Ah guys.
I was going to drop a message on here yesterday about how NICE it was that I hadn't felt the urge to comment on one of these threads with a stream of righteous fury that a woman was undermining other women etc etc.
That quiet - I had just assumed AE was maybe putting things in perspective, thinking 'how can I be my best self, give my family the best life and improve this whole situation' and just acting like an adult? Bloody hell, I may actually be really naive?
It's no surprise the nanny got fired. But the next nanny will get fired. And the one after that. Because at this point, I can't see her doing anything with these women other than manipulate them into enabling her. IG should not be paying the wages of an individual who enables this woman, to encourage parental alienation.
AE - if you do come on these sites, if you do read things about you, then understand the majority of people on here do NOT want to see you fail! If you fail, you damage your children, you damage their well-being, you damage their future. You want them to go to good schools, you want there to be money in the pot for them to attend a good university, you want them to have a home they love and not worry about how their mother is going to pay the bills.
You should be an example to your daughters that their whole being is not dependent on a man - no woman has ever been able to afford to have that identity.
Can we all just agree that nobody here wants to see this failure continue to happen, just on repeat, constantly, to the detriment of two young children? It's utterly insane.
IF she were to improve, I have absolutely no doubt that I'd have a scan of this forum and it would be full of people HAPPY about this improvement, with discussion moving towards how beneficial this improvement is. Discussion as to how in the face of a shitty situation and being left single is not always a bad thing - that's what we want? I don't want to keep typing about how disappointing it is that a woman acts this way and claims to do it on behalf of women. I want to type away about women doing great things and empowering each other to do great things. Like a wonderful little loop.
Honestly, this is insane. It's so disappointing.
P.S. Also, just adding. AE - you were also a good actress! So many people on here have said that. You actually had real talent. You were really good at something and you could have continued to be really good. Why on earth would you rather be known as the crazy bloated drunk who blew up her daughters lives because a man fell out of love with her, instead of an attractive talented actress? I do NOT understand the mentality behind this?!