Gender Discussion #11

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a) he only put his pen on a woman's shoulder without permission because he thought it was funny
b) he was just trying to 'reduce the awkwardness' in shooting sex scenes (despite the fact that actors have said he did it constantly)
c) it was not sexual
d) he is in therapy because the backlash has been too hard for him
e) he is sorry for causing offense (rather than sorry he did it, classic non-apology)
He’s sorry he got caught. Like a true bully.
 
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It's because you're perceived as gay men (wrongly, in the case of AGPs.) This is discrimination against gay men, not trans "women"
 
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a lot of them claim their man made vaginas are immaculate and even better than bio women’s vaginas as they are perfectly designed and chosen, yet are afraid to show men because men can tell the difference because it’s a festering wound that is trying to close up and prone to infection.

I hope the thought that my tina doesn’t need to be lubricated, dilated and given antibiotic cream regularly because it is so prone to infection as it’s a wound, ruins their fantasy thoughts of ever being a woman.
 
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These people yelling about it being totally fine and normal for a child to see a grown adult male's pen are extremely strange. I don't understand how they don't ever stop and think about what they're saying and how weird it sounds.
I suppose its not necessarily abnormal for a child to see their father's naked pen, say in the bath or whilst changing... as a normal part of everyday life...
But there are and should be boundaries! Sadly I think those boundaries are currently.....all over the place!

I heartily dislike those changing rooms where you have to change in front of everyone, especially if there is a swimming pool and you have to change completely. or naked saunas etc etc...... I think it deprives me of choice! I end up changing in the toilets or showers! OK maybe I am a bit of a prude about my own personal nudity...but I cant see how this is wrong?

I dont really care about anyone elses nudity.....except......its too easy to look! I ve been to quite a few life drawing sessions in art, and got into the habit of looking at bodies! Or in art galleries, thinking of Lucien Freud and looking at and studying some of his large ladies bodies, So, I end up thinking, ooh thats an interesting tattoo over her boobs...I wonder how much it hurt! Or that body is an interesting proportion, or she has a long back, And staring....even though I know I shouldnt!

When you add children into the mix, especially young children, it is even more confusing! They need teaching about appropriateness, eg its not appropriate to run naked around Sainsburys whilst doing the shopping! They need teaching about personal space and politeness and boundaries.
How do you do this successfully if a child has an unknown pen shown to them!

The boundaries are there, and should be there for a reason.

I wouldnt go to this gym, or allow children i know to go either......I would vote with my feet!
 
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I was once in a shopping centre and this woman let her son who was around 5-6 go into the gents by himself and i said “would you not bring him in the ladies with you” and she looked at me funny as to say “why would I” and I was like “alright then” and it annoyed me because I genuinely do think men are far more deviant and predatory, and would see a small child in the toilet alone and take advantage.

But don’t listen to me tbh cause I honestly believe women and children should have the choice of living in a segregated world without men.
 
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my tina doesn’t need to be lubricated, dilated and given antibiotic cream regularly
Apparently if you make the tina out of intestine or mouth tissue then it is 'self-lubricating'... I kind of wish I didn't know this.


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Oh god, are they comparing a neovagina that produces gut secretions with a natal woman’s tina?
 
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Surgeons basically think neo vag surgery is butchery and don’t want to do it or deal with the problems afterwards, but would put their careers into a tailspin if they said no.

Source: real life surgeon
 
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Apparently if you make the tina out of intestine or mouth tissue then it is 'self-lubricating'... I kind of wish I didn't know this.


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Ew. Also the way some of these people talk is so gross. It's not a self-lubricating tina and you know it isn't. But keep acting like you're better than a "CiS wOmAn" because you've got your neovagina.
 
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I was reading this article: https://www.vogue.com/article/breathless-karley-sciortino-trans-sex

Where a transwoman describes sex with a neo vag. Sounded like her friends were basically giving them validation about how it feels tbh, which of course the TW gobbled up. But the most poignant part that this is just all a validation make believe exercise was this:-

It’s cliched because they’re mimicking, not living the experience
 

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I was reading this article: https://www.vogue.com/article/breathless-karley-sciortino-trans-sex

Where a transwoman describes sex with a neo vag. Sounded like her friends were basically giving them validation about how it feels tbh, which of course the TW gobbled up. But the most poignant part that this is just all a validation make believe exercise was this:-

It’s cliched because they’re mimicking, not living the experience
They're cosplaying at being women. It's like a cosplayer running up a pirate jacket and pretending to be bleeping captain Jack Sparrow. They think because they've copied the pattern and it's a similar fabric (it looks and feels and smells like leather, but it isn't leather) that it makes it the real deal. NO.
 
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They're cosplaying at being women. It's like a cosplayer running up a pirate jacket and pretending to be bleeping captain Jack Sparrow. They think because they've copied the pattern and it's a similar fabric (it looks and feels and smells like leather, but it isn't leather) that it makes it the real deal. NO.
I remember one of the delusional Buffalo Bill cosplay enthusiasts on twitter declaring that “Transwomen are the blueprint” The blueprint for what exactly? Real women? Y chromosome cretins.
 
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I remember one of the delusional Buffalo Bill cosplay enthusiasts on twitter declaring that “Transwomen are the blueprint” The blueprint for what exactly? Real women? Y chromosome cretins.
OMG you're right it is silence of the lamb vibes.
 
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All of this butchery will be considered obscene in the future. And no straight man who wants to have sex with a woman will want a neo tina. It’s barbaric doing this to people.
 
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All of this butchery will be considered obscene in the future. And no straight man who wants to have sex with a woman will want a neo tina. It’s barbaric doing this to people.
that whole description just reminds me of men who do stealthing i..e removing a condom without telling the partner
 
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I'm torn between feeling sorry for these women who have such low self esteem and utter disdain for how pathetic they are

 
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Why on Earth does she need to be good at cooking or fashion in the first place!? Why are they markers of being a ‘real woman‘? gah! It’s been said before but golly they turn to reductive gender roles a lot.
 
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Exactly. You know what, if a friend teaches me a new skill, that's great and I don't mind that. What I do mind is the feeling 'ashamed' and 'I'm so grateful you taught me how to be a real woman'. Absolutely pathetic, pitiful, and servile
 
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I suppose its not necessarily abnormal for a child to see their father's naked pen, say in the bath or whilst changing... as a normal part of everyday life...
But there are and should be boundaries! Sadly I think those boundaries are currently.....all over the place!
Yeah I mean, I meant in the context of changing rooms etc where it's not someone you're related to. But personally I grew up in a family where we didn't see our parents naked ever. I don't want to have children but if I did, I would raise them the same. I don't think it's necessary for children to see their parents naked so while I don't think there's anything 'wrong' with it per se I also don't really see why it would be done. I also worry that children might think e.g. Dad changing with me is normal so random man who is now wanting me to change with him is also normal? I appreciate this might be an unpopular opinion.
 
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