New primark video is crap… don’t know why I expected otherwise. Lots of “oh this wouldn’t fit me” “I wouldn’t get one of my legs in that” then the nursery called and said Renaelia was inconsolable so she had to end the video
imo of course started crying…
WHAT?? The nursery called her to say Ren was crying??
I’ve worked in nursies and lots of children cry once their mum leaves them and we’d never ever called to tell them to come and collect… ??? I just find that so strange. I mean, the mums are ATWORK, so they can’t just leave to pick them up at the drop of a hat.
Imo either said to the nursery “call me if she cries!!” OR she’s lying.
You ring if they seem illl or have bumped their head or something else, not just because they’re crying. It’s not an unusual thing.
Saying that though.. if she’s doing what Imo has said before where she cries to the point of screaming and banging her head against the wall then I’m sorry but she needs to take her to the GP because it’s not typical behaviour to be THAT distressed because your mum’s dropped you off at nursery. Why has EVERYTHING got to be so dramatic with them?
I’m going back to work in a few weeks and if I dropped my son off with my mum n he did nothing but scrreeeaammm and cry and get distressed to the point of hitting his head of things I would honestly be soooo worried about his behaviour & would be 1000% taking to the HV / the GP for some type of support
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I think R has such extreme reactions because it’s all she sees from Imo and I know this sounds strange but Imo praises it ??
If R does something independently Imo acts and responds in a really passive aggressive way
“oh wow.. yeah go on then.. just do your own thing.. whatever”
If R gets upset and only wants Imo it’s “
oh wow my sweet angel girl you are the most amazing fantastic thing ever to grace this planet I love you beyond wordddss”
I’m sorry but that HAS to have an impact on you even at a young age.
it’s sad that Imo doesn’t want a happy well adjusted child and gets off on R being anxious and unconfident and unable to do anything without Imo being there.
when I look at my baby by the time he’s Rens age I want him to be able to trust different adults, socialise with others, start to play independently.. I don’t need him to ONLY want me and cry whenever I leave the room to know we’ve got an amazing bond and he loves me. I just find it soooooo fuckin strange that as a mother you need that level of emotional response to validate your child loves you.
poor Ren
. I really hope the HV gets more involved when the second comes along because they’ve literally set that poor child up for complete failure just to fuel her ego / narcissism.
!! I never understood those videos I could literally go into primark myself and look! Her views are so 
please shut the 
