I follow a hotel on Instagram, and they just posted a picture welcoming their new Senior Spa Therapist, Kate. My first thought on seeing the photo was "oh I wonder if that is actually a man? And if it is then there is no way I want to continue to follow this hotel let alone have any intimate spa treatments from Kate" and I am so upset that this is where this stupid gender woo has led me to question everything rather than just trust people to tell the biological truth

I hate that I have to question everything I see because I don't trust anything anymore.