She creates chaos deliberately and then descends into a state of helplessness deliberately. This is a tactic to force people to either do what she wants or leave her alone. Whether it is by raging and dragging people into arguments, note she will quickly stop being aggressive and claim distress when she does this. Or by just being totally inadequate at adulthood to the point others step in whilst she cites grief or ill health. Or getting drunk annd being badly, then blaming it on her dull husband All the chaos masks the shitty behaviour she wants to get away with.That’s an interesting thought, I kept thinking reading all this that there is something literally missing in her brain. Together with deviousness and viciousness and low cunning and entitlement-ness she also almost fantastically inadequate as an adult - not filing tax returns is a good example, it’s only going to backfire on her but she seems incapable of doing anything for herself. Is it because of years and years of laziness and relying on others to do everything for her? Muscle is not used deteriorate, same happens with brain presumably and also ability to exist independently.
She has zero intention of ever dealing with consequences she creates. Her life so far has always shown she gets away with it.
She is banking on Ioan not having the nerve to let her live off a modest sum of child support. He is going to be conflicted unless he can track and see she has a stash of cash hidden somewhere. Her MSM profile means she can continue to claim sad face poverty. Her mate is never going to report the truth. Which is she stole the family money and she isn’t using it for her children.