She also lied about how long they’ve been together last month, she said a year but I was convinced that it hadn’t been that long yet because of the fact that she and Jake got together shortly after my sister got with her boyfriend, and they’d hit the year milestone the week prior. Anyway my hunch is right cause it’s a year this month at some point 
I bring this up just because I think that it makes it quite obvious that to some degree, she’s self conscious about this arrangement and has some self awareness in terms of, they’ve been trying for a baby whilst probably only being together for 6 months onwards, which is absolutely mind blowing.
I truly believe you don’t actually know someone until you live with them or at least have been with them for many years, and so she and Jake really do barely know each other, they don’t spend every day together and probably have days where they’re apart for quite a few.
If Jake wasn’t the sperm donor from the hotel and their tale of meeting on Tinder is true, I hope that he was in the same position as her in terms of wanting a baby ASAP and hasn’t been gaslit, forced or pried into TTC with her. It’s a huge lifetime commitment and we all know how rotten Gemma can be when she feels someone has crossed her.
I can also see her turning resentful towards his children’s babymama when she needs him to look after his other 2. She’s not going to enjoy this dynamic, the novelty will absolutely wear off.
I bring this up just because I think that it makes it quite obvious that to some degree, she’s self conscious about this arrangement and has some self awareness in terms of, they’ve been trying for a baby whilst probably only being together for 6 months onwards, which is absolutely mind blowing.
I truly believe you don’t actually know someone until you live with them or at least have been with them for many years, and so she and Jake really do barely know each other, they don’t spend every day together and probably have days where they’re apart for quite a few.
If Jake wasn’t the sperm donor from the hotel and their tale of meeting on Tinder is true, I hope that he was in the same position as her in terms of wanting a baby ASAP and hasn’t been gaslit, forced or pried into TTC with her. It’s a huge lifetime commitment and we all know how rotten Gemma can be when she feels someone has crossed her.
I can also see her turning resentful towards his children’s babymama when she needs him to look after his other 2. She’s not going to enjoy this dynamic, the novelty will absolutely wear off.
