Oh my...only had a brief look, I'm guessing EC is anorexic, and frankly, at this point should be hospitalised. Kate is thin indeed, but has quite a lot of muscle and does not look ill. Yet. She has lost weight recently, but hoping it's just the stress of recent months, it must have taken its toll, some people lose weight when stressed. Two of my good friends were suffering from anorexia, both managed to get help and survived (although, tragically, one died later in an accident caused by a faulty gas installation) - but treatment is long and very difficult, and in most cases has to happen under full supervision, so not at home. I still remember standing in front of a mirror with the friend that is no longer with us, she was about 5ft6 and you could count her ribs just by looking at that stage. I'm 6ft1, at the time normal/slimish, but always a solid build, so not small - and she is looking at us both and telling me that her thighs are bigger than mine. She truly believed they were (they were absolutely not, not even close when she was at her normal healthy weight - I knew then she was very ill). We managed to get her help soon after that. It's an awful illness.