Did I got this right? Did she said that Elsie, a almost 9 year old, sleeps regulary in the same bed as her. And that's why she has recently pushed back her usual binge ranting about Ioan from late night to early evening (when she could do stuff with the kids)? And Elsie is staying with Gloria tonight (presumably paid) so that Alice can get her fix?
the main reason why she pays still for the nanny despite having limited budget is to never have a reason to give the kids to him and thus also to the "bikini" (she is inept to take care of two kids alone, even without working), and I reckon this was part of the reason why Ioan stopped paying for her. Her fans not only sponsor an abuser, they also sponsor her parental alienation (which is child abuse)
As for Elsie sleeping in Alice's bed regulary: I get that many childreen do that till they are in around Elsie's age, and sometimes you cant prevent it due to anxiety. But I feel like this is yet another parenting issue too confronting for her to approach when it will be more problematic (because she is the fun parent yknow)