Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #94 Covid negative, but positively desperate for attention

[sh1tsandgiggles]

Deleted = SOBERED UP

aaaaaaaahhh you beat me to it! Well played!

 

[House of Tea]

The guy she was thanking for being her emotional crutch/friend is an American screenwriter. So she still has a few friends in the biz.

 

[Mad Betty]

IT IS NEVER OKAY TO MAKE LIGHT OF SUICIDAL IDEATION OR USE IT AS A TOOL FOR ATTENTION.

 

[House of Tea]

And of course it’s deleted. She didn’t get the responses she wanted. I didn’t think I could be at a loss for words over her but I appear to be

Maybe someone advised her that her plea for sympathy backfired.

I am getting ads for Harvey Nichols on here. Some of the items look remarkably cheap in price, amongst the more spendy ones. So I thought I would click on a dress for £110 to see if it really was that cheap (for in there). Here it is….

 

[Ally Pally]

The guy she was thanking for being her emotional crutch/friend is an American screenwriter. So she still has a few friends in the biz.

Oh the name dropping was purposely done, she's so desperate to have Ioan know about her tete a tete she was practically salivating about it.

 

[ReturningthePearls]

Wait so at first she “wasn’t really su*cidal ” and then she was accepting condolences as if she were. I actually think God put her among us as exhibit A of someone who is inevitably, 100% Hell-bound. Don’t be like Alice, it’s a fuckin trap.

 

[claudiarocks]

Oh the name dropping was purposely done, she's so desperate to have Ioan know about her tete a tete she was practically salivating about it.

She’ll be steaming that she’s had to delete that post … the only proof she has a friend in RL gone in the hitting of a button … and all because she’s a lying attention seeking bint
She’ll be sucking the dregs out of that wine box as we speak

Maybe someone advised her that her plea for sympathy backfired.

I am getting ads for Harvey Nichols on here. Some of the items look remarkably cheap in price, amongst the more spendy ones. So I thought I would click on a dress for £110 to see if it really was that cheap (for in there). Here it is….View attachment 1215651

Uh oh no good for her baps ( or mine tbf)

 

[Mad Betty]

What is this doing to the girls? They can see her Instagram. What are they enduring at home? Shouldn't social services be involved at this point? I do not think that home environment is safe based on this behavior. This is the kind of behavior that leaves children walking on eggshells and incredibly fearful.

 

[welp]

now just imagine Ella reads her replies and sees that the only reason she hasnt killed herself are the kids (not the first time she has said that). This ensures even more that the kids will never reunite with their dad as they know that their dependence on mom is the only thing that keeps her alive apparently.

Even if it was true it's absolutely selfish to put young kids through this by openly saying it. I had a suicidal mom (she never said it until I witnessed and "prevented" - I happened to enter the room just the right time - two of her attempts when I was at the age of Alice's youngest). It's absolute hell to live in constant fear that your mother might harm herself. And this is not a thing since the divorce for them either. It goes back to at least 2019.

If you have suicidal thoughts and tbh - even if she is an absolute tit - you can in her position you deal with it with your families, friends and therapists (not one that fills your narc supply that your husband is horrible though) and leave the kids out. Talk about it in public when they are old enough and never tell that right now your well-being depends on them wtf

 

[claudiarocks]

Spoiler: Off topic Netflix

watched the innocent ( in one binge) really really good loads of twists and turns and another great cast selection

 

[Nesibindi]

She wants to try an exorcist… evil biatch !

Who else thinks Leon (her long suffering lawyer for newbies) is currently taking crystal meth with a 24g chaser she’s a complete weapon

At this stage he's most probably mainlining it. I bet her number gets blocked the day the divorce and related matters are final.

 

[MarkC1387]

She got her fix of attention and got in a few mentions about being gagged etc, job done.

 

[Mad Betty]

Oh the name dropping was purposely done, she's so desperate to have Ioan know about her tete a tete she was practically salivating about it.

I gather that Ioan also follows this male friend on Instagram. One could surmise that reaching out to him specifically, rather than one of her close girlfriends, was done with the intention that he'd then reach out to Ioan on her behalf. It would certainly circumvent the TRO no contact requirement but a concerned friend might certainly then reach out to Ioan on her behalf. She has tried to get other people to do this on her behalf before. I seem to recall that she contacted his friends and family multiple times.

 

[Just William]

@sh1tsandgiggles

This thread is so triggering for me today. Not only am I a step parent for a 11 year old who’s mum has done the whole PA thing and made as big a wedge between us (me and step child) that she can …..but also…. She’s messed their divorce about as much as she possibly can to the extent that my partner and I have been together almost 5 years, share a child of our own and they are STILL technically married! She’s pulled every trick in the book, plus -add in COVID waiting times… and here I am giving up the will!

Ive been engaged for 2years and 4 months It’s so draining. She’s also a controlling narc and it’s hell.

I'm so sorry to hear of your sad situation caused by yet another Narc & like Alice using PA & delaying tactics. They truly are evil.
I don't have anything to offer wisdom wise, just sending you my warmest wishes that one day soon this will be resolved & you & your OH are able to get married & your story will be one of love being triumphant over hate. xxx

@Lulugrace

Spoiler: reply

@Lulugrace - I'm so sorry you're struggling health wise & to hear that you were in an abusive relationship. But I'm very glad you got out.
I know it will take time to come to terms with it all but I wish you better brighter days ahead & hope as you blossom (& you will) that your health improves hugely as stress can cause so much damage. xxx

@Knitwit

Spoiler: reply

I'm so sorry to hear of your friends heart breaking news. For you to then see the posts from Alice must have been especially hard & hurtful.
I'm sure she will be very glad of your love, friendship & support. xxx

Hi all, skim read the last 10 pages of #93 as I took a break & just caught up. Was finding the discord uncomfortable even tho' there's nothing wrong with turds having differing opinions & if we all agreed all the time it would just be an echo chamber. It's funny, no matter how many decades have passed & how far I've come from being a walking on eggshells young teen; the peace keeper, people pleaser/appeaser, etc I still don't like conflict. Not that I can't hold my own nowadays or say no but it took me decades, but still the discomfort from conflict comes knocking at times so I took a step back.

I love being part of this wonderful community of people who are kind, caring, supportive, funny, intelligent & stand up against abuse. But I still have to remind myself it's ok to disagree & that different posts will trigger different responses depending on our personal viewpoints/experiences.
Most of us have experienced various abuse of some kind, experience of a Narc, other issues, etc.

For example - one of mine is kind of petty. ETA - no I'm not singling anyone out.
I am very b/w when it comes to Alice. I think she's an irredeemable abusive vile bleep. The initial sympathy I felt for her was killed stone dead on seeing the receipts here so I can get irritated at times by vacillating posts; one week condemning her & the next week feeling sorry for her, etc but maybe my stance says I am lacking as other turds seem to have more compassion but I can't fake it. I can't feel compassion or sympathy, etc for an abuser. Doesn't mean the opinions of other turds who do matter any less than mine, we're just different.

All my compassion, sympathy, empathy, goodwill, support, etc goes to the girls, IG, his family & B - her victims. Alice can rot in hell.
I'm aware there will be turds who don't agree with my b/w view but my unwavering stance is what it is. Words I find useful for reminding myself - it's ok if we disagree at times. Having said that I'm also glad of the scroll button, lol, as I'm sure others are! Sorry, couldn't resist!

I'm also b/w in my thinking she'll never change. She may be able to fake it for awhile but at heart she's a long term abusive Narc & an entitled bully. She could (& still might) cut out the pills & booze, diet/lose weight, get a proper job, etc but none of it will change who she is.
It would be a little better for the girls sake but it wouldn't change her selfish Narc nature or her view of them as her pawns.
I don't believe she loves them. Narcs aren't capable of real love. Narcs use people they don't love them.
I'll always believe the girls would be way better off with their dad full time even with the PA than live with her toxicity.
She may be their 'mother' (I use that term very loosely) & they love her but they're children who don't understand who she really is.
Hopefully one day that will change & they will walk away for their own sanity & stay away like their dad had to.

Spoiler: TW: suicide

There really are no depths she won't stoop to for attention & sympathy. She's beyond disgusting & vile. I know I'm not the only one here who has felt genuinely suicidal. I was in a very dark place for a very long time many years ago & attempted it twice. She sickens & revolts me. And once again brings up the step sister she barely even knew to get sympathy points. She is repugnant. I would say shame on her but she feels none as she has no conscience. As for her friend who doesn't say anything bad about anyone - it begs the Q how he could remain friends with such a POS?
Hugs to my fellow turds who have been there. xxx

 

[Ally Pally]

I gather that Ioan also follows this male friend on Instagram. One could surmise that reaching out to him specifically, rather than one of her close girlfriends, was done with the intention that he'd then reach out to Ioan on her behalf. It would certainly circumvent the TRO no contact requirement but a concerned friend might certainly then reach out to Ioan on her behalf. She has tried to get other people to intervene on her behalf before. I seem to recall that she contacted his friends and family multiple times.

She would be breaking the TRO by involving a third party to contact Ioan. My guess is that the lawyers acting for Ioan are laying down the terms of what Ioan wants in the divorce possibly? Alice is running out of road now regarding the house and the joint custody. The heels of her shoes must be worn away by now she's dug them in that much. She was positively gleeful in the IG post and will have fed said friend full of BS and out and out lies about Ioan and Bianca.

 

[Just William]

@ReturningThePearls
I’m still stunned by how she truly thinks everyone around her sees her as this well-known, intelligent, sexy, sophisticated lass, lmao “one of the men who are courting me” like she’s not a barrel of radioactive demon jizz.

One of the best & funniest descriptions of her I have read!

 

[M33L4]

I'm so sorry to hear of your sad situation caused by yet another Narc & like Alice using PA & delaying tactics. They truly are evil.
I don't have anything to offer wisdom wise, just sending you my warmest wishes that one day soon this will be resolved & you & your OH are able to get married & your story will be one of love being triumphant over hate. xxx

@Lulugrace

Spoiler: reply

@Lulugrace - I'm so sorry you're struggling health wise & to hear that you were in an abusive relationship. But I'm very glad you got out.
I know it will take time to come to terms with it all but I wish you better brighter days ahead & hope as you blossom (& you will) that your health improves hugely as stress can cause so much damage. xxx

@Knitwit

Spoiler: reply

I'm so sorry to hear of your friends heart breaking news. For you to then see the posts from Alice must have been especially hard & hurtful.
I'm sure she will be very glad of your love, friendship & support. xxx

Hi all, skim read the last 10 pages of #93 as I took a break & just caught up. Was finding the discord uncomfortable even tho' there's nothing wrong with turds having differing opinions & if we all agreed all the time it would just be an echo chamber. It's funny, no matter how many decades have passed & how far I've come from being a walking on eggshells young teen; the peace keeper, people pleaser/appeaser, etc I still don't like conflict. Not that I can't hold my own nowadays or say no but it took me decades, but still the discomfort from conflict comes knocking at times so I took a step back.

I love being part of this wonderful community of people who are kind, caring, supportive, funny, intelligent & stand up against abuse. But I still have to remind myself it's ok to disagree & that different posts will trigger different responses depending on our personal viewpoints/experiences.
Most of us have experienced various abuse of some kind, experience of a Narc, other issues, etc.

For example - one of mine is kind of petty. ETA - no I'm not singling anyone out.
I am very b/w when it comes to Alice. I think she's an irredeemable abusive vile bleep. The initial sympathy I felt for her was killed stone dead on seeing the receipts here so I can get irritated at times by vacillating posts; one week condemning her & the next week feeling sorry for her, etc but maybe my stance says I am lacking as other turds seem to have more compassion but I can't fake it. I can't feel compassion or sympathy, etc for an abuser. Doesn't mean the opinions of other turds who do matter any less than mine, we're just different.

All my compassion, sympathy, empathy, goodwill, support, etc goes to the girls, IG, his family & B - her victims. Alice can rot in hell.
I'm aware there will be turds who don't agree with my b/w view but my unwavering stance is what it is. Words I find useful for reminding myself - it's ok if we disagree at times. Having said that I'm also glad of the scroll button, lol, as I'm sure others are! Sorry, couldn't resist!

I'm also b/w in my thinking she'll never change. She may be able to fake it for awhile but at heart she's a long term abusive Narc & an entitled bully. She could (& still might) cut out the pills & booze, diet/lose weight, get a proper job, etc but none of it will change who she is.
It would be a little better for the girls sake but it wouldn't change her selfish Narc nature or her view of them as her pawns.
I don't believe she loves them. Narcs aren't capable of real love. Narcs use people they don't love them.
I'll always believe the girls would be way better off with their dad full time even with the PA than live with her toxicity.
She may be their 'mother' (I use that term very loosely) & they love her but they're children who don't understand who she really is.
Hopefully one day that will change & they will walk away for their own sanity & stay away like their dad had to.

Spoiler: TW: suicide

There really are no depths she won't stoop to for attention & sympathy. She's beyond disgusting & vile. I know I'm not the only one here who has felt genuinely suicidal. I was in a very dark place for a very long time many years ago & attempted it twice. She sickens & revolts me. And once again brings up the step sister she barely even knew to get sympathy points. She is repugnant. I would say shame on her but she feels none as she has no conscience. As for her friend who doesn't say anything bad about anyone - it begs the Q how he could remain friends with such a POS?
Hugs to my fellow turds who have been there. xxx

You are more than entitled to feel how you feel @Just William , you’re one of the kindest souls on here. I’m so sorry you’ve been through so much. It makes you compassionate and thoughtful, the two things Alice is furthest from.
Sending love xx

 

[claudiarocks]

She would be breaking the TRO by involving a third party to contact Ioan. My guess is that the lawyers acting for Ioan are laying down the terms of what Ioan wants in the divorce possibly? Alice is running out of road now regarding the house and the joint custody. The heels of her shoes must be worn away by now she's dug them in that much. She was positively gleeful in the IG post and will have fed said friend full of BS and out and out lies about Ioan and Bianca.

I snorted (because I’d have guessed if she hadn’t told us) when she said ‘I don’t have many male friends’ drop the word ‘male’ Alice … it’s always just been friends …. I’m really puzzled why though (skim reads court docs again )? !

 

[Just William]

You are more than entitled to feel how you feel @Just William , you’re one of the kindest souls on here. I’m so sorry you’ve been through so much. It makes you compassionate and thoughtful, the two things Alice is furthest from.
Sending love xx

Thanks so much dear @M33L4 for your kind words, much love back, xxx

 

[welp]

She would be breaking the TRO by involving a third party to contact Ioan. My guess is that the lawyers acting for Ioan are laying down the terms of what Ioan wants in the divorce possibly? Alice is running out of road now regarding the house and the joint custody. The heels of her shoes must be worn away by now she's dug them in that much. She was positively gleeful in the IG post and will have fed said friend full of BS and out and out lies about Ioan and Bianca.

if it concerns the kids she can contact him

but for this to concern the kids she 1.) has to start to acknowledge that he is their father & 2.) has to acknowledge that her suicidal thoughts are actually a danger to them

but we all know she will neither. probably she'll use it against him: "look, I send out a public cry for help and he didnt care"

speaking of public: if Alice still wonders why he doesnt want ever anything to do with her anymore she delivered another reason why by her yet again needing the public for something that is dealt with in private