@mozzarellagirl I’m feeling your pain being resident gender lecturer. The news came on and a Scottish transwoman was talking… long blonde hair but aside that, nothing screaming ‘woman’. My 3 year old asked, ‘Is that a boy or a girl?’ I said it’s a boy dressed up as a girl 🫠 then began my sermon.
My dad said, ‘So we need three toilets then really, male, female and other for people who don’t feel comfortable in either?’ Great plan Dad but it wouldn’t stop TRAs fetishists wanting to use the ladies to take selfies for ‘
duck TERFS’ Twitter.
I said that we aren’t collateral damage if MEN can’t be civil to other men regardless of what they look like. My mum ended the lecture with, ‘I think everyone’s switched off now’

I tried!
Not sure if this should be on the gender thread or the dating thread but I am beginning to question whether I will bother with men again. I’ve only dated one woman in my life but I feel like I am talking to brick walls with 98% of men. The ones who do care probably don’t deep down, or is that me being a cynic?