No, that's not the only thing to be said. He's taken his life, which is beyond tragic of course. There are still millions of questions to ask about the people who enabled him, didn't stop him etc. Blocking this thread is madness imoSeconded. I think the only thing to be said on this particular thread now is that someone has lost their life. A father, son, partner, brother & friend. That is a tragedy.
I’m so relieved this is getting talked about. My immediate thought after hearing about JA was ‘look what you made me do…’I've just seen the news. It's very shocking, but at the same time, quite expected. In these kinds of situations, with severe narcissists, it seems 50/50 whether they will commit suicide or come out completely unscathed with a new grift. As horrifying as it is when anyone does this (especially given his age and that he has children), suicides like this are methods of manipulation and abuse - a way of going, "Look what you made me do. How dare you tell the truth about me?"
My ex was "suicidal" any time anyone pointed out that he had lied or been abusive in any way. So this hits home, because I often wonder if he will really do it one day. In a way I feel genuinely guilty because I watched so many YouTube videos laughing at this guy and lamenting what has happened to academia if he could be elected. Then in another way, I think that we can't avoid holding people accountable for their actions on the off chance they will kill themselves. While mental health can spiral quickly, this was not something that would have been done by an otherwise normal person in these circumstances: most people when caught in a lie, even losing their job, could have the honest self reflection to say, "Yes, I lied. I did it because I wanted to feel like I was that person who achieved all those things. I'm sorry." But to a narcissist, admitting that they were wrong is literally worse than death.
I hope this doesn't stop the reviews into why a substandard, cheating academic was hired for a professorship, or why the publishers of his biography did no fact checking.
I am thinking about PDA. It's the only way the autism diagnosis, non verbal, highly intelligent & also able to live in fantasy fits for me.I know that you know this, but just to add on: no non-verbal person was ever diagnosed with Asperger's. Being verbal was the big thing that set the autism/Asperger diagnoses apart in those days.
Personally, I just do not believe he was autistic, because he was so deceitful and Machiavellian. Those aren't really present in genuinely autistic people, even when very high functioning.
Threatening and actually doing are two totally separate things. The act is final, there is no getting what you want from it in the way that threatening it maintains control over the person you’re threatening it towards. You’re gone. You don’t get any satisfaction from it.I’m so relieved this is getting talked about. My immediate thought after hearing about JA was ‘look what you made me do…’
I too have experience of people once close to me threatening harm because they had been found out in a lie or some such.
It’s an awful life, constantly on eggshells. Condolences to his family.
Absolutely this. This is the vacuum that these people operate in. People don't feel they could call things out in case they are or were accused of something....I don’t want to live in a world where we can’t call bullshitters and scammers out for fear of what they may subsequently do.
Yeah. But still, he very very likely was not actually diagnosed as he claimed, that's what we were saying. So what type of autism he had may not even be a thing, because his story of his diagnosis and symptoms doesn't stand up.I am thinking about PDA. It's the only way the autism diagnosis, non verbal, highly intelligent & also able to live in fantasy fits for me.
It's a bit late for me to set out my reasons why, brain not too alert. It is a sad state of affairs all round.
I thought Cambridge said they didn’t engage CRI have so many thoughts on this, but one of the big ones for me is: whose idea was it to engage Carter-Ruck? Who contacted and paid them?
You can see on this thread that many people haven't even heard of them. That escalated the situation dramatically. It also made it clear there was in fact a serious case to answer, and Cambridge absolutely should have taken action at that point.
The publishers also hold a lot of responsibility. The book is terrible, and as we can all see, totally implausible. They must have known it would not stand up to any scrutiny.
As someone who's done a PhD and knows lots of others who have too, the extracts from the book bear no relation to what the experience is really like. He clearly didn't even know what it was like from the outside. It is horrifying that he was supervising PhD students.
He was obviously a con man and a fraud, but the lies were so mad and so huge that it was always going to fall apart. Which means that all of those enablers, who used him for their own profit, should be held to account.
But they won't.
Mary beard has been tweeting that everyone should now stop asking Cambridge any questions...
Frankly I think they have more questions to answer.Mary beard has been tweeting that everyone should now stop asking Cambridge any questions...
I had never heard of this man before two weeks ago, and even when the articles first appeared on the Daily Mail, I paid little attention to them as I thought it was just his academic credentials that were being questioned, and I had no particular interest in the story.He's already a martyr over on Reddit.
The majority over there are criticising the huge media pile on that was 'disproportionate' to what he'd done.
I know the story got a lot of attention, but I don't really think it was a disproportionate pile on? I never saw anyone saying, "Wow what an awful man, here's a panel of experts to analyse his body language and say he's a psychopath. He should have his children taken off him!" It was all just talking about what he had done.
If lots of media outlets reported on it, that's because there are lots of media outlets. And sorry because he's now dead, but at the time it was funny. "Man claims he ran 9 marathons on a broken leg" is funny. We can't demand that people don't talk about stories like this. We can be critical of when discourse spirals out of hand, but that didn't happen here imo.