I agree with all of this. We have an ok sized home, both my kids have their own bedrooms, got a garden, a decent sized garage that affords me a home gym and I still feel pangs when I see friends or acquaintances moving into bigger and better homes. Noone is pressuring me but myself.
90% of the time Im sensible enough to know my out goings are low, I LOVE the area I live in, have lovely neighbours and if anything happened God forbid we could afford to live here on a reduced income.
However you do see what other people are doing on social media and feel like its not enough. As I say those thoughts are fleeting but I do have them.
Not a chance Id want to be mortgaged up to the eyeballs right now, not with so much uncertainty over prices for everything