just don’t think things like this should be posted online, not something I would ever do but I get why it’s done, with influencers in particular as they want all the pregnancy content etc but I just feel like it must be hard enough to deal with on a personal level just you and your family, let alone when it’s all over the internet for people to see, you just never know what’s going to happen sadly I do genuinely feel sad for her though, she seems like a nice girl and you could tell from her video how much it meant to them, def very sad news for them both

To offer an alternate POV, we announced early - every (wanted) pregnancy deserves to be celebrated, their life matters no matter how long it lasts. Sure, having a big audience complicates that slightly, but on the positive, there’s a good chance that they’ll get support from charities etc that they wouldn’t have if they never announced their pregnancy. They waited a long while to announce, I know it happens, but no one expects to lose a baby at 25 weeks.

 

[Tippingpoint23]

See this is why I just don’t think things like this should be posted online, not something I would ever do but I get why it’s done, with influencers in particular as they want all the pregnancy content etc but I just feel like it must be hard enough to deal with on a personal level just you and your family, let alone when it’s all over the internet for people to see, you just never know what’s going to happen sadly I do genuinely feel sad for her though, she seems like a nice girl and you could tell from her video how much it meant to them, def very sad news for them both

See I don’t agree and it’s this mindset which makes it harder for people to publicly talk about miscarriage / baby loss. There’s nothing shameful about a miscarriage and people should be openly and freely able to share online what they go through the highs and lows if they want to. she may seek comfort in knowing she’s not alone and has all this extra love in a time like this rather than mourning in secret / private.

 

[Yupyupyup]

Bit random but does anyone know her brothers name or her surname? Was thinking of doing some digging.

With all due respect, I think you need a hobby

 

[-eira-]

I do wish she had spoken more about it, so many people love her and watch her videos and it probably would have helped so many people together and brought some comfort, I can’t even imagine how hard it has been for them but it just kinda feels like she’s trying to erase everything

I don’t think it’s appropriate to expect her to go against what she’s comfortable with sharing after a pregnancy loss just to make others feel better. If she needs to not speak about it right now then that’s what she needs to do and I think we should all respect that.

 

[Spencerskates]

The only influencer pregnancy announcement that has made me cry! Absolutely thrilled for them, they so deserve this.

 

[Pawpaw365]

I just think.. if it's privacy she wants, fine! I'm sure that will be respected! But to not even tell your followers the baby has arrived safely? It just seems so unusual for someone who has shared the whole journey online. Why keep your followers in the dark?
I'm going to think positive - perhaps they haven't decided on a name and that's why they are silent.

There is the possibility the baby hasn’t arrived safely, so people probably need to give it a rest.

 

[WhatABore]

I know everyone heals differently but I am curious about them going down the route of acting like it's her first pregnancy.
Even with the ovulation tests and asking people questions about it, she did 6 months of ovulation tests before and multiple pregnancy tests, same as Nick asking what the positive test looked like and Jazz talking/asking about symptoms and everything as if it's her first pregnancy. Don't get me wrong, they don't have to mention the other pregnancy, of course not, it was more the acting like it's her first pregnancy and has no idea what is going on

 

[Sionnachglic]

Delighted for them

 

[Lucy2910]

While I agree she deserves privacy etc. I don’t understand why she couldn’t of just popped up a simple story or post along the lines of ‘baby is here, we’re just enjoying our bubble, will be back soon’ type of thing. I think what she’s done is shitty given her history. Shes done the whole ‘baby could come anytime now’ now month later ‘grwm to have a baby’ then silence again and I just really don’t agree with it. Don’t play games, either stay silent or just a simple update will do.

 

[adventureisoutthere]

This is a really sensitive subject and I'm not looking to argue, but while I agree Jasmine doesn't owe anyone anything and she has every right to grieve however she sees fit, it doesn't sit right with me that she's outright dishonest.

She has packed a hospital bag before, she knows what labour is like, she's given birth to a son before. She doesn't have to mention her first baby at all, but IMO she shouldn't pointedly word things as the firsts when they're not.

She was 22 weeks. She didn’t pack a hospital bag in the same way as well as didn’t know what labour was like and didn’t give birth in the same way so this was her first time for those things. It would be weird for her to title everything as the second time as otherwise everyone would start to ask where her first baby was that is new to her account in the last few years.

 

[calmyourritas]

I don’t get the whole “you shouldn’t share things online just in case something bad happens”… you would still share a new car even though you could crash.. or getting a pet even though it might die?

Really, really sad news

 

[Missh95]

Has anyone else noticed that these maternity photos she’s done at the beach are the exact same as the ones she did in her previous pregnancy?

 

[Tinybelle24]

It’s surprising how quickly you can go off a person.

 

[Pawpaw365]

I have only started watching her since pregnancy but she could have a job alongside youtube could she not? Has she ever done meet and greets or anything to engage with her audience?
Whether she's privileged or not it doesn't really matter, she has still experienced one of the most heart wrenching things that I wouldn't wish upon anyone. I don't blame her for wanting to avoid mentioning her first baby, she obviously wants to keep his memory private.

I am glad someone has finally said something sensible in relation to her first pregnancy

 

[FlipFlop0706]

Alright we get it you have a bump
Get on with it lol

maybe I’m just grumpy today but I’m bored of her dragging this content out now

Yeah I’m feeling a bit iffy about her content. Fair enough you are pregnant but content around every single aspect of pregnancy is getting a bit tedious now. I hate to say it as well considering her previous loss, but I knew she would be the type to utterly milk pregnancy sickness wandering round with a bucket etc. We get it, you are pregnant. Millions of other women are as well and likely still working in proper jobs managing their sickness as best they can. She has the luxury of working from home where she can access her toilet if she needs to vomit. There’s no need for a bucket.

 

[spongey]

I had a wee cry at the video too, I'm really happy for them.

I do hope she deals with this sensitively though, for all the people out there on the same journey who haven't had their happy ending yet. It was a bit of a jump going from the sad "why me" clips, even going to the extent of saying it really upsets her seeing other people post pregnancy announcements, to all of a sudden in the present day, "I'm pregnant, I can't believe it, I've got loads of vlog content to upload, k bye."

I know she always ends her videos abruptly but it just left a bad taste in my mouth, considering she's had about 4 months to think about it

 

[Gothgirl1990]

Apologies if this comes across the wrong way but why is she making out like all these symptoms are a shock? Would she not have had a similar experience with her last pregnancy?
I have to say, I find it a little odd that she’s removed all evidence that she was ever pregnant. I would’ve thought she’d want to recognise the baby she lost, as she was quite far gone wasn’t she?

Before she removed her previous videos there was common theme with them that there was something wrong with the baby from the get-go so maybe they knew it would be ending badly so they put off buying things.

In regards to making her other pregnancy videos private: perhaps she didn't want the worst time in her life to be left up for literally thousands of people to keep commenting on and viewing. It's enough that she will be reminded of her son every day without having a stranger on the internet finding the video and commenting on it while she's trying to heal.

 

[Lizz17uk]

I watched her video, must have been incredibly hard to post that and I have a lot of respect for her doing so and sharing what happened, you often only get the positives online with lots of things and while I would never wish what happened on anyone I do think her sharing will help others potentially. I have always thought her and Nick seemed like a lovely couple, I’m genuinely really sad for them