she is a 40 + year old woman who still lives with her Mum so clearly must have plenty of disposable income if she can afford holidays each year, why not spend some of that money on a specalist psychologist or someone to help her with whatever issues are preventing her from motivating herself.I’ve only just started watching her but I really like her so far. Yes she’s overweight and maybe her fertility/health would improve if she lost weight but it’s not that easy if you have other issues that prevent you from being able to motivate yourself.
I remember her doing a post of a picture when she was in her late 20s/early 30s and said she’d lost loads of weight to help her fertility and even then she still wasn’t able to fall pregnant.I’ve only just started watching her but I really like her so far. Yes she’s overweight and maybe her fertility/health would improve if she lost weight but it’s not that easy if you have other issues that prevent you from being able to motivate yourself.
I haven’t made these comments myself but on behalf of those who have I’d say that she is clearly obese (possibly morbidly) and we know she can’t conceive, there is often a correlation between the 2 things. I do think the strength of their relationship shows because their infertility hasn’t defined them, their identity as a couple is more than their hope for a familyCome on now, it’s a low blow to start throwing the “its because she’s morbidly obese” thing about. There could be any number of reasons for unexplained infertility.
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little am-bitch-ous at times.... just saying
Weight is a determining factor in adoption too. I’m also overweight and have looked into it but we would be denied on my current BMI despite my blood pressure etc all being healthy and no other health issues.There is having an opinion and stating it in a polite way than just being a bitch! just saying!
as ive said before we do not know the ins and outs!! and judging by peoples comments just on here (im sure other people like to message, comment etc on another social media) im not surprised she no longer talks about it!!
From a curiosity prospective though i wonder why they've not started looking into adoption..there are so many children that need forever homes and they have a lovely home, what appears to be a solid relationship, great support network and good wages coming in, id imagine they wouldn't have a problem being accepted. I suppose it isn't for everybody though...
we took 5 years to have my daughter and were half way through the adoption process when i managed to fall ( courtesy of a drunk fumble of boxing day pmsl!) id love to actually do it one day!
I suffered from infertility due to endometriosis and would never have looked into adoption. As selfish as it sounds, I longed for my own child and didn’t want to entertain the thought of raising someone else’s child. I’m in no way knocking adoption but just saying that it isn’t for everyoneThere is having an opinion and stating it in a polite way than just being a bitch! just saying!
as ive said before we do not know the ins and outs!! and judging by peoples comments just on here (im sure other people like to message, comment etc on another social media) im not surprised she no longer talks about it!!
From a curiosity prospective though i wonder why they've not started looking into adoption..there are so many children that need forever homes and they have a lovely home, what appears to be a solid relationship, great support network and good wages coming in, id imagine they wouldn't have a problem being accepted. I suppose it isn't for everybody though...
we took 5 years to have my daughter and were half way through the adoption process when i managed to fall ( courtesy of a drunk fumble of boxing day pmsl!) id love to actually do it one day!
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