I am Sarahjayjay #7 A murky moral vacuum

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Any true socialist would say that in “Going Private” you are actively investing in a system full of corruption and money-making scandal that exploits patient trust for profits. I’m surprised she was so willing to support private healthcare in the first place.

If your GP says, “Yeah, this is a common issue that isn’t so much of an issue that we need to prioritise spending from a limited NHS budget on it” there’s a good chance it doesn’t require expensive treatment. However, if you then go out of your way to see someone at a private practice, armed with potentially £1000s to line their pockets with, of course they’re going to give you everything and more. You’re a customer first, patient second. Could you do without it? Yes probably. But will they try and sell you it anyway? Yup. Private healthcare is a business. That business will upsell everything it thinks it can get away with without detriment to your health to capitalise on your hysteria and impatience. Very socialist system indeed.

A little anecdote about how private will rip you off if they think they can:

Someone I am acquainted with who has various mental health diagnoses, lost a close grandparent and inherited some cash. Whilst still grieving, and during a mental health episode, she decided to blow much of her inheritance on breast enlargement.

Now, if she had gone to the NHS and said, “I need bigger boobs to make me happy” the NHS would have said, a) We don’t have the funds for that, but b) Look, you probably just need some therapy and support and let’s review your medication. Which I believe in hindsight is what she truly needed.

However, private? Nah. “That’ll be a few thousand pounds please. We can get you in theatre in 2 weeks.” Within days, literally days, of her surgery she was distraught. She couldn’t believe what she had done to her body nor where her mindset had gone. She had never, ever ever been someone who picked fault with her body, she was always so secure in her image, even as a teen. She had especially never been unhappy with the size of her boobs either - until that very difficult time in her life combined with a mental health episode. As soon as she was fit to undergo surgery again, she had her implants whipped straight out. KERCHING! 💸 She now lives her life with two very expensive scars, and some company has her gran’s life’s savings for the privilege.

That’s not the only time I’ve seen a “well, you’re the customer, have whatever you like” attitude with private healthcare. I know the details of this one inside and out because I cared for her. Aunt, never wanted any kids (fair play!), never really liked kids, has hoarded her wealth to leave to a donkey sanctuary or something some day, was told by the NHS that she will probably need a hip replacement in the next couple of years, decided that she wasn’t going to dilly dally, and within weeks she’d splashed £20k on having it done privately and later decided she probably could/should have just waited. Not sure there’s much money left for that donkey sanctuary or even a rainy day now.

And don’t get me started on how many people we see stories of who didn’t really need bariatric surgery, they probably just needed some dietitian support, a personal trainer, or even some therapy, or actually maybe just some self-esteem boosting to accept their body and that it genetically/hormonally/biologically/whateverally gravitates to being bigger than a half-starved Victoria’s Secret model. All too often these stories end with major complications, like nutrient deficiencies (because if you don’t take supplements literally for life to counterbalance what the gut no longer absorbs…) that can then lead to organ failure (which becomes an NHS issue). A lot of the time, these people can’t keep up with eating smaller amounts because their brain isn’t wired that way or their lifestyles are so fixed (hence why diets continually failed) and they just end up eating until they’re sick every meal. Great for the oesophagus that! They end up sicker than they were just being a bit porky, and some even die as a result. Does it affect the private surgeon who performed the permanent whipping out of half of their stomach for a massive pay cheque though? Nope. The misguided patient made a choice and signed on the dotted line - their problem now!

“But we gave them a half-hearted psych analysis in a matter of weeks, what more can you ask for?!”

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve also known someone to get private healthcare through work and the resources private healthcare can access do piss all over what the NHS can offer, undeniably. After over a decade of the NHS scratching their heads about his symptoms he was finally diagnosed with something very unusual but very easily put right and he is mended and living his best life now. But is that an argument to support private healthcare, or just an argument to better fund the NHS?

If the NHS doesn’t think you’re a good candidate for some types of treatment, I always think it’s worth considering: Is that because of a major systemic funding issue, or is that literally because it’s not actually that essential for me? Critical thinking and self-awareness skills help determine the answer.

For those who can muster the funds, there are some marvellous private healthcare experts who diagnose rare disorders and save people from months/years on NHS waiting lists getting sicker, and the patient care might be tip top, but they will also take liberties where they can, without a doubt.

To conclude:The fact Sarah hasn’t had any treatment for 5 years and is still alive and kicking and stuffing her face with UPFs says it all. She didn’t need to spend all that money, and they fully took advantage of her.

That went on longer than I anticipated.

Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
Sarah is only a socialist in so far as she wants to benefit from such a system without having to put in anything herself.

I've said it before, but I don't think for one minute she actually believes in socialism, she just picked it up as she thought there'd be the most cash cows there. RIP BMAC.
 
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It’s quite telling that today she was referring to how this is her first experience of having bloods taken since pre-covid. Pre-covid is 4+ years ago now. So all these practically dangerously low or “almost borderline” levels she quotes are from basically half a decade old results?

Don’t people with diagnosed thyroid conditions generally get tested more often than that? Or is that just for cats?

Remember how she fundraised for her private treatment in 2021? And then showed “receipts”, dated 2017, 2018, and 2019…? We never did get confirmation about where that 2021 money went, did we?

She could’ve had those tests done on thriva for way less at the time. Plus I’m seeing results on there in the “normal” range. If she wants optimal, vitamin d would likely do that. Lo and behold her d is in the low numbers…
 
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Trying to justify her atrocious eating habits again I see 🙄

Is it normal for kids to get colds? Yes. Is it also normal for kids to get multiple colds throughout the year? Yes. Is it normal for kids to need to have weeks off school to recover from colds? No. Is food fuel and does diet and lifestyle impact on our immunity and ability to fight off illnesses? Absofuckinglutely. Is it that straightforward? No, but it’s a good starting point to go from there to achieve better health.

Are 2 takeaways in 3 days and a duck tonne of chicken nuggets, fizzy drinks, and white bread going to make for a healthy body? DON’T MAKE ME LAUGH.

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You’d think for someone who allegedly studied a science at Masters level she’d have a bit better grasp on what “evidence” looks like and what confirmation bias is. Putting a leading question into Google proves zilch. Screenshotting/linking the first page the algorithm deems an accurate reflection of your search term is NOT “evidence” of anything. Nor is cherry picking the parts of an article that apply to your point with no context.

I’m going to use the example of when Sarah tried to accuse me of being a tight witch depriving my kids of nourishment because we eat a 90% vegetarian diet (that saves money because we don’t eat ultra processed fake meats but beans and lentils etc and not just sausages and crisps).

Here is what she said:

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Now let’s take a closer look at her search result:

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And closer still:

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Sarah used a leading search “vegetarian diet leaves kids with deficiencies”. Of course, a search engine being a clever little search engine will have optimised search results to give you exactly what you’ve asked for, and it will be biased towards results about “vegetarian diet”and “vegetarian kids” including the word “deficiencies“. Typing in a negative search term will generally offer negatively influenced results.

Now, in the name of good, fair scientific understanding, let’s perform a control experiment! What happens when we search:

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Here you will see I have instructed Google using the words “vegetarian diet good for kids” and here’s what comes up first:

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Surprise, surprise, the top resul a very different picture! It’s almost like by leading with the word “good” I biased the search! Wow! So a veggie diet can be good but just gotta watch out for those vitamins and minerals, as you do in all diets! Gotcha!

So let’s try one last, third technique. How about I don’t used a word with negative connotations like “deficiencies” and I don’t use a word with positive connotations like “good” either!

We’ll try some neutral terms now, shall we? Let’s try just plain old “vegetarian kids”:

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Well now it tells us that if you plan it it can be very healthy! It gives ideas of what to feed your kids that isn’t just “lab grown mince” or whatever she said she thought vegetarians ate! Okay, let’s try another. Google, “vegetarian kids diet”:


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First up, Google has found us examples of foods that are rich in protein for growing children without the death of animals. Awesome! And I wonder what else it says if we scroll down further….


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So one could insinuate that someone as anti-vegetarian as Sarah might be a bit dense…

But I haven’t read the article, nor the research behind it, so I’ll take that claim with a pinch of salt!

You see how easy it is to make a search engine say what you want it to say?!

I have every faith that she will go on to pass her Psychology Masters in the knowledge that screenshotting page 1 of a Google search makes for a weighted argument.
 
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It’s quite telling that today she was referring to how this is her first experience of having bloods taken since pre-covid. Pre-covid is 4+ years ago now. So all these practically dangerously low or “almost borderline” levels she quotes are from basically half a decade old results?

Don’t people with diagnosed thyroid conditions generally get tested more often than that? Or is that just for cats?

Remember how she fundraised for her private treatment in 2021? And then showed “receipts”, dated 2017, 2018, and 2019…? We never did get confirmation about where that 2021 money went, did we?

Coming in from yesterday to say what we all know... those blood test results are almost all NORMAL. Nothing majorly wrong. The low D and folate can be fixed by taking a suppliment (as I suggested weeks ago), eating some green veg, and getting out in the fresh air.

All the thyroid ones are certainly NOT "low", they are at the lower end of the normal, healthy range. Perfectly fine.

All her symptoms are most definitely D and folate related - get that D level up and she'd be less in general aches/pains and have a much better immune system so won't get sick all the time.

Oh, and ETA... her whopping cough symptoms are identical to mine post-covid. Coughing til you heave/suck in air forcifully, almost passing out, clear mucus constantly draining from sore sinuses, lasting for weeks... it's post viral and completely normal.


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It’s quite telling that today she was referring to how this is her first experience of having bloods taken since pre-covid. Pre-covid is 4+ years ago now. So all these practically dangerously low or “almost borderline” levels she quotes are from basically half a decade old results?

Don’t people with diagnosed thyroid conditions generally get tested more often than that? Or is that just for cats?

Remember how she fundraised for her private treatment in 2021? And then showed “receipts”, dated 2017, 2018, and 2019…? We never did get confirmation about where that 2021 money went, did we?

I mean I could have told her she has low vitamin D just from looking at her face.

Something like 50% of the world's population have low Vitamin D. How remarkable.
 
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I mean I could have told her she has low vitamin D just from looking at her face.

Something like 50% of the world's population have low Vitamin D. How remarkable.
Yeah I took a private blood test recently and discovered my vit D is pretty low. Ordered myself some high strength Vit D + K2 olive oil capsules, they can be picked up quite cheaply. Job done, not complicated 🤷.
 
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Yeah I took a private blood test recently and discovered my vit D is pretty low. Ordered myself some high strength Vit D + K2 olive oil capsules, they can be picked up quite cheaply. Job done, not complicated 🤷.
The nhs should test for vitamin d levels, instead of telling everyone take a supplement, because how are you meant to know if you’ve taken enough or if it’s working!? My vit d levels were way lower than hers when I found out my level years ago, but I’ve paid for more tests since to keep a check on it. My consultant happily did it last time (which is great as the private test vastly increased in price) and the gp just won’t.
 
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At what point does changing your profile picture to a carefully angled and filtered face with heavy make up on, that is FOUR years old, become an attempt to catfish a Corey MK2?
 
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“WHO SAYS THEY EAT WHITE BREAD?!”

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“BROAD DIET!”

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“GOING BY ONE ALDI SHOP TO GET THROUGH THE LAST 4 DAYS OF THE MONTH”

That trolley is full to the brim of junk food and TWO (if not 3) loaves of… white bread.
If that’s how they eat on the last 4 days of the month, how do they eat on the first 26? I dread to think!
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“IS TWO DAYS INDICATIVE OF THE REST OF THE MONTH”

Takeaways on takeaways.
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Her digital footprint tells another story. The only person she’s kidding is herself. They all feel crap because they eat nothing but crap, and no amount of screaming BUT WE ARE HEALFY at the sky will change that. Consuming some vegetables might though.

When will she tire of trying to rewrite history? She seems to forget that she gives the world a well documented running commentary of her every meal/purchase/brain fart to refer to to expose her lying, deceiving, and delusion.

I’d get myself back to the anon account if I were her…
 

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The nhs should test for vitamin d levels, instead of telling everyone take a supplement, because how are you meant to know if you’ve taken enough or if it’s working!? My vit d levels were way lower than hers when I found out my level years ago, but I’ve paid for more tests since to keep a check on it. My consultant happily did it last time (which is great as the private test vastly increased in price) and the gp just won’t.
It might be worth contacting your ICB and asking about this as it shouldn’t be an issue. At work 🍉 we tested anyone who either hasn’t been tested for a while/symptoms suggest testing/ask for it and my GP adopts a similar approach. I live in an area with a notoriously tight ICB too. Mine are done automatically every six months at the same time as my (actually clinically hypo-) thyroid is tested.

If only she’d eat some veg and buy herself a cheap but decent vitamin d supplement (not the 400 iu the NHS dishes out, although that’s better than nothing) she’d feel a lot better, and look much less grey.
 
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“WHO SAYS THEY EAT WHITE BREAD?!”


“BROAD DIET!”


“GOING BY ONE ALDI SHOP TO GET THROUGH THE LAST 4 DAYS OF THE MONTH”

That trolley is full to the brim of junk food and TWO (if not 3) loaves of… white bread.
If that’s how they eat on the last 4 days of the month, how do they eat on the first 26? I dread to think!
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“IS TWO DAYS INDICATIVE OF THE REST OF THE MONTH”

Takeaways on takeaways.
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Her digital footprint tells another story. The only person she’s kidding is herself. They all feel crap because they eat nothing but crap, and no amount of screaming BUT WE ARE HEALFY at the sky will change that. Consuming some vegetables might though.

When will she tire of trying to rewrite history? She seems to forget that she gives the world a well documented running commentary of her every meal/purchase/brain fart to refer to to expose her lying, deceiving, and delusion.

I’d get myself back to the anon account if I were her…
Sarah, Squishy Squish and Choppy Chop have all been ill since these threads started 6(?) months ago!
 
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Sarah won't change her diet, it takes a lot of effort to make different choices when you're used to buying and eating rubbish.
Remember the carry on about snacks?
Kids need snacks, where are the snacks, blah blah. Nothing wrong with some biscuits or a small bag of chips but not constantly. Their insides must be so blocked up.
 
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Has she got a new oven yet? What happened with that? If healthy meals were a priority for her and her family you'd think she'd get it sorted. As it is I bet the lack of an oven gives her the perfect excuse for takeaways, crisp sandwiches and pot noodles for their meals.
Fair enough and who cares - but stop whinging on about chronic health ailments which mean the children can't get out of bed or fall asleep at school when a good diet and exercise would help. And wouldn't leave them so vulnerable to things like whopping cough.
 
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Has she got a new oven yet? What happened with that? If healthy meals were a priority for her and her family you'd think she'd get it sorted. As it is I bet the lack of an oven gives her the perfect excuse for takeaways, crisp sandwiches and pot noodles for their meals.
Fair enough and who cares - but stop whinging on about chronic health ailments which mean the children can't get out of bed or fall asleep at school when a good diet and exercise would help. And wouldn't leave them so vulnerable to things like whopping cough.
She has an air fryer, and one of those hob plates, and I’m sure she must have or could get her hand on (for less than £20) a slow cooker. There’s nothing she couldn’t make with that combo, the £600 oven she “needs” was only ever about grifting.

There is no reason she couldn’t be cooking better meals. The internet is full of free information and recipes. I get tonnes of inspo just from Instagram reels.
 
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Hold up, she’s gone all Liam Neeson again. She’s calling in a crack team of linguistics scholars. Better start chucking in the odd tpyo, folks.
 
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Maybe she doesn't want to be healthy, being sickly and pale is what she's used to.
Side note, I think one day I'll get whooping cough and accidentally call it whopping cough.
 
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Has she got a new oven yet? What happened with that? If healthy meals were a priority for her and her family you'd think she'd get it sorted. As it is I bet the lack of an oven gives her the perfect excuse for takeaways, crisp sandwiches and pot noodles for their meals.
Fair enough and who cares - but stop whinging on about chronic health ailments which mean the children can't get out of bed or fall asleep at school when a good diet and exercise would help. And wouldn't leave them so vulnerable to things like whopping cough.
It gives *her* an excuse but really it’s no excuse at all. I had no oven for years, combination micro and pressure cooker were perfectly adequate. We use the air fryer so much I’ve unplugged the wall oven now to save what electricity it being plugged in was using, as we just don’t use it. Having a timed device is way better from an adhd perspective. I also managed to home cook decent food through many years of vitamin d deficiency that was worse than hers.
Re the cough, I’ve had an awful cough recently. I had a few days of sounding awful, choking etc, like whooping cough really, but having had whooping cough, I’m immune. it was just a bad cough. Worse in the evening when the heating came on and I hadn’t vacuumed the bedroom for a few days.
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She has an air fryer, and one of those hob plates, and I’m sure she must have or could get her hand on (for less than £20) a slow cooker. There’s nothing she couldn’t make with that combo, the £600 oven she “needs” was only ever about grifting.

There is no reason she couldn’t be cooking better meals. The internet is full of free information and recipes. I get tonnes of inspo just from Instagram reels.
Exactly. Jacket potato and salad isn’t a bad dinner and you only need a micro
 
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Maybe she doesn't want to be healthy, being sickly and pale is what she's used to.
Side note, I think one day I'll get whooping cough and accidentally call it whopping cough.
I’m disappointed that #wbooping didn’t take off 🙁
I see she’s looking forward to getting infected now
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