Hello!
my best friend is going through a bit of a rough patch with her long term boyfriend as he turned around and said he is unsure how he feels about her but thinks it is due to Covid and not being able to do things etc. We are meant to be going on holiday next year (cancelled from this year) and the following year to Florida! It’s been our dream since we were 10 years old and we are both now in a position where we can go!
She approached his Mother as she was upset in how he was being etc where his Mother said to ask him how he felt about her going to America. He said it was fine and that he knew it’s been in the pipe like for years etc. Since this though his Mother has now said about 3 times that she shouldn’t go on holiday with anyone but him because she is in a long term relationship!! His Mother has now said this so many times she is having doubts thinking he lied when asked etc! I personally don’t think it is and his Mother is just jealous and she doesn’t have a best friend and had no body to go away with etc but I feel she’s almost now brainwashed her!? He knows I’m so laid back on holiday and just want a laugh and to spend time with my friend, I never look to pull etc so he has nothing to worry about in that sense
I could probably cope with next year not happening but not Florida!! I know her relationship is more important than a holiday, but a holiday just under 2 years away is not a reason for someones feelings to change after all these years surely? Because it’s been a plan since we are 10, now we are in our late 20’s it would cause a massive move and there isn’t a reason to cancel, it’s cause of his bloody mum!!
Any advice?? Thank you!!
my best friend is going through a bit of a rough patch with her long term boyfriend as he turned around and said he is unsure how he feels about her but thinks it is due to Covid and not being able to do things etc. We are meant to be going on holiday next year (cancelled from this year) and the following year to Florida! It’s been our dream since we were 10 years old and we are both now in a position where we can go!
She approached his Mother as she was upset in how he was being etc where his Mother said to ask him how he felt about her going to America. He said it was fine and that he knew it’s been in the pipe like for years etc. Since this though his Mother has now said about 3 times that she shouldn’t go on holiday with anyone but him because she is in a long term relationship!! His Mother has now said this so many times she is having doubts thinking he lied when asked etc! I personally don’t think it is and his Mother is just jealous and she doesn’t have a best friend and had no body to go away with etc but I feel she’s almost now brainwashed her!? He knows I’m so laid back on holiday and just want a laugh and to spend time with my friend, I never look to pull etc so he has nothing to worry about in that sense
I could probably cope with next year not happening but not Florida!! I know her relationship is more important than a holiday, but a holiday just under 2 years away is not a reason for someones feelings to change after all these years surely? Because it’s been a plan since we are 10, now we are in our late 20’s it would cause a massive move and there isn’t a reason to cancel, it’s cause of his bloody mum!!
Any advice?? Thank you!!