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Orphan_Black
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'I'm shoving it in the back of the wardrobe and filling it with wasps.'
WTF does that even mean?!
WTF does that even mean?!
OwlRightsReserved
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"A dream I’ve been eyeing up for about a decade" - FFS, she's had more dreams than Joseph and his bloody technicolour coat. I'm half expecting Donny Osmond in a loincloth to make an appearance at this rate.
Boogs
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It’s scary how people enable chaotic narcs.
My ex made Jack look almost stable. I stood my ground and was honest with her which caused constant needless drama, I stayed far longer than I wanted to because of her kid. When I eventually LEFT I pleaded with her to stay single, work on herself and focus on her kid and stop the chaotic relationship rollercoaster she was dragging her on. She assured me she would.
Within days she was seeing someone else. A couple of months later she got engaged to a new woman. Then she hoovered her ex fiancé who she’d accused of abusing her. When she bit she rejected her for a girl 25 years younger than her who she’d met on tiktok who she declared the love of her life. That ended a couple of months later when she cheated on her and less than 4 months later she married her bit on the side. That was all in the space of a year and it was all plastered over social media
I was horrified but her family and friends were all ‘You’re the strongest person I know’ ‘You deserve to be happy’ ‘You’re amazing’ etc. Nobody ever challenges her. They treat her like a vulnerable victim instead of a selfish adult who is massively damaging her child.
I suspect that when people have tried to talk to her in the past she has kicked up such a fuss that they keep quiet for fear of what might happen and the cycle just continues unchallenged.
That’s why I can never feel sorry for Jack. There is a boy who must sit there wondering what is wrong with him because his Mum isn’t interested in him. Exes who’ve been dragged along on a rollercoaster journey of gaslighting and cognitive dissonance who will be sat there thinking what the fuck has just happened. Vulnerable people sending her money because she’s rattled the tip jar and they are worried that she needs help. People who are struggling with their mental health/poverty/addiction who are reading her Twitter account as she is an ‘expert’ and they are looking for guidance.
It’s the damage that narcissists do to those around them.
My ex made Jack look almost stable. I stood my ground and was honest with her which caused constant needless drama, I stayed far longer than I wanted to because of her kid. When I eventually LEFT I pleaded with her to stay single, work on herself and focus on her kid and stop the chaotic relationship rollercoaster she was dragging her on. She assured me she would.
Within days she was seeing someone else. A couple of months later she got engaged to a new woman. Then she hoovered her ex fiancé who she’d accused of abusing her. When she bit she rejected her for a girl 25 years younger than her who she’d met on tiktok who she declared the love of her life. That ended a couple of months later when she cheated on her and less than 4 months later she married her bit on the side. That was all in the space of a year and it was all plastered over social media
I was horrified but her family and friends were all ‘You’re the strongest person I know’ ‘You deserve to be happy’ ‘You’re amazing’ etc. Nobody ever challenges her. They treat her like a vulnerable victim instead of a selfish adult who is massively damaging her child.
I suspect that when people have tried to talk to her in the past she has kicked up such a fuss that they keep quiet for fear of what might happen and the cycle just continues unchallenged.
That’s why I can never feel sorry for Jack. There is a boy who must sit there wondering what is wrong with him because his Mum isn’t interested in him. Exes who’ve been dragged along on a rollercoaster journey of gaslighting and cognitive dissonance who will be sat there thinking what the fuck has just happened. Vulnerable people sending her money because she’s rattled the tip jar and they are worried that she needs help. People who are struggling with their mental health/poverty/addiction who are reading her Twitter account as she is an ‘expert’ and they are looking for guidance.
It’s the damage that narcissists do to those around them.
Narcs move at lightening speed in relationships. They lovebomb like crazy and are very convincing. Until the day when you suddenly realise the reason why you’re feeling like crap is because you’re being gaslit and manipulated constantly. When it ends they are devastated. For 5 minutes until they have snared their next victim.
Tabitha D
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Imagine all the pointless chaoses OH had to endure (if he’s real - I’m assuming he is for the sake of argument). The Jubilee party gun thing and Jack being told off by her dad; the police visit; the constant tweeting; the “bad arthritis” on the train; the buying mountains of crap in Dutch junk shops; the tree; the messy cluttered house; the libel thing; the “accidental” nuzzling of his brother; the COOKING 
; it just goes on and on. If you thought you were seeing a grown adult with some accomplishments under their belt, then were faced with all this childishness, and especially if you came to the realisation that all those “accomplishments” were in fact hot air … well then I’m surprised it lasted as long as it did.
Also, I don’t like the way she describes AA meetings as if they are her own personal support group, there just to validate and lift her up. I would think the whole point is that there will be others in the group who struggle and need just as much, if not more, support. I hope they get their chance to be heard too.
; it just goes on and on. If you thought you were seeing a grown adult with some accomplishments under their belt, then were faced with all this childishness, and especially if you came to the realisation that all those “accomplishments” were in fact hot air … well then I’m surprised it lasted as long as it did.Also, I don’t like the way she describes AA meetings as if they are her own personal support group, there just to validate and lift her up. I would think the whole point is that there will be others in the group who struggle and need just as much, if not more, support. I hope they get their chance to be heard too.
traumatised sideboard
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xX_JaCk_Xx I'm NoT oKaY 
BlendedSlop
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Who could have possibly predicted that someone "deliciously ordinary" who "works in a little shop" wasn't looking to be tied down to a Z-list celebrity with a gargantuan sense of self-importance and who can't go a single day without a drama or chance to claim victimhood.
Mr Krabs
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I don’t think anyone ever said this to her. There was probably a very reasonable break up speech ‘we are on different paths’ kind of thing and in Jack’s narc mind she twisted that to ‘you are too damaged’ or whatever.
Anyway, I’m off to check on my older lesbian friend who is very well off. Need to make sure nobody is sliding into her DMs.
BubbleDuck
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JombleWomble
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I wonder if OH has started grunking yet, or whether they're having a few days of relaxation first.
Orphan_Black
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Don't cry for me Pumble-tina,
The truth is OH did not exist.
All through Jack's wild lies,
Her sad existence,
She's an annoying prune,
So keep your distance.
The truth is OH did not exist.
All through Jack's wild lies,
Her sad existence,
She's an annoying prune,
So keep your distance.
MancBee
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Where is Dash the bunny? Forgotten and alone in the garage. Or dead.
Peachy9
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So she regularly complains that her RA prevents her from being able to mobilise... So she gets a dog that needs daily walking.
She complains she has no money, and barely makes ends meet... So gets a dog that can end up costing hundreds, even thousands per year in costs.
She seems to go on jaunts and trips for work and pleasure without so much as a second thought .. So gets a dog that needs her at home each day.
She winged and moaned about rental costs... So gets a dog that will impact on her rental options (gardens add ££££)
I'm actually shocked fraus. Of all the things she could have done, this is up there.
She complains she has no money, and barely makes ends meet... So gets a dog that can end up costing hundreds, even thousands per year in costs.
She seems to go on jaunts and trips for work and pleasure without so much as a second thought .. So gets a dog that needs her at home each day.
She winged and moaned about rental costs... So gets a dog that will impact on her rental options (gardens add ££££)
I'm actually shocked fraus. Of all the things she could have done, this is up there.
TillyMiffin
Chatty Member
‘Damaged and different’ getting strong ‘If you can’t handle me at my worst’ quote from this, and every woman I’ve known who has posted that on fb has been an absolute psycho in relationships.
Lazarus
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Erm… *shuffles feet Britishly* but she is damaged and damaging. I admire anyone who was in a relationship with her and was brave enough to be completely honest with her.
I feel for SB. She’s usually so distracted by Twitter (settle a debate between me and SB, caramac or caramilk type of shite) when they spend time together, or she’s making him eat shitty food, humiliating him by shitting with the door opened in front of his pals, infantilising him with lego flowers and rock tumblers, appropriating his football team etc.
then she invites a new partner into the mix who she’s nuzzling, cooking fancy meals for etc.
now that he’s got her to himself again she’s completely broken by another failed relationship and won’t focus on him.
poor wee guy.
traumatised sideboard
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~damaged and different~ yeah or mentally stunted at age 13. Pillock.
Switchstreetz
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Oh my god. OH was the eucalyptus tree and the evil landlady cut him down in his prime. Rest in leaves.
