In what way is she saying that her son has lost out? She said that his drive for music was so great, even as a relatively small child, that he was willing to give up all social aspects of his life, such as Scouts, for it.
You seem to have some kind of grudge here which is filtering your view of posts and detracting from the supportive place that this canal usually is. I have shared some very personal things here, as have others, but the fear of being personally attacked like this will stop me from doing so in future. I'll bet I won't be the only one either.
