Yep. Cut your losses. Accept that you probably won't ever see her again. More painful to keep hanging on being treated like muck.I’m sorry but if this was my kid, I sure as hell wouldn’t be driving her round all these universities and kowtowing to her demands to wait off site in case my presence made her feel uncomfortable. I would say fair enough, your’re eighteen, make your own decisions and finance your own trips to the colleges. I wouldn’t put up with being treated like a lackey.