I couldn't find a thread about the house chores.
Who's responsible in your homes for doing what? Do you and your partner work?
I think I got myself into the house chores corner... We both work full time. My partner cooks and is responsible for the majority of the grocery shopping (we go together, but I hate choosing veg, I get cold in the fridge /freezer section) so I wander around looking for deals and I pick up an odd item.
We usually unpack the shopping together, but not always...
Anyway, I do everything else including putting my partner's clean laundry away. Often folded in a konmari way.
I like the house to be clean and organised which is why I took on the vast majority of the house work, but I find myself angry and resentful towards my partner.
I appreciate the cooking a lot and the fact that when I can't be bothered to get up, I can ask for a tea, drinks etc.
I feel terrible for being angry at my partner, but is cooking enough or should I ask for help in running the house?
Who's responsible in your homes for doing what? Do you and your partner work?
I think I got myself into the house chores corner... We both work full time. My partner cooks and is responsible for the majority of the grocery shopping (we go together, but I hate choosing veg, I get cold in the fridge /freezer section) so I wander around looking for deals and I pick up an odd item.
We usually unpack the shopping together, but not always...
Anyway, I do everything else including putting my partner's clean laundry away. Often folded in a konmari way.
I like the house to be clean and organised which is why I took on the vast majority of the house work, but I find myself angry and resentful towards my partner.
I appreciate the cooking a lot and the fact that when I can't be bothered to get up, I can ask for a tea, drinks etc.
I feel terrible for being angry at my partner, but is cooking enough or should I ask for help in running the house?