I've never told anyone this...

[Makaraka]

When I was doing my A-levels, we were in class and this girl said, “what time is X class?” out loud. I politely answered from across the room and she looked at me like a piece of tit and said, “did I ask you?!”

Anyway, when everyone was out of the room, I put a tit-load of glue stick onto her chair. She came back, laid her coat on her chair and sat on it for a good hour. At the end of class, she had to PEEL her lovely coat off the chair and it was all minging and sticky.

That is absolutely brilliant

my 6 year old is having a rough time at school she’s being bullied by someone who’s her “best friend” but today she came home & told me that when the girl was being nasty and tried to take my daughter away from her new friend she tried to push my daughter over into the muddy grass but instead and I quote “I did a pirouette like at ballet” and as she did she ended up kicking the bully (supposed to be a friend) over into the mud face first.
I’m unsure if I’m really proud or scared that it’s going to escalate.

 

[Titntat]

That is absolutely brilliant

my 6 year old is having a rough time at school she’s being bullied by someone who’s her “best friend” but today she came home & told me that when the girl was being nasty and tried to take my daughter away from her new friend she tried to push my daughter over into the muddy grass but instead and I quote “I did a pirouette like at ballet” and as she did she ended up kicking the bully (supposed to be a friend) over into the mud face first.
I’m unsure if I’m really proud or scared that it’s going to escalate.

I'd be proud/nervous too. Hope that little witch leaves your daughter alone. At least you know she can stick up for her self. At 6 I doubt it will escalate. Hopefully she's nipped it in the bud x

 

[Cleopatra]

When we moved into our house my old hag of a MIL bought a plant for the garden. Well that plant was absolutely beautiful but every time she came it would be all about this plant she had bought. In the end I drenched the roots with bleach......every visit from then on oh dear what's happening to the plant

 

[Redyellowgreen]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

 

[petitspois]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

Don’t be ashamed, you did what you had to. I hope it was in a safe environment. I really hope next year is better for you love x

 

[Chablis1]

Don’t be ashamed, you did what you had to. I hope it was in a safe environment. I really hope next year is better for you love x

Seconded. I hope 2021 is a better year for you xx

 

[Hereforthegigs]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

Bless you hun, don't feel ashamed. Us mums would do anything for our babies and you doing that has honestly made me tear up. Here's to a better 2021 for you xx

 

[Redyellowgreen]

Bless you hun, don't feel ashamed. Us mums would do anything for our babies and you doing that has honestly made me tear up. Here's to a better 2021 for you xx

Seconded. I hope 2021 is a better year for you xx

Don’t be ashamed, you did what you had to. I hope it was in a safe environment. I really hope next year is better for you love x

Thank you all so much

 

[Friendsfan]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

Don’t be ashamed. Sometimes we do things because people mean the world to us. Xxxx

It's not what's under the Christmas tree that matters. It's who's around it. Xxxxxx
Hope you are okay

 

[OnlyHereForTheLolz]

Thank you all so much

I can tell you that @Friendsfan is correct when they said it matter who's around not what's under the tree. Growing up we didn't have money and all I remember is the really good times we had as a family not the fact that we only got a small present etc

 

[Itsallaboutmememe]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

You have nothing to be ashamed of
I have 6 kids-no csa money (they are useless and didn’t want to know) no family support and a low paid job
youve done whatever you’ve needed to do-i came very close a few times,and I would have done it if needed
you should be proud that your kids have such a loving mum who would do anything for them
im really hoping that 2021 is a better year-sending hugs

 

[Arwol1953]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

You should never be ashamed of having sex for money.

 

[Itsalwayssunny]

You should never be ashamed of having sex for money.

I agree, it combines two of my great loves. Money and sex if you can be safe and sensible about it and can cope with it emotionally then why not?
Being forced into it is a totally different matter and if that is happening please seek help

 

[Omzig98]

I struggle a lot with diagnosed OCD. Something i have come to notice is that OCD is massively misunderstood and the stigma attached is really hurtful to sufferers. Everyday, even if it is the best day of my life, i have the most heinous intrusive thoughts. It breaks my heart a bit more everyday. When i get an intrusive thought my demeanour changes entirely, like a deer in headlights. People notice and i imagine think i am a miserable loser. I fight a lot to be understood but you just can’t make people understand.

 

[AlanBanan]

I struggle a lot with diagnosed OCD. Something i have come to notice is that OCD is massively misunderstood and the stigma attached is really hurtful to sufferers. Everyday, even if it is the best day of my life, i have the most heinous intrusive thoughts. It breaks my heart a bit more everyday. When i get an intrusive thought my demeanour changes entirely, like a deer in headlights. People notice and i imagine think i am a miserable loser. I fight a lot to be understood but you just can’t make people understand.

I have OCD too it stems from my childhood trauma. People think I’m a psychotic freak sometimes that anywhere I live in or work in has to be cleaned.

sometimes I’ve shown up to jobs an hour or two early just so i clean the room I will be working in or else my nerves will be at me the entire time.

 

[Omzig98]

I have OCD too it stems from my childhood trauma. People think I’m a psychotic freak sometimes that anywhere I live in or work in has to be cleaned.

sometimes I’ve shown up to jobs an hour or two early just so i clean the room I will be working in or else my nerves will be at me the entire time.

We’ll get through it xx the imposter syndrome is a struggle for me. But i have every hope that as i grow so will the mental love for myself...fingers crossed!

 

[F the dust.]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

I have to say that In my opinion you not only have done nothing wrong but to do that because you wanted to give your children a Christmas make you such a selfless mother who I actually admire. You did what you had to do and no-one should ever condemn you for that we're all one bad circumstance away from making a similar choice! X

 

[HubIreLovesMnD]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

As the saying goes, "walk a mile in my shoes".

As a parent, I know you would do anything for your kids.

 

[Mulholland Drive]

I lost my job , and have 3 children not much support , money is very tight , to provide so sort of Christmas for them I had sex for money so so ashamed about it now

Lots of love for you and your children. Nothing to be ashamed about, but please be careful.

Hopefully things will turn out better for you next year, and you can move on xxx

 

[Bobbleowl90]

I don’t have anybody I can call my best friend anymore.

My mum has a terminal illness and now has the mind of a 1-2 year old, she doesn’t recognise me, my dad, her home, her reflection, she can’t speak properly, can’t wash herself, can just about bring herself to the toilet (but not for much longer) I often think she’s gone now and the illness has taken over and I just want her suffering to end and for her to pass but instantly feel guilty thinking it and even worse for writing it

Sorry not got much to say but couldn’t scroll past without sending you my love as this was heartbreaking to read