Gender Discussion #19

[Ruby’s mum]

I was going to say I think I must have been about 12 or 13!

Same here, I think I was 13 when a man on a very crowded tubetrain put his hand up my skirt and shoved his fingers up me. I was so ashamed I didn’t breathe a word to anyone til I was in my 40’s

 

[maytoseptember]

Saw these photos on another forum and god, they’re so depressing.

Spoiler: Bearded lady

I don’t see a trans man, I see a woman so desperate to run away from being female she doesn’t care that she looks like a circus freak show. So desperate to make herself as unattractive as possible, possibly due to SA. I see someone who is mentally ill and should not have been given testosterone in a month of Sundays.

Oh well, I’m sure the Tiktok exposure will result in a successful GoFundMe and Adonis will soon be able to get that double mastectomy.

Yes, she named herself Adonis.

 

[laurensanchez]

Here to vent my anger at a most iconic author being hounded. Will it take one of us being physically harmed or killed before the lobby is stopped?

And even then, it will be "oh it's not all trans activists". Fucking hell.

 

[nothanksbabes]

Pretty sure Brian May was more progressive than most given he was in a band with Freddie Mercury from 1970, only 3 years after being gay was illegal in the UK.

 

[maytoseptember]

Poor response from Zara. They are stricter when it comes to letting men in women’s changing rooms if there are Muslim women changing? That seems to be what I got from the article. “Our decisions also have to depend on the ethnic profile of the other customers in the room at the time.”

So we have to self-identify as coming from a more conservative culture if we want sex-segregated changing rooms? Noted

 

[judgejohndeed]

It’s beyond me how anyone can claim women aren’t being erased if all strong women from the past are being transed. Soon we won’t have any notable women in history left.

 

[eyespybs123]

Is that happening? Can you give me an example of women’s sex based rights being violated?

Maybe have a scroll through the last 19 threads?? There's numerous examples!

 

[SILKWORM]

no even then it will be "but trans people are more at risk"

And the actual reality that they don't acknowledge is that MOST trans TRAs are either obnoxious self indulgent uni students or 30+ white men and both of these demographics are chronically online.

Trans people who are at risk are overwhelmingly at risk by men. Not by Rowling or by wee ribbons.

 

[nothanksbabes]

First glance (never wrong) that’s a hulking great bloke in lipstick.

They'll say that there are loads of trans women we don't notice because they pass so well, but the reality is almost none of them pass, they just think they do because men think makeup and clothes are enough to make a woman.

 

[nothanksbabes]

Ok, as a trans inclusive lesbian I don’t understand how we’re being fucked over at all? All I see here are a bunch of bigots hiding behind misinformation in order to further their agenda. None of you here speak for me at all. I am shocked by the hysteria and hatred spewed on these threads. It reminds me of the homophobia of the 80s, and the apartheid of the USA and South Africa.

Do you know what apartheid was?

 

[thegirlscout]

They also seem to forget that “cis” women have been writing slash fiction on the internet for 20+ years and no one back then used to complain that they weren’t gay men and therefore had no business writing sex scenes

Also, did people see this on Twitter yesterday? Yet another woke period product company pandering to fetishists. They’re in so deep they can’t even see the absurdity of platforming a male wearing period pants to feel “more comfortable” during his fictional “period”.

This comment has me laughing - I refuse to take it seriously. Non man? Fuck off! The whole exchange under this is gold.

 

[emm]

I found the tweet!

I don't understand why it is not obvious to everyone someone like this needs to be in therapy not encouraged to act like this

 

[Northern northener]

I was peaked at pride 4 years ago.

A man who had had breast implants took his top off in the parade. A policeman told him to put his top back on because it was a family event. I have *never* seen a temper tantrum from a grown adult quite like it. His friends marched in the pub and attempted to whip up an impromptu riot. Everyone just ignored them but I remember thinking what spoiled entitled people they were. If I, as a middle aged woman, did the same (whipped my top off) i think they would have been stronger words said. I didn't know about GC then but the more I learn the more I see misogyny and narcissistic entitlement. I'll never stop talking about this nonsense!

 

[maytoseptember]

AGP men have been known to raid womens sanitary bins and stick used tampons up their arses. How’s that for nasty?

I also saw screenshots from one forum (whether it was general trans or specific period fetishists I can’t remember) of a man who said he’d worked out the cycle of the girl who served him at his local gas station, by regularly going through the sanitary bin in the women’s toilet. He went into precise detail about there only being one female staff member so he knew any pads he found belonged to her, and he knew exactly when to go back to get more.

Spoiler: Too gross for words

He would steal them and wear them. But that wasn’t enough. He liked to then go inside and speak to her at the counter, getting off on the fact that she had no idea that he was wearing her used pads. I think he used to describe peeing himself as he stood there too

These men are seriously degenerate and dangerous.

 

[Onetwofour]

That's funny that nothing has been done for women who cannot conceive because of some uterine problems but then we would consider to transplant uterus on transwomen? That would be crazy.

 

[weeweegie]

The girl guide stuff has shocked me. I didn’t know any of that. Just another example of how accepting trans women in to women and girl only spaces is a bad and potentially dangerous idea.

How did it get to this point? I thought we weren’t meant to stereotype genders? Dolls and pink and make up were for anyone, not just girls. And vice versa with ‘stereotypical’ boys things. Now that’s a sign they are in the wrong body?? Oh come on!! So it’s saying that a princess dress is inherently female? How utterly sexist!! The world is fucked if this is being published in black and white and is ‘guiding’ parents. A few years ago it was the opposite (and correct) message we kept hearing.

Signs your child may be trans, according to an expert — Business Insider

Trans children may understand their gender by the time they are four in supportive households. According to experts, trans children will often exhibit signs of their gender when they are even younger. Common signs include cross-gender play and dress and asking questions about their gender.

apple.news

 

[dodo789]

What in the actual fuck?!

Wasting period products for this is so ridiculous, they could just donate to women shelters and do some good for actual women for once but then obviously they‘re just narcissistic men who want to fetishise being a woman and feed their need for attention, so that will not be happening.

 

[CariettaWhite]

ok let’s go back to your hysteria. You feel children are being forced to be trans? I any examples of this ?


Yes do you?


A ha other than Karen White who have you got as a point

ok let’s go back to your hysteria. You feel children are being forced to be trans? I any examples of this ?


Yes do you?


A ha other than Karen White who have you got as a point

I’m glad you find men like Karen White amusing. Im sure his victims didn’t.
Why do you imagine single sex spaces existed in the first place hmm? Maybe because statistically women are more at risk from men? Regardless of what clothes they wear?

As for children being forced to be trans - you may want to read what I wrote again.

 

[SqualorVictoria]

Those lib fems can give out cheap and insincere compliments not because they actually mean them but because it's more about them "look at me being all accepting of this transwoman, aren't I so progressive and lovely and tolerant!"

 

[nothanksbabes]

He really sees himself as some sort of messiah figure doesn't he?

Also why do they think we don't want trans people to have healhcare? I want everyone to have access to good quality healthcare, just not to doctors like Harrop who feed their own god complex by advocating treatments for transgender people that we have seen are not evidence based and may well be harmful.