Not sure if this thread is active but thought Iād give it a go
My best friend and I met around 7 years ago at a job. She was part time with a 1 year ago and we instantly clicked. I attended her wedding 6 months later and weāve basically been inseparable since. The issue (and I hope this doesnāt sound awful, so bear with me) is that sheās an elevenerife person, but with bad things. Your sad? Sheās depressed. Your tired? Sheās exhausted and can barely keep her eyes open.
She has two kids and has just qualified as a paramedic and sometimes acts as though she is the only person in the world who can be tired and has it worse than anyone. Lots of moaning on FB. I work a high demand job, and Iām renovating a house so I am naturally stressed but she never asks if Iām ok, or checks in. In the last 6 months I have to constantly reach out to see when sheās free, ask if sheās ok, and I never get anything back. Sheāll end with āyou?ā And I answer and a lot of time I just donāt get a reply. It really hurts too when I see her interacting with people on FB but not replying to a text.
I feel pathetic typing this at 29 but itās exhausting to keep the friendship alive when she doesnāt seem to give anything back. I donāt expect nor want constant chats or seeing each other because I understand sheās busy, but a simple āhey how are you?ā Would make a difference but itās non existent. Idk what to do.