Criticising Grace or asking for some genuine transparency is not ‘dragging her down’ 
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Hahaha literally, if influencers want to call what they do their "job" they should be able to receive criticisms or even be "sacked" like you would in a job. Imagine any other job where you were doing awfully and breaking so many rules and you responded to valid criticism with "ur just dragging me down hun what happened to be kind!!!!!!!" The way they think they're untouchable makes me creaseCriticising Grace or asking for some genuine transparency is not ‘dragging her down’
duck that homeless geezer outside, we NEED to give this influencer a free coffee, seriously she deserves it
I haven’t read her book, but based on what I’ve seen, I genuinely think Florence Given is partly responsible for this new thing I’ve seen emerge of ‘don’t drag other women down’ or ‘invest your energy in uplifting other women not dragging them down’. People don’t seem to be able to differentiate between (valid and constructive) criticism of a public figure and bashing on someone for no reason.Criticising Grace or asking for some genuine transparency is not ‘dragging her down’
Of all the things I've heard about her this is the one that surprises me the least. Old money types are the worst tippers in the world.
Would you like to see what business insider subscribers are paying 10 smackers a month to read?
Grace beverley telling them to write down what they want to achieve and use the S.M.A.R.T method of setting goals. I literally learned this in gcse PE guys.
tit just keeps getting funnier
Grace beverley telling them to write down what they want to achieve and use the S.M.A.R.T method of setting goals. I literally learned this in gcse PE guys.
tit just keeps getting funnier
I WENT OFFLINE FOR A DAY
ONE DAY
AND THIS HAPPENS
...never again.
ONE DAY
AND THIS HAPPENS
...never again.
Ffs I learnt this in early secondary school too
hardly game changing advicewhat is with all this daily goals and affirmations crap that influencers spew these days, fair enough if it works but to me it just seems like what people playing business girl boss babe do to pretend they're actually doing something
Yes I totally agree. I can't remember if it was Grace's thread I said this on before or someone else's but I hate this new type of feminism which suggests that any kind of criticism of women is anti-feminist and we should all be lifting each other up, if you're talking bullshit I don't care if you're male, female or other, someone should be calling you out! It has nothing to do with her being female and it's another contradiction, while she's saying she does recognise her privilege she's then telling us off because we're criticising her as a woman? Make it make sense!
I really agree with whoever above said about her shallow understanding of privilege, as awful as it is if she has gone through abuse and has PTSD that doesn't detract from or lessen her privilege in anyway. This is exactly like people who cannot grasp that white privilege doesn't mean you haven't had hardship in your life, it means you haven't had it because you are white. Equally you can suffer abuse and PTSD and still be hugely privileged, which she is. While Grace is female and I don't deny that means she is less privileged than men, she is much closer to the male level of privilege as a white, rich, privately educated woman than she is to say, women of colour living in poverty. As much as she likes to bang on about ~ nuance ~ she sure as tit can't apply it when it comes to herself.
I am speculating that someone stalked her or severely bullied her online and threatened her safety. I think the cameras in her home are a result of someone attempting to harm her in or near the London apartment she rented out shortly before her final stretch of uni. And it coincidentally happened the same period of the break up. I recall her having to go to hospital when she lived in that apartment in London and that she had an allergic reaction which was caused by ptsd.
I was wondering something similar. I remember when she was living out of college in second year and she said that people would go outside her house and scream her name. It’s not a stretch that someone may have done something quite scary as a result of that.
Yeah that sort of traumas all together in a short space of time would prob cause it. However, the anaphylaxis caused by PTSD just simply aint true.
Yeah, that's my issue- like, I'm not saying anything one way or the other about the abuse she was apparently referring to earlier today, but for me personally, all the "lying by omission/ misdirection" doesn't incline me to believe anything that she DOES say, not at face value, that's for sure!
I'm not sure it's as simple as that. PTSD is really complex and can manifest in all sort of strange physical symptoms. If you have higher cortisol (stress hormone) levels due to PTSD, that can definitely impact your immune system and hence your allergic reactions. There's research into the links between immunological responses and PTSD and I can see that there are reports of stress-induced anaphylaxis, so I don't think it can be dismissed.
Her first taste of fame! And hooked on it ever since.
on this topic of abuse that she’s just suddenly sprung outa nowhere - can we just take a minute to recall how this is a typical behaviour of narcissists. resorting to self pity as a substitute for self esteem is so typical of people who want to play the “mistreated hero” in their reality which let’s face it is all about them.
the more this girl shows of herself the more clear her narcissistic behaviours become
the only time we hear of this ptsd is when she’s being challenged or confronted or having to address issues.
the rest of the time NOTHING abojt anything she does or embodies suggests someone who has suffered trauma
the more this girl shows of herself the more clear her narcissistic behaviours become
someone with actual ptsd doesn’t just talk about it when being confronted with their own fuckery tho let’s face it
the only time we hear of this ptsd is when she’s being challenged or confronted or having to address issues. the rest of the time NOTHING abojt anything she does or embodies suggests someone who has suffered trauma
I have no doubt that Grace is formally diagnosed with PTSD. She’s also a narcissistic, self serving head. I’m not really on board with the idea of people who ‘actually’ have x, y, z. Mental illnesses are complex and can present in a multitude of ways. I don’t think that should be dismissed, even if Grace is just bringing it up to manipulate.on this topic of abuse that she’s just suddenly sprung outa nowhere - can we just take a minute to recall how this is a typical behaviour of narcissists. resorting to self pity as a substitute for self esteem is so typical of people who want to play the “mistreated hero” in their reality which let’s face it is all about them.
the more this girl shows of herself the more clear her narcissistic behaviours become
someone with actual ptsd doesn’t just talk about it when being confronted with their own fuckery tho let’s face it
the rest of the time NOTHING abojt anything she does or embodies suggests someone who has suffered trauma
I’ve literally just finished reading FG’s book and unless I’ve missed something huge, I’d almost say her book was the opposite? It’s very much about setting your own boundaries and not standing for anyone not respecting them. In that sense I’d say it was the opposite as it’s about calling people out when they need it, not just uplifting anyone for the sake of it. I may be completely wrong as I don’t really follow her elsewhere on socials so this may be something she has alluded to, I have seen the whole ‘don’t drag any other women down’ thing though I’m not sure if it was her or not
On the contrary, people with real mental illnesses weaponise them all the time. Bad people can have mental illnesses and can whip them out to get sympathy. She first talked about the PTSD in a random Instagram post, not when she was being confronted about something. I don't think it's that deep, I think she has it but just brought it out at an inappropriate moment.on this topic of abuse that she’s just suddenly sprung outa nowhere - can we just take a minute to recall how this is a typical behaviour of narcissists. resorting to self pity as a substitute for self esteem is so typical of people who want to play the “mistreated hero” in their reality which let’s face it is all about them.
the more this girl shows of herself the more clear her narcissistic behaviours become
someone with actual ptsd doesn’t just talk about it when being confronted with their own fuckery tho let’s face it
the rest of the time NOTHING abojt anything she does or embodies suggests someone who has suffered trauma
And I detest the idea that if you have trauma you have to act like you've experienced it. Really don't mean to be rude here, but please educate yourself - so many mental illnesses, especially those linked to trauma, are not visible. What does it even mean to act like you've suffered trauma?
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