Hey, just stepping in to say I have BPD and, though your initial listing of symptoms are most of the definitive ones used to make a diagnosis...a lot of what you subsequently stated was judgmental and out of line.Having been raised by one, I think AE is a text book borderline (BPD).
- Sterotypical 'I hate you don't leave me' behaviour
- Fear of abandonment and being left alone
- Unstable relationships
- Impulsive and destructive behaviours
- Extreme emotional mood swings
- Chronic feelings of emptiness
- Explosive anger
If you try to leave a borderline they will go to extreme lengths to exact revenge on you and I mean extreme lengths. You cannot reason with them.
If IG was a naive guy when she met him he was prime bait for her. She would have love bombed him and then the battle commenced.
I cannot begin to tell you the distruction a BPD causes on your life (if indeed you manage to get out alive). There are recovery forums for people who have had a blood or chosen relationship with them and they don't make pretty reading.
AE is displaying textbook BPD behaviour and IG is running for his life.
It’s Ioan Gruffudd.Just caught up on this whole thread and up for work in 6 hours! But it’s been worth it aha what a rollercoaster it’s been! most confusing trying to work out in my brain if IG is for insta or Ioan Gruffud
I have BPD too and didn't know how to react when I read the original post. Thanks for articulating.@ReturningthePearls Thank you xxx
I also have BPD and that does not represent me at all. Thank you for your response. Much clearer than anything I could have mustered up after reading the OP.
She posted a few days ago all the good people in her life: her childhood friends, brother, sister in law (and her parents). A picture of the girls and the nanny captioned with "my family, our house" (there is a message in there). A picture of her youngest trying to write "I love mom", and last night she posted a video of her eldest helping the youngest to read. Obviously all of those posts received the typical "you are a great mom" responses and some underhanded remarks about him. Certainly what she is fishing for.So, friends, any updates from AE on IG? (That’s “Instagram,” Daddy Cool, not Ioan, haha.) I blocked her there so I’m in the dark.
I rather guess that it will be a book that is inspired by (her very own) "reality". This way she'd be able to satisfy the curiosity of her fans and avoid being dragged to court by Ioan..She mentioned a few hours ago that she tries to write a book but cant get motivated. Asked if it was a autobiography or fiction she said fiction. So much for the tell all book - or has she created enough self awareness to call it fiction?
Tbh I don’t think she has BPD. She is probably had a bad mental breakdown and if she’s been drinking with no mental help it’s just gonna get worse.Having been raised by one, I think AE is a text book borderline (BPD).
- Sterotypical 'I hate you don't leave me' behaviour
- Fear of abandonment and being left alone
- Unstable relationships
- Impulsive and destructive behaviours
- Extreme emotional mood swings
- Chronic feelings of emptiness
- Explosive anger
If you try to leave a borderline they will go to extreme lengths to exact revenge on you and I mean extreme lengths. You cannot reason with them.
If IG was a naive guy when she met him he was prime bait for her. She would have love bombed him and then the battle commenced.
I cannot begin to tell you the distruction a BPD causes on your life (if indeed you manage to get out alive). There are recovery forums for people who have had a blood or chosen relationship with them and they don't make pretty reading.
AE is displaying textbook BPD behaviour and IG is running for his life.
I don’t think we’re diagnosing. We’re just speculating, ruminating, whatever to try and figure out why she behaves in such an ott way. There’s no way we can officially diagnose her. I’m merely going by the experience of growing up with a person who had very similar behaviors. It’s extremely interesting and different the way this has played out.Tbh I don’t think she has BPD. She is probably had a bad mental breakdown and if she’s been drinking with no mental help it’s just gonna get worse.
I don’t like the current trend of people diagnosing personality disorders especially a mental disorder like BPD as even doctors and psychologists aren’t sure what BPD is or how it works and how to diagnose it correctly is as it manifests into many different symptoms and the symptoms you talked about are just the most common regarding BPD but they are also common with multiple mental illnesses.
Personality disorders are actually quite rare, they’re only now quite prevalent as now people are finding out what they are and how to work.
Personality disorders, especially BDP, are also frequently misdiagnosed in women with ADHD and ASD.Tbh I don’t think she has BPD. She is probably had a bad mental breakdown and if she’s been drinking with no mental help it’s just gonna get worse.
I don’t like the current trend of people diagnosing personality disorders especially a mental disorder like BPD as even doctors and psychologists aren’t sure what BPD is or how it works and how to diagnose it correctly is as it manifests into many different symptoms and the symptoms you talked about are just the most common regarding BPD but they are also common with multiple mental illnesses.
Personality disorders are actually quite rare, they’re only now quite prevalent as now people are finding out what they are and how to work.
This. It seems like a handful of us have had experience with a cluster B personality disorders and are using our experience to process the truly bizarre behavior AE is exhibiting. I, personally, see a ton of similarities with how she is acting and my NPD mother, but due to co-morbidities and being in the same cluster I can see how BPD would ping for someone who grew up with or around it. I would also wager that offense isn't meant because I think we all know that not everyone with a personality disorder will present the same. Isn't this why BPD in particular is so difficult to diagnose correctly?I don’t think we’re diagnosing. We’re just speculating, ruminating, whatever to try and figure out why she behaves in such an ott way. There’s no way we can officially diagnose her. I’m merely going by the experience of growing up with a person who had very similar behaviors. It’s extremely interesting and different the way this has played out.
One thing about AE is clear. There’s something not right about her, and I don’t think she’s a nice person. At all.
I dislike those underhanded comments by AE’s cult followers/flying monkeys intensely. But she obviously loves them because they can be the ones being hateful about her stbx keeping her out of hot water at least temporarily. And give her the attention she desperately craves since her supply left her.she is probably both that and a narcShe posted a few days ago all the good people in her life: her childhood friends, brother, sister in law (and her parents). A picture of the girls and the nanny captioned with "my family, our house" (there is a message in there). A picture of her youngest trying to write "I love mom", and last night she posted a video of her eldest helping the youngest to read. Obviously all of those posts received the typical "you are a great mom" responses and some underhanded remarks about him. Certainly what she is fishing for.
She mentioned a few hours ago that she tries to write a book but cant get motivated. Asked if it was a autobiography or fiction she said fiction. So much for the tell all book - or has she created enough self awareness to call it fiction?
You mean like their dad?I believe they do and they seem to be mature and typical kid that parents post on social media. Generally kids care more about strangers trolling parents or attacking parents then strangers knowing their grades.
I posted them here https://tattle.life/threads/ioan-gruffudd-alice-evans.16444/page-9#post-5801115Does anyone have the receipts from AE’s meltdown after Christmas when she presumably was told by IG that he was leaving? Please, if you don’t mind?
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