I've only been on one hen do (my sister's) and I would never do another. It wasn't that bad really, just my idea of hell being surrounded by 20 women (17 of whom I barely knew!) We had a weekend in Liverpool, renting 5 apartments between us. I had to share with my mum, sisters MIL, and SIL, MILs cousin and a random friend who knew no one at all (who turned out to be absolutely lovely) MIL kept smoking in the apartment even though it was banned. SIL turned up late and was a diva throughout. MIL (the smoker) used girl who knew no one's toothbrush
Chief bridesmaid made us stump up an extra tenner each for cocktails and nibbles before we went out, ended up being a couple of bottles of rum and some cocktail sausages. There were really awkward games where we had to discuss our embarrassing sex stories (learned far more about my mother than I bargained for that night
) We dressed up in circus theme fancy dress (there were 12 mimes and 5 clowns, no one had communicated
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Cousin got drunk and threw up all over the VIP area of the club so we had to take her home early.
No one thought to arrange anything for the middle day in Liverpool so we broke off into separate groups and did our own thing. There were 2 different friendship groups and 2 family groups (plus the girl who knew no-one, who ended up with us) so it was really weird and we never felt like we really spent it together.
I'm definitely not having a hen do. Not like that anyway. Afternoon tea or a nice meal will be fine, no need for fancy dress or plastic willy straws for me, thank you!