ive got a couple of free articles a week ; this is the intro; I’m going to read Scooby Doo’s interview with the Times
The mistrust, bitterness and resentment that led to the Duke and Duchess of Sussex leaving the country is revealed today in a book that lays bare the breakdown in relations between Harry and Meghan and the rest of the royal family.
The infighting and the suspicion became so bad that when the couple believed they were being blocked from seeing the Queen they considered breaking protocol by springing a surprise visit on her to plead their case after they flew back from their Christmas break in Canada.
Senior courtiers in other households, the so-called men in grey suits, were intent on reining in the popularity of the duke and duchess, even as they were “propelling the monarchy to new heights around the world”, the booksays.
Finding Freedom, serialised in The Times and The Sunday Times this weekend, goes so far as to claim that the royal “establishment” feared that Harry and Meghan’s popularity “might eclipse that of the royal family itself”.
The book, by Omid Scobie and Carolyn Durand, tells how Harry and Meghan’s relationship with the Cambridges reached such frostiness that at their final engagement in March, the Commonwealth service at Westminster Abbey, the two couples barely spoke even though they had not seen each other since January. “Although Meghan tried to make eye contact with Kate, the duchess barely acknowledged her,” the authors write.
In an interview with The Times, Scobie said: “To purposefully snub your sister-in-law . . . I don’t think it left a great taste in the couple’s mouths.”
The book is the most revealing account to date of what Harry and Meghan were thinking as they made their decision to step away from the royal family and live in California.
It describes how, in the early days of their marriage, they had “liked being in control of their narrative”. However, when they split their household from that of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and were told to operate under the umbrella of Buckingham Palace, it was “a big disappointment to them”.
The authors write: “As their popularity had grown, so did Harry and Meghan’s difficulty in understanding why so few inside the Palace were looking out for their interests. They were a major draw for the royal family.” Instead they had to take a back seat. Sometimes they would be told that their projects had to wait when the Prince of Wales or Prince William had an initiative or tour being announced at the same time.
They felt that their complaints got nowhere, and believed that other households leaked stories to the press. “There were just a handful of people working at the Palace they could trust . . . A friend of the couple’s referred to the old guard as ‘the vipers’. Meanwhile, a frustrated Palace staffer described the Sussexes’ team as ‘the squeaky third wheel’ of the Palace.”
There were hurt feelings on both sides of the family. The authors say that Harry and Meghan’s decision to keep everyone in the dark about their website “created a lot of ill will in the household and especially in the family”.
In Harry’s view, some of the obstructiveness by household staff was fuelled by antipathy towards his wife. According to one source, Harry felt that some of the old guard at the Palace “simply didn’t like Meghan and would stop at nothing to make her life difficult”.
Scobie says it was hard for her as a mixed-race American to join the family. “That was going to ruffle feathers.” He hints at racist attitudes in the household. “I would say that there are certainly individuals there who may like to take a look at how they view the world.”
Before leaving to spend six weeks in Canada at the end of last year, Harry spoke to Charles and the Queen about the need to change things. “He felt at once used for their popularity, hounded by the press because of the public’s fascination with this new breed of royal couple, and disparaged back within the institution’s walls.”
Once they were out of the country, they decided to step back as senior royals. However, when Harry tried to fix a meeting with the Queen at the beginning of January, he was told she was not available until the end of the month. As the couple flew home, “Harry and Meghan toyed with the idea of driving straight from the terminal to see the Queen”. However they decided not to, because it would have “ruffled feathers” and caused problems for them. Once back in England, they pressed ahead to reach a speedy agreement. “At this point they felt like they had brought up the subject enough times with family members over the past year and they were fed up of not being taken seriously,” a source close to the couple said. The Sussexes, who Scobie says are unlikely to return to the fold in Britain, felt “patronised” by the family and its staff.
For their part the Cambridges, according to a Kensington Palace source, were upset that family matters had been made public by Harry and Meghan. “It’s not anger,” the source said. “It’s hurt.” Scobie says that William remains angry at how their announcement was released on Instagram. Lockdown had “slowed down” any healing.
According to a source in the book, “the courtiers blame Meghan, and some family do”. However, as Meghan “tearfully” told a friend before they left for good: “I gave up my entire life for this family. I was willing to do whatever it takes. But here we are. It’s very sad.”
A spokesman for the Sussexes said: “The Duke and Duchess of Sussex were not interviewed and did not contribute to Finding Freedom.” Buckingham Palace declined to comment.
Finding Freedom: the mistrust behind Harry and Meghan’s departure
The mistrust, bitterness and resentment that led to the Duke and Duchess of Sussex leaving the country is revealed today in a book that lays bare the breakdown in relations between Harry and Meghan and the rest of the royal family.The infighting and the suspicion became so bad that when the couple b
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The mistrust, bitterness and resentment that led to the Duke and Duchess of Sussex leaving the country is revealed today in a book that lays bare the breakdown in relations between Harry and Meghan and the rest of the royal family.
The infighting and the suspicion became so bad that when the couple believed they were being blocked from seeing the Queen they considered breaking protocol by springing a surprise visit on her to plead their case after they flew back from their Christmas break in Canada.
Senior courtiers in other households, the so-called men in grey suits, were intent on reining in the popularity of the duke and duchess, even as they were “propelling the monarchy to new heights around the world”, the booksays.
Finding Freedom, serialised in The Times and The Sunday Times this weekend, goes so far as to claim that the royal “establishment” feared that Harry and Meghan’s popularity “might eclipse that of the royal family itself”.
The book, by Omid Scobie and Carolyn Durand, tells how Harry and Meghan’s relationship with the Cambridges reached such frostiness that at their final engagement in March, the Commonwealth service at Westminster Abbey, the two couples barely spoke even though they had not seen each other since January. “Although Meghan tried to make eye contact with Kate, the duchess barely acknowledged her,” the authors write.
In an interview with The Times, Scobie said: “To purposefully snub your sister-in-law . . . I don’t think it left a great taste in the couple’s mouths.”
The book is the most revealing account to date of what Harry and Meghan were thinking as they made their decision to step away from the royal family and live in California.
It describes how, in the early days of their marriage, they had “liked being in control of their narrative”. However, when they split their household from that of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and were told to operate under the umbrella of Buckingham Palace, it was “a big disappointment to them”.
The authors write: “As their popularity had grown, so did Harry and Meghan’s difficulty in understanding why so few inside the Palace were looking out for their interests. They were a major draw for the royal family.” Instead they had to take a back seat. Sometimes they would be told that their projects had to wait when the Prince of Wales or Prince William had an initiative or tour being announced at the same time.
They felt that their complaints got nowhere, and believed that other households leaked stories to the press. “There were just a handful of people working at the Palace they could trust . . . A friend of the couple’s referred to the old guard as ‘the vipers’. Meanwhile, a frustrated Palace staffer described the Sussexes’ team as ‘the squeaky third wheel’ of the Palace.”
There were hurt feelings on both sides of the family. The authors say that Harry and Meghan’s decision to keep everyone in the dark about their website “created a lot of ill will in the household and especially in the family”.
In Harry’s view, some of the obstructiveness by household staff was fuelled by antipathy towards his wife. According to one source, Harry felt that some of the old guard at the Palace “simply didn’t like Meghan and would stop at nothing to make her life difficult”.
Scobie says it was hard for her as a mixed-race American to join the family. “That was going to ruffle feathers.” He hints at racist attitudes in the household. “I would say that there are certainly individuals there who may like to take a look at how they view the world.”
Before leaving to spend six weeks in Canada at the end of last year, Harry spoke to Charles and the Queen about the need to change things. “He felt at once used for their popularity, hounded by the press because of the public’s fascination with this new breed of royal couple, and disparaged back within the institution’s walls.”
Once they were out of the country, they decided to step back as senior royals. However, when Harry tried to fix a meeting with the Queen at the beginning of January, he was told she was not available until the end of the month. As the couple flew home, “Harry and Meghan toyed with the idea of driving straight from the terminal to see the Queen”. However they decided not to, because it would have “ruffled feathers” and caused problems for them. Once back in England, they pressed ahead to reach a speedy agreement. “At this point they felt like they had brought up the subject enough times with family members over the past year and they were fed up of not being taken seriously,” a source close to the couple said. The Sussexes, who Scobie says are unlikely to return to the fold in Britain, felt “patronised” by the family and its staff.
For their part the Cambridges, according to a Kensington Palace source, were upset that family matters had been made public by Harry and Meghan. “It’s not anger,” the source said. “It’s hurt.” Scobie says that William remains angry at how their announcement was released on Instagram. Lockdown had “slowed down” any healing.
According to a source in the book, “the courtiers blame Meghan, and some family do”. However, as Meghan “tearfully” told a friend before they left for good: “I gave up my entire life for this family. I was willing to do whatever it takes. But here we are. It’s very sad.”
A spokesman for the Sussexes said: “The Duke and Duchess of Sussex were not interviewed and did not contribute to Finding Freedom.” Buckingham Palace declined to comment.
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