I so wish I could recommend my trauma therapist to him, but that would obviously be completely inappropriate (!) - I credit the person with saving my life, sanity and completely rebuilding my self esteem from the ground up. Thank God for good therapists.I think whoever ends up in a long term relationship with IG will have a lot of reassuring to do.
As with the girls there will be a lot of 'undoing' of thought patterns and behaviours from IG's many years with AE.