Gender Discussion #57

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I have been following a page on Instagram for a while that shares a lot of TRA crap, detrans stuff and posts similar to we share on here.

It has been shut down for violating guidelines on child exploitation, abuse or nudity. Tells you everything you need to know about the trans rights movement, it's exploitation and abuse.
 
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So my new job is within the employability sector, working with people who need to find work. Today i was in a meeting with my line manager when i immediately clocked this bloke walking into the office with knee high heeled boots on (the area is thick with ice, so completely inappropriate footwear). I watched him out of the corner of my eye whilst he had his appointment with my colleague, he had a really deep male voice but was clearly trying to appear female (wasn’t working). Then after he left, as soon as that door shut, my manager said how we have to ask participants their gender even if it seems obvious ‘because that man there isn’t a she or a he’ and had a silent chuckle to myself since she still referred to him as male and clearly found it as ridiculous as we would. She then said my other colleague had had a nightmare when he was assigned to her with trying to keep up with his pronouns so he’s clearly been on the system for a while, no wonder he’s not getting employed…
 
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It's the combination of 'panties' being a porn-influenced word and also sounding so childish that I find repulsive.
It's just the word they use here in the US. I'm Australian, and it utterly repulses me. I can't bring myself to say it aloud. When I've broached this with American women, though, they just look confused and surprised and ask me what I call them instead 🤷‍♀️
 
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It's just the word they use here in the US. I'm Australian, and it utterly repulses me. I can't bring myself to say it aloud. When I've broached this with American women, though, they just look confused and surprised and ask me what I call them instead 🤷‍♀️
Yeah that’s my point, it’s not weird in the US but it’s not used at all in the UK/aus. Which begs the question where these men are getting it from 😷
 
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bleeping Metro 🤦‍♀️ Not only is it a TRA rag, it’s now using double entendres straight out of hardcore porn for Twitter LOLs.

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It's just the word they use here in the US. I'm Australian, and it utterly repulses me. I can't bring myself to say it aloud. When I've broached this with American women, though, they just look confused and surprised and ask me what I call them instead 🤷‍♀️
KNICKERS to the lot of them!
 
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bleeping Metro 🤦‍♀️ Not only is it a TRA rag, it’s now using double entendres straight out of hardcore porn for Twitter LOLs.

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The correlation between hardcore porn and violence for women is shocking. I’m heterosexual, but I’d be prepared to wager gay men don’t hurt each other in that manner (I know there’s often the submissive in the relationship and BDSM/other play happens, but often not to the point of leaving marks etc). Lesbians as well I doubt choke each other aggressively, for example. It’s disturbing and all driven by men :(
 
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WHAT! My American husband says double fisting means carrying two drinks at the same time. Apparently it's a common saying in the US. I always thought it sounded weird wtf 🤔
 
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WHAT! My American husband says double fisting means carrying two drinks at the same time. Apparently it's a common saying in the US. I always thought it sounded weird wtf 🤔
Yep, here it means drinking two drinks at the same time
 
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😂 Surely it can't be an expression that originated in the UK? I'm sure those other meanings are maybe tongue in cheek
 
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Can anyone recommend a book about menopause written by a woman who knows the difference between a woman and a pervert in a dress? I really don’t fancy reading about menopause and being inclusive of men….

ETA the idea of tiptoeing around men’s feelings while dealing with something that really blows up a woman’s life makes me so mad!
 
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I'm still not even 35 yet, but still remember the good old days when none of this would have been tolerated in schools before.

Why is the girl allowed to dress up like a cat?


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Sorry that is not HOT hun.

 
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The thing that's always glared out to me regarding sports, is that you never see them in sports that aren't divided by sex.

Equestrian sports are a good example, but if I bring that up people claim that's because trans people are more likely to earn less - the reality though is there isn't going to be much cost difference between equestrian and other sports at the top levels. Karl hester learned to ride on a bleeping donkey because his parents couldn't afford any kind of actual riding lessons and in 2012 took Charlotte Dujardin to the Olympics and broke records for her gold medal performance. A lot of higher level competitors ride other people's horses and never own one.

I personally am not rich but I've spent the last twenty years around horses, I've had my own, I can handle ferral colts, at one point I was jumping decently, I've had dressage instruction from an instructor who was taught by Karl Hester aswell.

I learned to ride western which isn't common in the UK (for none horsey folk, western is how you'll see them in a cowboy film sort of thing), western is what I'm best at and it never cost me a penny to learn or get involved with. If I wanted to now I could probably earn money teaching others in fact.

Anyway, the point of this me-rail is that despite there being sports that are accessible and not separated by sex , where their trans status wouldn't get them attention, controversy, where it wouldnt matter if they were built like a brick shithouse, I've never seen a trans person involved in one. But then, it also wouldnt affirm them or enable them to access women's spaces, and they don't have an advantage over female competitors. It's easy to see where the motivation is.
Can you imagine a trans woman rocking up to the yard. I’m picturing cheap see through white breeches, some sort of blingy pink base layer etc. while the rest of us look homeless 😂
 
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