Missy there's no need to be personal at all, I think I've been respectful to you even though I don't agree with your stance.
You don't know me or how intelligent I am or am not. You don't have to agree with me or share my opinion but you don't get to be aggressive towards me for having one and sharing it on a gossip forum.
If you can't play nice the moderators on this forum will not allow it so again, don't make it personal and attack me or others.
P.s. As it happens I am a feminist, I'm a woman and I support women and want to further womens' causes.
Feminist is not a slur.
I do not think that word means what you think it means. And you don't get to tell me what to think thanks.
Went away and came back because I'm just so... WTF?!
I mean... so women won't get raped if they are righteous, honourable, right with God, able to "see" and distance themselves from the ohh so easy to spot rapists and abusers, be able to defend themselves (Neo style from the matrix when it comes to situations involving multiple attackers I assume) from a larger and stronger attacker and a million other things too.
Right... great, got it, will remember to be and do all of these, gosh thanks so much for clearing up the rules of rape for me...
But if all else fails and the worst happens, it's cool because there exists somewhere in the world a wonderous place where women are believed and assaults are prosecuted and the criminals are always put in jail - coz the justice system is sooo good, and coz of God obvs! - and the victims are treated fairly and compassionately and not victim blamed or side lined or their experiences questioned or minimised at all!
No siree, no victim blaming here at all! Those women who didn't speak up are liars and asking for it or just didn't think it was so bad at the time or wanted to profit from something consensual that is being retrospectively reframed as rape or some such victim blame-y
tit
I just am
at the sheer certainty that comes from such ignorance of the reality of a) the world and b) sexual assault, rape culture, victim blaming and how the justice system fails victims on a grand scale.
Some of the comments are just awful, if you are a good and decent person you don't talk about people who may have had such traumatising things happen to them with such a lack of compassion, and to laugh!