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3. Debating having a sperm donor to have a baby, due to past relationships I dont think I’d want to live with a man again, and can’t find a man I can tolerate speaking to for more than 5 days😂
I mean it may not always be ideal but I have thought my life would be so much easier if my children were only my children and no one else's. So I say go for it!
 
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1.I am learning a different language
2.I can write with both hands
3.I absolutely love this site 😊😊
 
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1. I love history and find the Tudors dynasty fascinating.
2.I am glamorous cat lady ( i hate the term) i have 2 at the moment.
3. I dislike social media and believe it is the root to a lot of problems.
 
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1. I have a long term illness but no one would’ve guessed just by looking at me.
2. These are very unpopular opinions but I’m not a big fan of tattoos or animals.
3. I’m on my phone nearly all the time but being on it makes me miserable, the constant comparing yourself to others and feeling worthless or not good enough.
 
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2. These are very unpopular opinions but I’m not a big fan of tattoos or animals.
3. I’m on my phone nearly all the time but being on it makes me miserable, the constant comparing yourself to others and feeling worthless or not good enough.
Get a dog! It’ll take you off your phone and make you get outside and laugh again. And dogs think their owners are BRILLIANT!
 
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Get a dog! It’ll take you off your phone and make you get outside and laugh again. And dogs think their owners are BRILLIANT!
but I hate animals 😂. I think I’m on my phone so much because it has my whole life on here, it’s easy to message people and I’ve done a lot of online shopping since coronavirus. Being on social media is pretty depressing but it’s how I keep in contact with everyone. I have a daughter and she keeps me busy but when she’s asleep and I scroll through my phone I’m easily distracted and time goes so quickly 🤦‍♀️
 
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  1. I’m Welsh
  2. I’m a lapsed member of Mensa (we took the tests in school)
  3. I can’t decide whether to get a second dog or not
 
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1) I’ve always struggled with my weight & been up & down but then I managed to lose loads & looked really good for a few years going to the gym etc but I got so bored of constantly being bothered about what I looked like and what to eat & trying to not over eat & I discovered body positivity & hde . . Well I was swept away with it all & im not 3 stone over weight n pissed off ..!!!

2) Everytime I grow my hair really long .. I chop it all off .. then 2 months later regret it

3) I was born at 28 weeks old & weighed 2.2 lbs .. trying to get back to that weight again 🤣
 
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I have lots of handbags too! Love handbags,bras, and shoes.

I need to add a 4 and 5 after seeing other people's responses that I can resonate with.

4. I always check my ear buds, and my shoes for spiders before putting them on. I cannot blindly wear them without checking, I'll have a heart attack! Have I ever found a spider to validate this strange habit? No. Don't know why I do it 😄

5. Most people have a flight or fight instinct, I have a freeze instinct. When somebody says or does something I don't like, I don't defend myself. Later I kick myself for not saying this or that, and letting them get away with it. My mother in law does this the most to me. She's hurt me so many times and she keeps doing it because she knows I won't stand up for myself. The few times I've stood up to her, it was overkill because of all the other stuff I kept in. Then the family comforts and defends her, and I'm left looking like the bad guy. I hate it. If there's one thing I would change about myself it would be that.
I totally relate to point 5, except for me it's not the Mother in Law, it's the sister in law! My other halfs older sister is one of those people who has to know everything about everyone, and has an opinion on absolutely everything. She says what she wants and she doesn't care who she hurts, but god forbid anyone does it to her. I won't stand up to her because I know how nasty she can get so I don't see it as worth it. instead I just go silent. I think the worst thing she ever said to me (after she had fallen out with my partner) was "If you've got any plans for your life you can wave goodbye to them now cos my brother has no intentions of going anywhere with his life" (not true, my other half owns a successful business) "and you'll never ever be a Mother so enjoy seeing everyone elses" - she knows i've had 2 cervical cancer scares and have something called cervical erosion - so she knew that would hurt me! I always think of things afterwards that I could have said to her, but in the moment I seem to freeze and say nothing!
 
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Hello I joined this forum today, thought this thread might be a good place to start

1. I’m a stage 3 cancer survivor (15 years later, still going strong)
2. At 45 I retrained as a sports coach after being in office jobs since I was 18
3. I get frustrated with people who don’t ”get me”. I’m highly organised and strive to do my best, this seems to make some people think I’m “little miss perfect“ when nothing could be further from the truth. The sly little digs get me down occasionally.
 
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1. I love history and find the Tudors dynasty fascinating.
2.I am glamorous cat lady ( i hate the term) i have 2 at the moment.
3. I dislike social media and believe it is the root to a lot of problems.
I'm glad someone else has recognised the evils of social media. And anyone who is a cat person, is ok by me.
 
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