Fuller Figure Fuller Bust #7 crazy situation with birthing speculation, someone book her in to rehabilitation

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I do actually feel for her. We all think baby will fit in with our lives and when they don’t and we have to mould around them, it is a shock to the system. Especially when all the feeding falls to one person, it’s a big mountain to climb. I hope she realises that although she doesn’t feel like a superhuman, to that little baby she is everything and that’s pretty damn close.
 
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No one wants to see anyone upset like that and I’m glad she’s acknowledged that it’s hard sometimes. I think she really imagined that she’d be able to just carry on as she was before and clearly that’s not how it works.
I also think she’s now suffering from the fact that she’s isolated herself so much, if she’d not been so unbearable through the pregnancy then maybe people would be willing to give her a bit of support
 
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You know maybe Robbie is so frustrated that he probably never gets an opportunity with the baby that he’s telling her to formula feed.

I don’t get the whole “I need to cook” woe be me stuff, she can cook quite easily - she doesn’t need the elaborate slop on a plate - she could slow cook, make some nice sandwiches, make up some pasta salads, stuff that will keep for a few days. Maybe ask Robbie to do it?

What happened to the NCT mums? She’s literally sitting in her own filth doing nothing day in day out, living in her neuroses with a bleeping ribbon on the buggy and no one is saying anything to her. She needs to get off her phone, put her child down every now and again or even visit her local sling library for help and then maybe I’ll feel a bit more sorry for her.
 
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I am sorry but this is ridiculous. I get she's tired and I have no problem with bottle feed but how do they think it's THE solution?
It's not breastfeeding fault if you're not organised at all, a mess living in a messy place and isolated. And your husband living in the same house but like he is a roommate apparently.
 
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That freshly washed bedding still looked grubby (we know that’s George’s favourite word) I’m just glad to see that baby looks like she’s being kept clean and tidy so far
 
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You know maybe Robbie is so frustrated that he probably never gets an opportunity with the baby that he’s telling her to formula feed.

I don’t get the whole “I need to cook” woe be me stuff, she can cook quite easily - she doesn’t need the elaborate slop on a plate - she could slow cook, make some nice sandwiches, make up some pasta salads, stuff that will keep for a few days. Maybe ask Robbie to do it?

What happened to the NCT mums? She’s literally sitting in her own filth doing nothing day in day out, living in her neuroses with a bleeping ribbon on the buggy and no one is saying anything to her. She needs to get off her phone, put her child down every now and again or even visit her local sling library for help and then maybe I’ll feel a bit more sorry for her.
She is like depressed but truth is she was before having the baby. It should be the happiest times for them. I know she hasn't her mum (I lost mine too before having children, my father was living in another country and died about 2 months before I had my second child, and my step parents live 10 hours flight from here). We don't choose all our circumstances but the baby is here, healthy and all.

They're right, they need help, they definitely need to recollect.
 
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Long time lurker. Just gone for a lurk and she’s blocked me 😂 who has time for that? I don’t and I don’t have a newborn 🤣
 
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She is like depressed but truth is she was before having the baby. It should be the happiest times for them. I know she hasn't her mum (I lost mine too before having children, my father was living in another country and died about 2 months before I had my second child, and my step parents live 10 hours flight from here). We don't choose all our circumstances but the baby is here, healthy and all.

They're right, they need help, they definitely need to recollect.
She does have her mum as well as her dad and her sister. The fact she has badmouthed her mum all over SM during her pregnancy has no doubt caused her issues- all self inflicted !

And before anyone comes at me, I'm aware she is not her natural mother but she is the woman that has brought her up since she was 4 so yes she is her mum!
 
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She does have her mum as well as her dad and her sister. The fact she has badmouthed her mum all over SM during her pregnancy has no doubt caused her issues- all self inflicted !

And before anyone comes at me, I'm aware she is not her natural mother but she is the woman that has brought her up since she was 4 so yes she is her mum!
I’m not a fan of G, but that’s a ridiculous comment. Regardless of how long she’s been in her life, if she doesn’t see her as her mum, she isn’t her mum.

As an aside, I hope wet blanket Robbie is supporting her emotionally. It’s one thing chucking ideas at a new mother (let’s just get someone in, we can’t go on like this etc) and it’s another actually supporting her with the emotional strain of it all. She’s an annoying twit but I feel a bit sorry for her.
 
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I’m not a fan of G, but that’s a ridiculous comment. Regardless of how long she’s been in her life, if she doesn’t see her as her mum, she isn’t her mum.

As an aside, I hope wet blanket Robbie is supporting her emotionally. It’s one thing chucking ideas at a new mother (let’s just get someone in, we can’t go on like this etc) and it’s another actually supporting her with the emotional strain of it all. She’s an annoying twit but I feel a bit sorry for her.
Ridiculous comment ? Cheers for that!
 
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Ridiculous comment ? Cheers for that!
Its not a ridiculous comment at all - she had a mother figure I’m sure would be more than happy to support her, who she called mum until she cunted her off all over social media. She’s committed to being on her own and it’s down to her being insufferable
 
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I do feel for her. It is hard and a shock, and particularly as her life was very breezy before with long lie ins and no 9-5 etc. Her time was 100% her own compared to a lot of first time mums with full time jobs etc and now it’s absolutely not. But I don’t know why she’s still insisting on not seeing anyone. Being isolated isn’t going to help. It can be really cheering to see a familiar face and socialise with another adult again, and bonus if they hold/watch the baby while you have a shower or a quick nap. Locking herself in her room (hers, not theirs) with dirty sheets and getting upset about not cooking isn’t going to help. Robbie is clearly frustrated as he can’t help feed, but he’s offering solutions and must be annoyed when she rejects them but continues to be upset/struggle. This stage can put a big strain on couples.
 
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I’m not a fan of G, but that’s a ridiculous comment. Regardless of how long she’s been in her life, if she doesn’t see her as her mum, she isn’t her mum.
She doesn’t have to see her as her mother but it’s another potential area of support, George has alienated everyone with her rudeness, superiority complex, narcissism and thinking she’s the expert on everything. She’s rude about her step mother on Twitter and she said she didn’t want anyone but her holding the baby, complained about people buying her gifts for the baby or anything that wasn’t food vouchers, she’s made her grubby pit and now she’s festering in it her isolation is her own fault she pissed people off long before she was pregnant now she has no friends.

I wouldn’t put it past her to give people birth photos, she’s definitely going to be the parent that gives everyone gifts with childs photo on them.
 

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I’m also surprised her no 1 priority is thank you cards. Nobody is expecting that from her right now, why put pressure on yourself.
it just shows all her silly jokes and memes were desperately trying to mask how hard she’s finding it. Which is fine, it is hard! But she’s been working so hard to make it look breezy and hilarious.
 
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I did have a feeling Robbie had just gone back to work and that’s why we’ve seen more of her on her own talking about cooking etc. It’s always when reality hits when partner goes back to work, she needs to remind herself of her privilege though here I feel! He’s had 4 weeks off, double the amount of time most get, she’s taking about hiring a post natal doula and/or cleaner to lessen her load which is a massive privilege to have the means to do that.
it isn’t nice to see anyone upset but apart of me is glad she’s had this wake up call and struggle to feel sorry for her as she doesn’t recognise how massively privileged she is.
 
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I wonder if his parents have even been allowed to see the child. If they haven't that'll be a major bone of contention in that house. It would hurt most grandparents if they weren't allowed to see their newborn grandchild after over a month. A child can make a relationship but they can also break it (through no fault of their own I should add). I've said it before and will again.. I'd be shocked if those two are still together in 10 years. I just think that one day he'll just think that life doesn't have to be like this.
 
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Its not a ridiculous comment at all - she had a mother figure I’m sure would be more than happy to support her, who she called mum until she cunted her off all over social media. She’s committed to being on her own and it’s down to her being insufferable
Thank you @urghmummybloggers , those of us that have followed her for a while have long memories with regards to her really vile words and attitude towards her (step) mum..the most recent George plastered all over Twitter and were absolutely shameful how she spoke about her.
 
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I’m not a fan of G, but that’s a ridiculous comment. Regardless of how long she’s been in her life, if she doesn’t see her as her mum, she isn’t her mum.

As an aside, I hope wet blanket Robbie is supporting her emotionally. It’s one thing chucking ideas at a new mother (let’s just get someone in, we can’t go on like this etc) and it’s another actually supporting her with the emotional strain of it all. She’s an annoying twit but I feel a bit sorry for her.
You're right but she used to call her mama in the photos few years ago.

I do feel for her. It is hard and a shock, and particularly as her life was very breezy before with long lie ins and no 9-5 etc. Her time was 100% her own compared to a lot of first time mums with full time jobs etc and now it’s absolutely not. But I don’t know why she’s still insisting on not seeing anyone. Being isolated isn’t going to help. It can be really cheering to see a familiar face and socialise with another adult again, and bonus if they hold/watch the baby while you have a shower or a quick nap. Locking herself in her room (hers, not theirs) with dirty sheets and getting upset about not cooking isn’t going to help. Robbie is clearly frustrated as he can’t help feed, but he’s offering solutions and must be annoyed when she rejects them but continues to be upset/struggle. This stage can put a big strain on couples.
Because, let's face it, she has no real friends. She fell before with the little ones she had and cut on Robbie's friends too. And not everybody has Robbie's patience for her.

I wonder if his parents have even been allowed to see the child. If they haven't that'll be a major bone of contention in that house. It would hurt most grandparents if they weren't allowed to see their newborn grandchild after over a month. A child can make a relationship but they can also break it (through no fault of their own I should add). I've said it before and will again.. I'd be shocked if those two are still together in 10 years. I just think that one day he'll just think that life doesn't have to be like this.
She said they live quite far away and Robbie's mum is not well.
 
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I also can’t help but think Robbie might need to step up a little more and support his wife personally rather than suggest bringing strangers into a home that his wife wants to keep private right now. Why isn’t he cleaning and tidying and meal prepping for her for the next day while she’s feeding/being up at night with baby?
 
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