Even if her conduct was not as egregious as Alice's, the consequences were particularly harsh. I mention it as a warning not as a comparison. Alice is in a category of her own.Kelly was a saint compared to her!
Just when you think you’ve hit cunt bottom.You think she can’t sink lower and here we are.
I wonder what would have happened to Ioan without Bianca. He'd be homeless and going through this shit alone. The injustice of the crap thrown at Bianca fucks me right off too.I genuinely don’t know how Ioan is keeping going.
This is spot on and incredibly insightful. Ella is SAFE to show her fury to Ioan, never to Alice. The enormity of this truly can’t be underestimated. Ioan is dealing with this incredibly, it must be terrible to be the undeserved focal point of that fury.Yes but this is because she can lash out at him, he is safe, she can’t lash out at Alice. Ioan won’t stop seeing her or punish her because she called him a wimp. Ioan will always turn up at 10am on Saturday. This is all on Alice, this is a horrible example of fear and manipulation. She literally doesn’t know if Alice is going to be alive when she gets back or how bad the moods will be
Yeah this really bothered me.Ella calls her dad, her loving father a wimp. His heart must be in pieces.
I'm going with all of the above!I read that as (take your pick)
"Alice threatened
1. suicide
2. saying Yo is a pedalo
3. hateful speech along the lines of "the babies can support me or fuck off
I agree. Therapy will not do any good if Alice is still in the picture because she will continue to mentally abuse them and undo any progress.I said before that co-parenting with someone like Alice is impossible. Ioan needs to realise that his 50/50 goal while reasonable with a normal person, ABSOLUTELY will not work with that cunt. It will be all or nothing. Either he gets 100% or Alice does (she has 100% already as his visitation is a joke right now).
The girls will need to be deprogrammed if he gets them of course. It would be a very fraught situation for both Ioan and Bianca. Many men would just throw in the towel rather than deal with this shit. It's to his credit that Ioan doesn't.
They need boundaries too - which will never happen with Alice.These kids are living in an unstable environment, between Alice's madness and the uneven custody agreement. They need stability, love, and good counseling.
Look I’ve said this before I had 2 kids who were afraid of their other parent and afraid to say anything and I got the entire brunt of it. It was so hard. OMG the things they would say to me but I had to keep telling myself that it wasn’t personal, they don’t know how else to express themselves because they have to suppress it all around their dad. This is child emotion 101. If Ella doesn’t get some meaningful intervention soon this could become part of her behaviour ongoing but it’s not too late. She knows he loves her and he is being consistent. She’s so mad at him because she’s over burdened, stressed and struggling. He’s letting her feel it, he lets her walk away and he’s still there for her. This is importantThis is spot on and incredibly insightful. Ella is SAFE to show her fury to Ioan, never to Alice. The enormity of this truly can’t be underestimated. Ioan is dealing with this incredibly, it must be terrible to be the undeserved focal point of that fury.
Thank you to the turds who have downloaded the docs; as always the reality is far worse than what I imagined.
100% custody is the only hope for the girls and the relationship between Ioan and the girls at this point.
Alice is…evil. She really is. Just evil.
Reading the document is like a gut punch. Poor kids. She is rotten to the core. She is going to end up a bitter, lonely old woman.Alice Evans is NOT A SNITCH!!
It's worse than I imagined. Of course, it always is and I imagine there's still a lot that isn't being released.
it seems clear to me that Alice freaked out that the kids got food from her (which can be seen as a first step to meeting her too). The break in regular visitations clearly happens at the point she mentioned this on twitter. One can only imagine how she would react if they'd actually meet her.Think it is clear the girls have not met Bianca. They are a long way off that.
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