Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #111 Hey Alice, get a job and go fund yourself!

[iieee]

I’m a supporter of Alice and I will tell you why. This woman was screwed over. Her husband in his 50’s went for the newer younger model. He betrayed her. He thought she would roll over, be quiet and take whatever he was willing to hand her. She didn’t roll over, she roared. Ask yourself this:, any of you been cheated on, or watched someone else try to recover from a gut punch like that? No mere mortal could do that gracefully. Men want us silent. Alice ain’t silent, she doesn’t do silence, and more power to her.

Hi, yeah my husband cheated on me for a number of years. I left him, didn't take anything "he was willing to hand me", but went out and worked and got my own place, new job, and share custody with him 50:50 without badmouthing him to my children because they have every right to love their father in spite of what happened between us. I think I did it gracefully. But please tell me how screaming like a banshee at the unfairness of it all would have improved my situation.

 

[House of Tea]

The Go Fund Me has trickled to almost a standstill.

She is going to have to come up with something spectacular to get it moving again.

She is in deep shit.

She will have to be her own lawyer. She will probably buy a wig, gavel and gown off eBay for her day in court.

 

[BingoFlamingo]

Surely the next thread title must be very simply ….

GRUFFUDD!!!

 

[welp]

But envisage a life where the western world, on all forms of scocial media and the tabloids and tv discuss you as a ‘trope.

Believe me, if Alice herself hadn't made it a public event herself no one would even report on them (just like it's the case for many c-list actors, in fact, some get divorced and no one knows it). She was posting all sorts of troubling things on her Social Media the year before (this is why I know she lies about being blindsided) and no one cared.

I've been following her shitshow for 15 years on-and-off (yes, Ioan is not her first victim): Alice WANTS this, she craves for attention. She isn't feeling embarassed for being the trope. She LOVES it.

 

[NarcRage]

How about

BETRAYAL - when you're the person who gave birth to them and supposed to love them but you're fucking their lives up

 

[Mad Betty]

Also want to tag @LeftoverCoffee

That’s the one point of my “scenario” that I haven’t and can’t seem to work out: Gloria

Pros to Ioan keeping her:
She knows the girls very well
She knows what they’ve been through
By all accounts (Alice) she loves them and they love her
She keeps her job and the work becomes 1 million times less demanding
The girls keep a serious source of comfort and familiarity in their upturned lives

Cons
Alice....have you ever had a boss that scares the living shit out of you? Especially in domestic work? She has herself has probably been a victim of drunk/hungover Alice meltdowns/abuse and is likely easily manipulated by her after how many years of it? (I’d read/buy THAT book and doubt SHE has signed an NDA or a “confidentiality clause” in her “contract” so get on it G-Lo $$ minus the kids of course). Gloria wouldn’t get a moments peace if Alice found
Possible history of insubordination with Ioan (see above, scared of Alice)
Possible reporting back to Alice
Possible issues enforcing a new stricter life on the girls per Ioan’s instructions

Again, speculating

I'd cut Gloria loose as fast as I could. I've said it before. Alice has engulfed and love bombed her to oblivion and she can't be neutral and IMO, she can't be trusted. Alice has weaponized her. She has repeatedly stated that Gloria is on her side. I'm sure she's a lovely woman, but she's vulnerable and likely gullible. You do not want an extension of Alice working against you and your relationship with your girls.

Me? I'd include that in any future proceedings. A no contact period between Gloria and the girls. They need to reunify with their father and if Alice and her personal assistant Gloria are filling their heads with more PA, I'd cut that off pronto.

My opinion.

 

[AsYouLikeIt]

I’m a supporter of Alice and I will tell you why. This woman was screwed over. Her husband in his 50’s went for the newer younger model. He betrayed her. He thought she would roll over, be quiet and take whatever he was willing to hand her. She didn’t roll over, she roared. Ask yourself this:, any of you been cheated on, or watched someone else try to recover from a gut punch like that? No mere mortal could do that gracefully. Men want us silent. Alice ain’t silent, she doesn’t do silence, and more power to her.

Many people in this comments section have been in that exact position. My sister's husband left her for another woman when she was six months pregnant with their second child. She was traumatised and she cried and ranted about him in private to her sisters and mother. She has never ever said a bad word about him to the children or in public. She has maintained a very good relationship with his parents too. Her third child to her second husband even calls the first husband's parents Grandparents! He still gives her the bare minimum of child support. She has paid for everything for the children (including private school fees). The children are now 19 & 16 and they are wise to the person their dad is now. The truth always outs. Alice is just humiliating herself.

 

[plinky2]

It always comes back to the same thing

Even if your husband, since you were 16 years old, gets to 65 and runs off with 2 women from love island then marries a camel there is still no excuse for behaving like Alice has.

‘Anger’ has now resulted in harassment so bad the law now has had to get involved. She still is not divorced. She’s ruined any chance of a future career. She’s ruining her childrens lives.

You know what we are all saying. Hell yeah I would have thrown all Ioans clothes into the garage, given him the middle finger, taken him to court to get a divorce, got my settlement then laugh at his bald patch in private with my mates. I’m not absolutely devoid of understanding why she’s fucking seething and I’m not saying I wouldn’t be, I just wouldn’t also set fire to MY OWN LIFE AND THAT OF MY KIDS

 

[welp]

anyway, not a meme, but when I saw the Gruffudd!!! post this is how I pictured Alice

 

[sh1tsandgiggles]

On the plus my boob dramas just made me a V.I.P

I‘d like the thank my right boob, my left one,
my mum, my dad,
ioan,
alice and
Bianca

*takes bow*

 

[Arctic Ocean]

Meanwhile on Bianca's Insta...

I much prefer large dogs, but I'll happily make an exception for this little fella.

 

[pepe le pew]

I’m a supporter of Alice and I will tell you why. This woman was screwed over. Her husband in his 50’s went for the newer younger model. He betrayed her. He thought she would roll over, be quiet and take whatever he was willing to hand her. She didn’t roll over, she roared. Ask yourself this:, any of you been cheated on, or watched someone else try to recover from a gut punch like that? No mere mortal could do that gracefully. Men want us silent. Alice ain’t silent, she doesn’t do silence, and more power to her.

 

[ButterTart]

Being cheated on is a terrible betrayed. Bad enough if this is exposed in your own life ‘bubble’. Maybe the family know, the mums at school, your friends. That’s hurts enough just there. But envisage a life where the western world, on all forms of scocial media and the tabloids and tv discuss you as a ‘trope. The ‘trope’ being, you got dumped for the newer younger person. And at 50, you have to remake your life. Rethink all your expectations. And you LOVE this man. You love him. Love isn’t an ‘app’ that you delete. It’s embedded in your heart. You don’t just stop loving someone. And, you ask anyone who has been betrayed if when they fou out what was going on, did they just shrug, and the get on with their lives? No they didn’t. They lay on the floor and tried to find a way of just getting on their feet again. Let alone creating a new life without this person in it, who, you orbited. Now you have to lie to your kids, tell them stories to placate them to the appearance of the new woman. And walk around with a fake smile on your face, looking Nobel. Screw that. If you are angry then ROAR. Silence is for the coward.

You're kidding, right? The only reason there has been sustained coverage is because of Alice's antics. I have friends who had way more horrific splits than this one, which is pretty garden variety. They handled themselves like adults, encouraged their kids to have a relationship with their dads, and got on with their lives.

Alice IS lying to her kids - about their dad, who desperately wants to see them and she won't allow it. All in their own words in the 113 page request for a domestic violence restraining order he filed and obtained. Alice is also lying about her ex, accusing him of all manner of things, some criminal, of which there is zero proof.

This isn't the medieval era. People are allowed to get out of relationships, particularly abusive ones. Which Alice has made this into.

Suggest you read more about this particular case before blindly supporting this abuser. It's pretty ironic you are all over Katie Price but support Alice Evans. Two incredibly similar women.

 

[Mad Betty]

She truly has no sense of perspective or class does she? In this climate with everything going on in the world she posts that?!
Fuck her. Absolute monster. It’s a divorce you daft cunt.

Exactly! Miss anti gun violence and she posts something that graphic that's clearly about Ioan?

The girls can see it. My God.

 

[ButterTart]

Amusing ... she is quietly deleting some of her feedback from this month. She was at 18 yesterday ... today it's showing 13 for this month but her overall feedback number is the same, so it's not a question of the positive going down because she's gotten negatives or neutrals (she hasn't). Alice, there are screenshots, and people have seen them. You can try to hide it but frankly, trying to make it look like it was 13 purchases when 18 appared and when you are begging online for food ... tsk, tsk.

ETA: the deleted ones were from the high end designer seller ... some are still up but I expect those to go too.

 

[klairklopp]

I will be fair to Alice she isn’t the first or last to make the terrible mistake of putting a man in the centre of her world then resenting him for exiting the allocated position.

Someone can only be idolised on the pedestal by you, you have a choice whether you elevate them to this level and whether it’s healthy or sustainable. I know from experience that there are 2 main reasons why people do this, its control and insecurity - you love them so smotheringly and intently that they will never want to leave you, but it’s a false sense of security. Humans will never belong to one another and have free will, if someone doesn’t want to be idolised or loved by you anymore, they can leave you. It is even more likely they will leave you if you smother and control them.

It’s a lot to live up to be the title of ‘centre of someone’s universe’ even kids. What a responsibility to place on someone’s head. I’ve had a hard time letting my kids go and be independent as I feel the pull towards them constantly but they don’t feel it towards me anymore, that realisation is a heartbreak in itself but my desire for them to be happy and free (even if it means without me) so I have had to find other things to enjoy in life to fill those gaps

This is so true. I dedicated my life to my family and when you are no longer needed in the same way it’s a hard adjustment to make. Me and Mr Klopp are trying to find a new way of living as just a couple again and I’ve started meeting up with old friends. Nothing in life is a given and I get that Alice thought she would be married forever so this must have been a massive shock for her but she has to move on. I thought my family would be together forever but our son died in an road accident on Christmas Eve 2017 ripping all our hearts out. The self pity and bile Alice has makes me furious, yes her husband has left her but she still has so much to live for and if she hadn’t gone nuclear it could have all been sorted now. Ioan could have had the girls half the time giving her the chance to explore new things, reconnect with people, get back into acting ( ), instead she’s decided to be a demonic bitter old hag using her girls as weapons. Sadly I don’t see it ending well……

 

[Bridgeofsighs]

I wonder how Olivier feels all these years later being vindicated that Alice was a cheater. Remember the trashy mag spread about it? She revelled in the cheating then.

I bet Olivier was fuming with jealousy.

He wanted to be the one having sex with Ioan.

 

[Just William]

I've been catching up in between doing other stuff & chatting with a couple friends.

The truth is out there spread over YEARS on her SM (incl' how she treated her 'soulmate') of who she really is & what she does but people can't be arsed to do the research so they just take her rantings as gospel & then applaud her for it. If they've been cheated on then some live vicariously through her. There is NO proof she was cheated on. NONE. She publicly accused him of leaving her for his mother!
There IS proof of her abusing him for YEARS.

A recap for those at the back.

Alice has always been like this. She just didn't have the wider audience she does today.
She has always been abusive, entitled & nasty. Raging when things don't go her way.
At just 14 she raged so hard she managed to stop her parents moving house!
She isn't heartbroken. She's seething that her prized possession/cash cow had the nerve to finally walk away from her abuse.
She hates women - they're all competition to her, even her own daughters. Hence her vile 'get a room' comment when little E was cuddling Ioan.
She abused Ioan.
Check out the 113 PUBLIC pages of the TRO he got which contrary to the gospel according to Alice, they're not easy to get.
Ioan left with just the clothes on his back.
He needed a police escort to collect his stuff a year later & she was court ordered to stay away while he did it.
She abused him on SM. She belittled & insulted him, for YEARS. God only knows what she did in private.
We do know he had a black eye from when she hit him with a golf club, apparently accidentally.
He was unhappy for years & asked her to change her behaviour (SM addiction, alcoholism, etc) she CHOSE to ignore him.
She invaded his personal boundaries repeatedly even after he asked her not to & mocked him publicly for having boundaries.
He gave her enough notice he was leaving. He wanted collaborative. SHE chose to fight as her ego is wounded, not her heart.
She doesn't even know what love means. If she had ever loved him she wouldn't have treated her 'soul mate' the way she did.
If she genuinely loved the girls she wouldn't be traumatising them with her PA & passing on all her hate, bile, histrionics & trashing their daddy.
She's a proven pathological liar, histrionic, contradicts herself, projects & cannot ever take responsibility for her own actions.
It doesn't matter what it is, it's always somebody's else's fault. Check out the parking video on TMZ.
She is always the innocent wronged victim spanning YEARS.
SHE whines about the $$$ spent on lawyers but it's SHE who has dragged this out.
She exhibits all the signs of a Narcissist yet says everyone else is a Narc. What are the odds!
I could go on but suspect it will fall on deaf ears. There are none so blind as those who choose not to see just like Alice chose not to listen to Ioan when he was honest & expressing how unhappy he was.
ETA - she has zero empathy for anyone not named Alice which anyone reading her posts would spot but again, none so blind.

How did we get all this information? From her own SM!!!

Anyone who has researched this shitstorm & seen ALL the receipts & still supports this abuser is an abuse apologist.
Alice is an older & nastier Amber Heard.

 

[M33L4]

 

[M33L4]

She truly has no sense of perspective or class does she? In this climate with everything going on in the world she posts that?!
Fuck her. Absolute monster. It’s a divorce you daft cunt.

Someone got an email from the lawyers then??