I couldn't agree more. It reminds me of when I asked my of asian descent colleague about her heritage, another colleague ticked me right off saying it's not appropriate to ask someone who is born in Britain where they are from.... I explained I was asking about her heritage because I am interested and got the long face. The girl herself was more than happy to talk about her grandparents and their life in x country.... People need to stop being offended on other people's behalfs. Harry's sexuality doesn't matter at all, but it's ok to wonder if he's gay