I'm an intersex person and it was actually nice to read this type of thread without my community being brought up as a debating point and then SLAP there it was, and the H word no less!
The use of hermaphrodite is typically seen as a slur by us. Can it stop being used in this thread because it is offensive as well as inaccurate since humans can only be pseudo-hermaphrodites?
Similarly to the n word, some intersex people use the word to describe themselves but I've never met anyone who accepts others using it to describe or label us. I doubt anyone here would refer to BAME or LGBT people using a term those communities regard as a slur so it makes me feel very anxious to see it thrown around here.
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There isn’t enough eduction or knowledge around. So i wouldn’t even know what to use to identify correctly.
Discussed on another thread how M to F trans people seem way more extreme and problematic than F to M and I highly agree.
I remember when Caitlyn Jenner was Bruce, Bruce played at a golf club that was men only and had no problem with it. Suddenly when she became Caitlynn, she was complaining that women couldn't play there. Lol. Can't have have it both ways. Didn't give a tit when she was a man and could play there but suddenly now she's a woman, she wanted it changed.
Caitlynn also voted for Trump. Woof.
I was going to like Jo's tweet but worried that anyone that saw it, even people I know, would go after me publicly. How fucked up is that? Men still managing to silence women and speak about their rights by transitioning to a woman (some not even fully transitioning but thinking they can talk for us). Bog off. I know not all M to F are like this but it seems MANY are.
Think it has to do with the hormone treatment. But I don’t know the fine details.
I have trans friends. but I never fully speak my opinion, as I know I be labeled transphobic.
I can understand, it’s heart breaking not feeling comfortable in their own skin. However I am a firm believer that you first need to find some sort of happiness in your assigned by birth sex. Believing changing your body will find you happiness is a dangerous, heartbreaking and life ruining gamble to take.
you be on hormone treatment the rest ofyour life. Whichhas its own emotional and physical downfalls.
maybe you still don’t pass “properly” for the“new”sex, regardles it’s not a perfect world you will come accord tension and possibly bullying.
those two points alone, could damage you mental health enormously. There are more points to make and I wonder in some cases if not most. It might actually be better to stay with the assigned at birth sex. As in end it gives less damage then a change would do
There is a documentary about transgender with regret. I think it’s great to watch. They also include people that didn’t regret it as a balance.
Its in dutch but with translation
Transgender with regret