Jason Arday #2

[Facehugger]

Right, I'm going to say something and if it is awful then please feel free to report to mods etc.
I'm very sorry that someone has lost their life, that's awful. Especially as he has children.
However as the survivor of narcissistic abuse i have educated myself over the past few years. Threatening to take your life and actually taking your own life are the tools of a narcissist. Dying by your own hand is the ultimate 'win' for a narcissist. You can't try and justify or understand it if you don't have the experience.
Their brains aren't wired normally. To be dead and make others look bad is just one example how they 'win'. It's why estranged parents kill their children to spite the other parent.
I'm not sorry about anything I've posted on here. I have only ever mocked obvious bull, which is what I believe everyone else has done.
All we have done is called out the lies of an obvious fantasist. No one on here needs to feel bad about anything.
Just waiting for notadoc Jess and et al spinning rit that it was all Tattle's fault.

This thank you for posting, every word is right. I more or less was expecting this, he had nowhere to hide, his house of cards had totally come down. My sympathies lie with his children, and those around them who will now have pick the pieces up for their sakes, bless their souls.

 

[Lalla]

Yes. I think when his fantasy world was exposed and pulled apart in the media, he could no longer sustain his delusions and suffered a complete narcissistic collapse. He could never have come back from this. I think it's a shame he decided to take his own life, but I'm not actually surprised.

Yes, same. It's something you see a lot with narcissists, when the facade they have created starts to crumble they can't go on. One positive is that he didn't take any of his family with him.

 

[PurvyPanda]

I’ve just seen the news on the Daily Mail website and gasped.

I had already started to see from the people who had been covering the story quite intensely, that they had started to feel quite sorry for him. There was obviously a problem underlying all of this. Reality bites i’m afraid. I’m sure the last few weeks, being made to face his reality has been excruciating for him. He’s obviously had to process that a lot of his claims were just not plausible to the wider public. No one hated this man. If anything they were intrigued by it. I was only thinking the other day - they’ll probably make a movie out of it.

Unfortunately those people in academia, in the media, in publishing, indulged this man’s fantasies which is just the worst thing you can do. I speak as someone who has struggled with MD - Maladapituve Daydreaming since my teens. It is a mental health condition linked to BPD. I’ve never acted out and have always had a clear sense of reality and fantasy, but the compulsion has still been very damaging. I am of course only speculating, but it’s hard not to. It has been a very bizarre story, which to me, came out of nowhere.

I’m sorry to hear he’s passed away. I really wish he hadn’t taken this extreme measure. It would have blown over as a news story eventually. Very sad.

 

[hereforthechaos]

Well, that took a dark turn. Condolences to the family.

 

[Peaches2905]

I feel so badly for his family, caught up in all this and now the loss. I hope they can recover and go on to better things

 

[I'm not actually here]

Yes, same. It's something you see a lot with narcissists, when the facade they have created starts to crumble they can't go on. One positive is that he didn't take any of his family with him.

Let's guess which of the narcs on Tattle is the first to bring his name up, especially when they are being criticised, to try and shut everybody down. Bound to be one......

 

[Hannahebee]

Let's guess which of the narcs on Tattle is the first to bring his name up, especially when they are being criticised, to try and shut everybody down. Bound to be one......

Someone already has @I'm not actually here and it's no surprise as to who it is either.

 

[FrumpyCat]

Right, I'm going to say something and if it is awful then please feel free to report to mods etc.
I'm very sorry that someone has lost their life, that's awful. Especially as he has children.
However as the survivor of narcissistic abuse i have educated myself over the past few years. Threatening to take your life and actually taking your own life are the tools of a narcissist. Dying by your own hand is the ultimate 'win' for a narcissist. You can't try and justify or understand it if you don't have the experience.
Their brains aren't wired normally. To be dead and make others look bad is just one example how they 'win'. It's why estranged parents kill their children to spite the other parent.
I'm not sorry about anything I've posted on here. I have only ever mocked obvious bull, which is what I believe everyone else has done.
All we have done is called out the lies of an obvious fantasist. No one on here needs to feel bad about anything.
Just waiting for notadoc Jess and et al spinning rit that it was all Tattle's fault.

Sadly this is true. No one wanted him dead, but that doesn't change the truth about him being a fantasist who was found out.

 

[HotesTilaire]

I did an audible gasp when I saw the news. It‘s sad that this was his life, and that he chose to end it. RIP.

 

[HotesTilaire]

Someone already has @I'm not actually here and it's no surprise as to who it is either.

Tessica Jaylor per chance?

 

[Jelly Bean]

Let's guess which of the narcs on Tattle is the first to bring his name up, especially when they are being criticised, to try and shut everybody down. Bound to be one......

My money is on the arch ghoul Jessica Taylor.
She thrives on other people's misery. And a chance to make some awful point about SM and forums.

 

[monga]

I also feel for the students that tried to expose the fraud who were shot down and shown the door how many were on the brink after their hard work and efforts were marked down and put down to racism for questioning his teaching methods? I can’t be a hypocrite…Sorry for those left behind picking up the pieces though

https://news.sky.com/video/share-13573154

 

[Lalla]

Let's guess which of the narcs on Tattle is the first to bring his name up, especially when they are being criticised, to try and shut everybody down. Bound to be one......

He'll be another Caroline Flack, whose name is always brought up the second a person is called out or criticized.

 

[Hannahebee]

Tessica Jaylor per chance?

Correct

 

[TrolleyParton]

Mods, close this thread ffs.

 

[TooFarScone]

Mods, close this thread ffs.

Why? .

 

[GabbyJ]

If there weren’t any lies, plagiarism etc he wouldn’t have chosen to end his life surely? I can’t help but think that he perhaps chose this path to shut down the widespread public scrutiny and to go out as per the title of his book. The great being his life and the unfortunate being his death. I’m not sure if I’m explaining it properly but could he have wanted to control the narrative by ending his life???

 

[Jelly Bean]

Tessica Jaylor per chance?

As sure as night follows day here is the appalling grief ghoul making it all about her again.

 

[drmortimer]

What a waste of... everything.

Thoughts go out to those who relied on this man, whatever he brought to their lives.

 

[maytoseptember]

Shocked but not remotely surprised by the news. He obviously had very deep and serious issues. He’d dug himself into an enormous hole and was a complete laughing stock. For a narc of this calibre it was an injury he couldn’t recover from. Terrible for his loved ones.

I suspect this will successfully shut down any attempt to investigate how he conned his way into so many positions of power.