I had my first baby in 2014 but I can still vividly remember moments of putting her in the Moses basket to go and fold washing, or do dishes etc and the crippling guilt I felt when I did it! Which is absolutely ridiculous when that was something so essential that needed to be done, yet they’ve got time to carry on with everything they were doing before, I find it odd. It’s almost like the baby is just kind of “there” and they just pick her up occasionally. I get that maybe they don’t want to be carrying her about all the time and of course that’s absolutely fine but it seems off to me when they try and settle her back when she’s clearly had enough sleep? I do worry about people who continuously try and push sleep onto their children. Wait until they are around 6/9 months old, that all goes out the window... bizarre.