Also Alice faux panics when Ella is there so ella is never able to be fully present she has to be on hand to give Alice reassurance 1 min after she’s walked out of the door. Ella also now is struggling to make a decision on her own without Alice’s instructions. When Ioan asked Ella to hand over her phone, this sounds like Ella freaked out about not being able to be in contact with Alice - knowing Alice wouldnt cope with thatElla's probably worried her mothers going to overdose or drink herself to death while she goes to visit her father. Imagine that burden? Emergency custody needs to be sought now he should have enough grounds those children are being horribly abused.
I've said this before but there is a factor called "runaway" age in regards to custody and visitation where anywhere in the teen ages, a judge can decide that the risk of running away is no longer worth forcing visitation or custody.I haven't read it fully but what I feared, is absolutely true. Alice doesn't give a fuck about the court order stating Ioan must have visitation and the girls must have therapy. She does whatever she wants.
Alice is using the kids as weapons against Ioan and Ella is her mini-me spouting her bullshit at Ioan. He might as well have never left Alice as he still has to hear her bullshit via Ella who parrots her or via Alice constantly calling when he is trying to have quality time with the girls. Sadly Elsie is influenced both by her cunt of a mother and by big sis. Things are as bad as ever as no meaningful therapy or quality time has happened and the PA is still very explicit and not done more subtly as some of us thought. Alice doesn't do subtle.
If Ioan is awarded the lion's share of the custody, I really worry about what will happen. Ella has been primed like a bomb* ready to explode and Ioan needs witnesses to be around her. To be scared of your own kid is horrific.
*due to brainwashing by that cunt.
You’ve nailed it again. That poor kid, she is the one the most damage has been inflicted on, of course she’s lashing out.He’s letting her feel it, he lets her walk away and he’s still there for her. This is important
They also know Ioan is a good parent and won’t force them physically or emotionally into bending to his will. He just will walk behind them home, hiding his upset from them. Alice is able to take advantage of this.I've said this before but there is a factor called "runaway" age in regards to custody and visitation where anywhere in the teen ages, a judge can decide that the risk of running away is no longer worth forcing visitation or custody.
I know this because my twin nieces were 13 when I got custody and they actually had runaway from their Father's house to mine. This played a big factor in deciding custody.
It sounds to me like Marie is very much aware of this too and the girls are setting up to prove they will runaway if forced to visit with their Father.
All of this is actually making me furious and sick.
So what would happen in this case as they don't have any other family nearby? Could the judge order daily therapy and give Ioan 100% custody. It is obvious that living with Alice is detrimental to both girls, especially Ella. Did your nieces reconcile with their parents?I've said this before but there is a factor called "runaway" age in regards to custody and visitation where anywhere in the teen ages, a judge can decide that the risk of running away is no longer worth forcing visitation or custody.
I know this because my twin nieces were 13 when I got custody and they actually had runaway from their Father's house to mine. This played a big factor in deciding custody.
It sounds to me like Marie is very much aware of this too and the girls are setting up to prove they will runaway if forced to visit with their Father.
All of this is actually making me furious and sick.
it was me! Thank you for the update KatyaSomeone was asking about @Just William . Pretty sure she popped up just recently on Hazza and Megsy threads.
Thread title right there ….Ella is very money orientated. Told her dad he had wasted money on legal fees. Not worried about losing her dad, but hates the reduction in lifestyle, and the loss of the expensive school.
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I genuinely don’t know how Ioan is keeping going. The guy isn’t a wimp, he’s a fucking super hero.
Or saying that if she was such a bad mother why has he left the kids with her? She is holding those kids as hostages and she's not letting go. Ioan knows she's a shit mother but his hands are tied in many ways. He's doing what he can within the law but he's fighting a losing battle right now.I'm actually fuming over her frequently shaming him for not having requested more than 6 hours still, this woman is
You know if he takes 100% his career is over. He can easily take them. He will never be allowed to leave LA If it’s only physical and not legal custody.Ioan could try for an emergency order for custody. All the evidence of emotional abuse, PA, ongoing DVRO violations. It's all right there. I've said before I understand the methodical approach and how Ioan, especially as a male, has to provide an extreme amount of evidence/proof. It's enough. There's enough abuse for the entire world to see. Whatever is happening behind closed doors is likely worse.
I get where you're coming from. I don't see coparenting ever working because Al will just torture the girls and Yo the whole time.If Ioan doesn’t get full custody and leave LA with the girls he may as well just move to Australia withand hope that one day they will understand why. And please don’t come at me for saying this.
Or the UK. There would be more work there for him I believe.If Ioan doesn’t get full custody and leave LA with the girls he may as well just move to Australia withand hope that one day they will understand why. And please don’t come at me for saying this.
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