Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #217 Digging out your minging old rags isn't vintage, it's just manky.

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scantysandwich

I think a lot of us on this thread recognise that we are caught up in the drama of this divorce, this custody battle. We may not be casual observers. We log in for updates and enjoy the gossip, the camaraderie and humour. We wish for justice and a happy ending even though that seems like a pipe dream a lot of the time.

Alice / sockalways seek to exploit a perceived weakness and knowing that we are invested she projects her favourite emotions onto us “devastation” and the like. Alice does not emote like a normal person yet believes she does and gets it spectacularly wrong time and time again.

We would all walk away tomorrow happily knowing the kids were reunified with Ioan and emotionally safe. Alice is not that interesting by herself. The only thing that makes any of us tune into this poorly scripted debacle is the other characters who we care for. Even in our dislike of Alice she isn’t the main character.

MOO
 
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AnneinHever

Diamonds60 said:
I love how mAlice tries to manipulate us . Trying to make us think we have damaged Ioans case lmao and awww Bianca will be in soooo much trouble. Mate you psycho, most of us came here from YOUR Lorraine show you utter shit show of a narc.
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You know, she might be that crazy. She’ll present a number of screenshots from a gossip site, where total strangers talk about her, and try to prove a connection with Bianca through Tamika, who hasn’t posted on said site for two years. All this based on a screenshot by Tamika that may or may not be genuine. Oh, I’d love to see Dupée’s face when Malice makes her case.
 
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BessieNessie

It’s a lovely thing to say but if she stops the SM and DM shenanigans tomorrow the whole thread basically ends. IG and the girls go back to having private lives away from gossip columns and we go back to minding our own business. It’s all on her, she put in a lot of effort to get this audience.
 
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whirlingbutterflies

This is exactly why I continue to be invested in this (well, apart from hoping Alice gets hers and Ioan reunites with his children). I cannot for the life of me understand why he spent 7 years with this unhinged, abusive, embarrassing psycho.

I WANT TO KNOW.
 
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Hiraeth

Hey all. I'm working on the index of Holy Court Documents for our Wiki. It's slow going but I should have something to upload soon.

Here's a preview. I will buy some of the earlier documents because I don't think we have them, but this preview only shows recent filings anyway.

 
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lulooo

I think that Papa and Mama Gruff had a hand in advising him about the pre nup, and I bet he had good lawyers too.
 
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Bridgeofsighs

I guess it's why anyone gets involved with a narc. You don't know they're a narc initially. Anyway I looked it up.

1. They target codependents, ie people pleasers.
2. They make you feel special.
3. They use shock, awe, and guilt.
4. They gaslight.
5. They play hot and cold games.

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Ametrine

It wasn't just seven years - it was nearly 20 years in total!
 
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scantysandwich

Yes we have nothing other than Alice / socks and court filings because Ioan / Bianca do not engage but I guess what I was trying to say (poorly) is that even though we watch the horror show that is Alice it doesn’t mean we care for her just like when you watch a tv show or film you might hate a character but it’s the characters you care for that somehow keep you coming back. Otherwise it’s just another narc narcing and she really isn’t that interesting on her own. She isn’t even a main character in her own life. What does she have that’s hers and not Ioan’s or the kids’? Her entire identity is being a barnacle on other people. I think someone earlier said limpet.
 
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Ametrine

Thank you so much @Hiraeth. Please take as much time as you need, there's no rush on our side.

And I hope in the index, the Transcripts of Hearsay™ will come in hot like a big enchilada.
 
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BessieNessie


That’s so true

Her entire identify is being a barnacle.

Title suggestion.
 
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Hiraeth



LMAO. They are so dumb. Any member of the public can get publicly available court documents and transcripts. Exhibit A: me.
 
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Diamonds60

Alices sock is trying really hard to get Tony involved today Lol. How much more desperate can you get
 
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scantysandwich

whirlingbutterflies said:
Yes, but he married her after knowing her for 7 years. I wonder what he thought her redeeming qualities were?
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1. Mastery of the glue gun
2. Dolls head choreography
3. Accessorising with aplomb
4. Letting him travel for work and spend much of his time away from her

I think he was dazzled by her, had no idea what he was experiencing was not normal but found himself enjoying being away from her. It probably made the time with her more tolerable and the good times better. 20 years with 40% of the time away is not actually that long together.

Much of my friendship group is well on the way to that length relationship with their partners.

He simply would not have travelled so much for work if he actually wanted to spend more time with her. That is one thing I do side eye him for a bit tbh. I know it was his job but it would have been better if she worked away a bit more and they shared raising the kids more. The kids would not have been so primed for mother dearest to alienate them. I am sure there is a lot he regrets and I am not for one second excusing that goblin.
 
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