So kinda different story but,
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me suddenly about 8 years ago. That was it. No real explanation. We kept in touch still every now and then but when I say I was heartbroken.. my god I was heartbroken. And he was always in the back of my mind.
I got with other men but it never lasted long. Then I met someone about 3 years after my first relationship ended. We bought a house together and everything and it seemed like the real deal.. but honestly deep down I knew I was never going to be with this man for the rest of my life. I loved him but every now and then I'd get a wave of thought that was something telling me.
We mutually ended and he actually moved abroad to fulfil some of his career goals. And then I randomly bumped into my ex (the one who broke up with me suddenly) after a few months we actually got back together and it was even better than before. We had grown as people, changed jobs, had time with friends. and came back together when it was better for us. Everything is divine timing. Be kind to yourself and from what I've experienced let yourself grieve. Over and over again if need be. Do not be ashamed of yourself!! Heartbreak is awful, and so difficult to deal with no matter the circumstance.
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me suddenly about 8 years ago. That was it. No real explanation. We kept in touch still every now and then but when I say I was heartbroken.. my god I was heartbroken. And he was always in the back of my mind.
I got with other men but it never lasted long. Then I met someone about 3 years after my first relationship ended. We bought a house together and everything and it seemed like the real deal.. but honestly deep down I knew I was never going to be with this man for the rest of my life. I loved him but every now and then I'd get a wave of thought that was something telling me.
We mutually ended and he actually moved abroad to fulfil some of his career goals. And then I randomly bumped into my ex (the one who broke up with me suddenly) after a few months we actually got back together and it was even better than before. We had grown as people, changed jobs, had time with friends. and came back together when it was better for us. Everything is divine timing. Be kind to yourself and from what I've experienced let yourself grieve. Over and over again if need be. Do not be ashamed of yourself!! Heartbreak is awful, and so difficult to deal with no matter the circumstance.