I have no doubt that she’s a nightmare in relationships. As a previous poster said, she seems to regard herself as an incredibly rare, fragile and precious prize that her partner must nurture and feel constantly very lucky to have. I also imagine she centres herself in all her relationships and doesn’t see what the partner does as important, which is ironic when you consider how high powered and successful some of her exes have been. I have no doubt that emotional blackmail plays a huge part and is what lay behind OH’s welfar check call (I also think it was him).
What I find really objectionable is how much she belittles her exes. She posted about LJC as if she were a particularly obtuse and clumsy toddler, rather than the clever, successful woman she is. Even describing Harold as deliciously ordinary, I find that quite belittling too. Oh look at me, famous person who is on the GCSE syllabus, stooping to a relationship with a pleb. I would be quite upset if the best thing my partner could think of to describe me, was “deliciously ordinary “